Look if you're fat and you don't like it change it. I was fat, didn't like it so I lost 70lbs (240-174). I gained a lot back in muscle I'm 215 lbs with 15% body fat vs 240 30% body fat. If you are fat and you don't have any pressing health issues and you are happy good for you. Even with all the weight I lost and got lean as sh** I STILL can't get the time of day from girls. Even fat ones. So f**k it I'll just have to improve myself some more. Its all about the self development to get the life you want the only person you truly have to blame for the state of your life is yourself because you can always change.
Personally I much prefer bigger girls for multiple reasons.
1) They don't act like they are God's gift to the world, they much more grounded, less maintenace
2) I much prefer curves, and bigger girls having much better shape to their body
3) they are much more confident (in my expierence) and have learned to love themselves, which is a lot better because they won't annoy you with stupid questions about how they look, because your relationship is more than that, looks are a minimal part of the relationship
It's a matter of preference. I have been skinny my entire life, at 6 3 I was 140, I realized this wasn't attractive to women so I quit running and started lifting, now I am 170 with 8 % bf and I still have 30 lbs to go. To me a fat girl just seems lazy and unwilling to change. Fat acceptance is a ridiculous concept, fat will never be preferred over slim in a modern society, especially for women's level of attractiveness. My biggest problem with fat girls is that they use the word curvy because it insults curvy women who actually are most men's preference. Examples of actual curvy women are beyonce, Kim Kardashian, Scarlett Johansson (hottest girl ever.). The average American girl is 5'4" and weighs 165. I'm 6'3" and looked awesome at 165 with a low bf. So if I'm a foot taller than the average girl and weigh the same amount then I consider that a problem.
I lived my chubby child and preteen-hood thinking I was unlikable, unlovable, disgusting... yada yada. When I was 17 I met a guy who told me the day he met me that size didn't matter to him. he had no preference, only that there was a size limit and if he had to take his girl to the wedding in the back of a pickup truck, she was too big. we ended up dating... and he always tells me I am beautiful, dispite my nearly 200lbs... he sees everything that makes me beautiful, not just fat. there are guys out there like that... that don't care, and as long as she loves him, no fat could make her less worthy for him to love her back. I am pregnant now, I've lost 20lbs, amd i can't wait to lose more after i give birth... not for any man or boy, or for my fiance, but so I can look in the mirror and be pleased with myself. nobody else really matters.
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I think the curvy girls you're talking about aren't curvy in a guys eyes, they're "fat". Curvy girls have weight, but if it folds over the waist on the jeans, then the line is drawn I think.
Honestly, I believe in taking care of your body. If a girl is overweight or has big love handles or a gut that overhangs her pants, then she isn't taking care of herself. I don't think it is attractive at all. When I put my arm around a girl, I want to feel her back, not her fat.
I picked choice C, but its not like I wouldn't go out with a girl if they have a little extra weight. I would just prefer skinnier girls. It really doesn't make that much of a difference to me though, as long as your not obese.
In that case curvy in most girls eyes means fat. The amount of times i've seen girls call guys that are clearly chubby bums not fat are countless, if it wobbles it's fat and not a lot should wobble!
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Chubby girlz are the best more to hug in my case, even if they are alittle overweight or curvy turns most guyz on chance are if your curvy or fat chubby wateva you will find a good man :)
i myself would love 2 find a BBW or chubby round girl its so much betta than a twig so don't worry being overweight is great ! :)
I'm sorry but fat does not equal curvy And it's a matter of preference Women can not tell a man what he should or should not like in a woman. That is why I get so tired of hearing women put body types down
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I absolutely love fat girls. Curvy girls are good but the further it hangs over ther jeans waistline the better! I am in a relationship at the moment with a slightly curvy girl but I think I want to get out because she doesn't enjoy my company enoug :( but I really like bigger girls. Hope that helped.
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I believe that it is human nature to be attracted to what is considered average or normal. Since being overweight is not considered normal, people naturally are not as attracted to it.
Personally, I find slightly bigger girls more attractive, although it is personal preference, some like extra fat and some don't.
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sorry I'm a little late on this one... anyways here's another question in response to the answers given to this one. What if you have buff or should I say man shoulders that really make you look bigger and less fragile then you really are? I mean I'm not huge but not skinny. I just have some curves, but not major ones, and my shoulders really make me look more manly. And trust me I am not going for that look.
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the one I dated smell bad, no matter how much shower she took still smell bad.
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Look if you're fat and you don't like it change it. I was fat, didn't like it so I lost 70lbs (240-174). I gained a lot back in muscle I'm 215 lbs with 15% body fat vs 240 30% body fat. If you are fat and you don't have any pressing health issues and you are happy good for you. Even with all the weight I lost and got lean as sh** I STILL can't get the time of day from girls. Even fat ones. So f**k it I'll just have to improve myself some more. Its all about the self development to get the life you want the only person you truly have to blame for the state of your life is yourself because you can always change.
Personally I much prefer bigger girls for multiple reasons.
1) They don't act like they are God's gift to the world, they much more grounded, less maintenace
2) I much prefer curves, and bigger girls having much better shape to their body
3) they are much more confident (in my expierence) and have learned to love themselves, which is a lot better because they won't annoy you with stupid questions about how they look, because your relationship is more than that, looks are a minimal part of the relationship
would you date fat
It's a matter of preference. I have been skinny my entire life, at 6 3 I was 140, I realized this wasn't attractive to women so I quit running and started lifting, now I am 170 with 8 % bf and I still have 30 lbs to go. To me a fat girl just seems lazy and unwilling to change. Fat acceptance is a ridiculous concept, fat will never be preferred over slim in a modern society, especially for women's level of attractiveness. My biggest problem with fat girls is that they use the word curvy because it insults curvy women who actually are most men's preference. Examples of actual curvy women are beyonce, Kim Kardashian, Scarlett Johansson (hottest girl ever.). The average American girl is 5'4" and weighs 165. I'm 6'3" and looked awesome at 165 with a low bf. So if I'm a foot taller than the average girl and weigh the same amount then I consider that a problem.
I lived my chubby child and preteen-hood thinking I was unlikable, unlovable, disgusting... yada yada. When I was 17 I met a guy who told me the day he met me that size didn't matter to him. he had no preference, only that there was a size limit and if he had to take his girl to the wedding in the back of a pickup truck, she was too big. we ended up dating... and he always tells me I am beautiful, dispite my nearly 200lbs... he sees everything that makes me beautiful, not just fat. there are guys out there like that... that don't care, and as long as she loves him, no fat could make her less worthy for him to love her back. I am pregnant now, I've lost 20lbs, amd i can't wait to lose more after i give birth... not for any man or boy, or for my fiance, but so I can look in the mirror and be pleased with myself. nobody else really matters.
I think the curvy girls you're talking about aren't curvy in a guys eyes, they're "fat". Curvy girls have weight, but if it folds over the waist on the jeans, then the line is drawn I think.
I agree
It's got nothing to do with stereotypes or personality.
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It's just not attractive...
Honestly, I believe in taking care of your body. If a girl is overweight or has big love handles or a gut that overhangs her pants, then she isn't taking care of herself. I don't think it is attractive at all. When I put my arm around a girl, I want to feel her back, not her fat.
I picked choice C, but its not like I wouldn't go out with a girl if they have a little extra weight. I would just prefer skinnier girls. It really doesn't make that much of a difference to me though, as long as your not obese.
In that case curvy in most girls eyes means fat. The amount of times i've seen girls call guys that are clearly chubby bums not fat are countless, if it wobbles it's fat and not a lot should wobble!
Chubby girlz are the best more to hug in my case, even if they are alittle overweight or curvy turns most guyz on chance are if your curvy or fat chubby wateva you will find a good man :)
i myself would love 2 find a BBW or chubby round girl its so much betta than a twig so don't worry being overweight is great ! :)
Would you date me I am 165 pounds and 5'1 and most guys wouoldnt date me because they say I am fat
I'm sorry but fat does not equal curvy
And it's a matter of preference
Women can not tell a man what he should or should not like in a woman. That is why I get so tired of hearing women put body types down
I absolutely love fat girls. Curvy girls are good but the further it hangs over ther jeans waistline the better! I am in a relationship at the moment with a slightly curvy girl but I think I want to get out because she doesn't enjoy my company enoug :( but I really like bigger girls. Hope that helped.
I believe that it is human nature to be attracted to what is considered average or normal. Since being overweight is not considered normal, people naturally are not as attracted to it.
True
Personally, I find slightly bigger girls more attractive, although it is personal preference, some like extra fat and some don't.
sorry I'm a little late on this one... anyways here's another question in response to the answers given to this one. What if you have buff or should I say man shoulders that really make you look bigger and less fragile then you really are? I mean I'm not huge but not skinny. I just have some curves, but not major ones, and my shoulders really make me look more manly. And trust me I am not going for that look.
the one I dated smell bad, no matter how much shower she took still smell bad.
Yikes :(
what if you bigger and you shower and you smell good would you date one
Lol. That's more than being overweight. That's called the clap. Skinny girls get it too. Lol.
i have a phobia for skinny girls!lol!i've always had larger girlfriends,and I don't find skinny girls that enjoyable.
i think a softer,full figured is so much more pleasant than some skinny chick:D
plump girls, slim girls, a bit over plump - who cares, if they're nice, they're nice - end of.
Thick girls are the best kind. They are much sexier than skinny/normal weight girls.
Well, i prefer fat girls so i wouldn't know why people have a problem with fat girls