Guys, do you look at platonic girl friends cleavage?

[Anonymous]

Basically the question above. If she shows a lot one night do you have trouble focusing on her face still, or does this only happen when you're attracted to her or when you think of her as more than a friend?

Yes, always

Yes, but only if i find her attractive

Yes, but only if I'm interested in her as more than a friend

No, never

Girls, check results

[Anonymous]

If she is just showing off her chest who cares. If I want to look at boibs I'll look at porn. Now if she bent over and accidentally showed more than she wanted that is another story.
If your showing off and he can't keep his eyes off of you there is a red flag there. Either he can't control himself and needs to work on controling his eyes. Or he most likely is now smitten by you and your Hot in his eyes. Or he has a crush on you.
From the question I'm going with 1 he has trouble controling his eyes.

[Asker]

Is there anyway I can tell if it's option number 2/3?

[Opinion Owner]

Well you could try flirting with him. You could try asking him or you could casually ask him. If his eyes go back down after you told him that your face is up there then he is probably more attracted to your chest than you.

[Asker]

I didn't even notice him looking actually, he told me on a different day that he noticed and had to make a conscious effort for eye contact

[Opinion Owner]

Well then he is your friend. If you like him go for him. You know that he is decent enough to let you know about something like that. He is also complimenting you.

[Asker]

Ok thankyou :)

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome good luck with him.

[bjstevenson89]

Do you really think that a guy and girls are just platonic friends? Of course he's checking you out.

[Asker]

Yes I do, I have guy friends I'm completely platonic with and I know they feel the same way.

[bjstevenson89]

If that's the case then you can say with certainty that if you randomly called any of them up and said that you wanted to spend the night with them with no strings attached they would all turn you down. Male friends are guys who either like you and don't have the balls to say anything, or they think your unattractive (Or they are your gay friends). On the boobs subject, of course your friends look, they're men and you have boobs.

[Asker]

I could say that comfortably for a few of them, as they view me like a sister and they have told me that before. Also finding a girl attractive enough to have a one night stand with, and liking her and wanting to be in a relationship are totally different things. I could see some probs down for the one night stand out friends with benefits but nothing more than that.

[bjstevenson89]

Guy friends are basically relationships without the sex. The only difference being that one party isn't physically attracted to the other.

[Asker]

What about guy coworkers who you hang out with in a group outside of work? You're forced to be friends cause of work, not cause you like them.

[bjstevenson89]

Right, on the clock you're paid to be professional and nice to each other. If you've ever hung out with any of these guys one on one then that's a groupie. If it's just a group thing then people don't want to be the weird one in the office who doesn't socialize with others so of course they go. Just don't get that confused with a true friend though. Friends are people you share yourself with outside of professional affairs. If you hang out with any of them one on one then of course they like you. Why do you think guys women date hate when their chick has guy friends? Men know other men, and just because you would never see them that way doesn't mean they wouldn't take the first chance to jump your bones.

[Asker]

Okay, well I have one friend, who we work together, we're also going away on a three week trip together, we've also hung out alone just us two. He was also getting very distracted by my cleavage the other night and he told he was. I'm interested in him as more than a friend, and by what you're saying, you'd think he was interested, but he's never made a move on me?

[bjstevenson89]

If he likes his job he'll never make a move on you. It's an awful idea to date from work. This is how men end up in HR, or in sexual harrasement lawsuits. It sounds silly but if this ends badly then he will almost certainly be the one to pay the price. It sounds like he's not really worried about all of this though and he's just not man enough to ask you. If you insist on trying to date then you'll have to be the aggressor, if he's your "friend" then he doesn't have a ton of confidence as is.

[Asker]

He hates the job lol, we just work in a supermarket while we're studying. And he was really shy when we were younger which is when we became friends and stayed like that for years, but now he's kinda got over his shyness and we've become closer friends but that is about it. I'm not sure if he wants something more though and don't wanna ruin the friendship trying something.

[JenSCDC]

Guys have a natural tendency to look at breasts- how many conversations have you been it where the guy's eyes keep on dropping from your face? It can actually be hard for them not to do so - one male fried actually told me that sometimes he'll have to silently repeat "Must not look at boobs. Must not look at boobs" when he talks to an attractive woman!

[SarahsSummer]

i hink a guy will look at any cleavage whether he's attracted to her or not. He may not have even seen her face yet to know if he's attracted. Just the boobs. lol

[Asker]

Yes, but assuming they are friends, I'd say he's seen her face lol. I thought maybe once they thought of us as friends or like sisters they wouldn't look, or think of it the same way, but I guess not from what the guys are commenting haha

[JulieXO]

My straight best friend always checks out my boobs and butt, even tough I'M 100% sure he wants nothing from me,

[Browneye57]

Most healthy guys will look at all women's tits. We like 'em. All kinds. If you're gonna hang 'em out there we're gonna look at 'em.
Most healthy guys will look at any women and decide in their mind right then and there 'would I bang them - hell yes, or hell no'.

Women in general find difficulty in understanding the concept of male sex drive. In reality it is impossible - they will never have 15 to 20 times more testosterone coursing through their system. They just cannot relate.

[Asker]

Yeah I definitely could not relate haha. Question, how do you know if you're a hell yes, or a hell no?

[Browneye57]

You don't. It's going to be personal taste for each guy. Most of us have a particular 'type' or 'look' that we like. For example, I like a full-figured brunette. Some guys like skinny, some are into butts or boobs, or a particular hair color. But everybody likes boobies.
Guys tend to be very visually stimulated, and the female form is always attractive.

[AhGojira]

If you're showing off your boobs guys are going to look at them...

If a guy walks around with his dick hanging out of his pants are you going to notice it?

[Asker]

Notice it, sure, but continue looking, probably not

[AhGojira]

hahaha yeah right, you're going to just stand there acting like everything is normal with his dick hanging out. :D

[Asker]

Lol I definitely wouldn't act like its normal, but most girls don't wanna see some random guys dick hanging out lol 😂😂 so I feel like the situation is different

[AhGojira]

Well if you're boobs are all out there guys are going to keep looking at them. It doesn't mean much more than that.

[Asker]

I assume random guys will yes, but I was wondering if it was the same for guys who only view you platonically or like a sister.

[AhGojira]

I'll take it one step further and say even if I think a girl is ugly but she has big boobs hanging out I'll still look at them. I still think she's ugly and want nothing to do with her, but her boobs are all out there...

[Asker]

Ok, so does that only count for big boobs, or are smaller boobs the same?

[AhGojira]

Larger objects are more visible... Smaller boobs are not invisible, they're just not all up in your face most of the time.

[Asker]

Hmm, so, okay for this situation, I was at a party and I wore a dress that showed quite a bit of cleavage, I'm a small c/big b cup, so it wasn't huge. But my guy friend (who I like) said that he was having trouble remembering to look me in the eyes, and that it was hard cause they were just like right in front of him (which I don't get at all, cause he's taller than me, so they aren't like at face height, so my face would be closer to look at than my boobs, but maybe I'm just thinking like a girl). So I didn't know if this maybe meant that he found me attractive and that I had a chance, or if it was typical of guys who only think of you as as friend.

[AhGojira]

What you might not realize is that when we are looking down to talk to you, your boobs are 50% of your profile and your face looking upwards at us is the other 50%...

[Asker]

Lol OK

[DanReynolds]

Wheres the option for "Don't see her more than a friend but when she flaunts them i take quick glances out of reflex but it means nothing more then that"

[Asker]

That's pretty much option A haha

[Shaft50]

Not going to lie, if she has a nice cleavage I'll look, whether it's a platonic friend, stranger or otherwise...

[Asker]

That seems to be the consensus haha

[Shaft50]

Haha, no surprise there... I will be discreet about it though...

[conkrete721]

It's natural to do it. You try to avoid looking at it as well as the booty but if you aren't thinking about it, you'll be looking at it automatically. If you don't, you probably like dudes.

[ASEXY]

No, I usually don't notice if her cleavage is showing or not.

[Asker]

You seem to be the only guy who doesn't, why not?

[ASEXY]

I'm asexual and I barely pay attention to what people wear. I don't even notice people's body parts.

[Asker]

Ahh OK that makes sense :)

[watermelonlover]

Like a glancing look? Kind of whenever they're on display or move around.

But if I'm having trouble looking you in the eye, you'll know why :P

[super147]

I will notice, yes, but not stare. That's not to say that I don't like to look, it's just that I have some respect.

[Centurion20000]

Always. Don't flash it if you don't want it observed.

[Asker]

Don't care about it being observed, just wondered if guys still look if the girl is only a friend or like a sister to him.

[Centurion20000]

Like a friend? Yes
Like a sister? No

[Asker]

Thankyou :)

[rjroy3]

I try actively try not to stare, but it happens.

[Wingedz]

Yes, she is beautiful and she ask me what I think of her boobs look, and she even let me touch them but we are platonic as hell we live together.

[McCurious]

One can't help but be interested in a display of boobage, but by God I will keep looking them in the eye!

[Anonymous]

Listen sister,
Even if he is gay/asexual he will look.

[Asker]

Well the asexual guy who commented would disagree, but I would agree with the gay guy. Would you constantly look and be distracted by them if they're only friends though?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm straight lol
Of course i would look when she is not looking :P
I've many female friends.. there is this one female who is *my type* i can't help it.. ihave to look LOL.. call me pervert i accept it :D

[Asker]

As long as you're not staring enough for me to notice, or making creepy comments you're not a pervert lol

[Opinion Owner]

I'm too polite to say comments haha
But maybe if you were nice enough to let us touch them at least to get rid frm that feeling of desire :/ :D

[Asker]

Lol if it's the guy I like he can touch them all he likes!

[Opinion Owner]

Haha ;)
Someone has a nice pair ^^

[Asker]

Wouldn't you like to know

[Opinion Owner]

Muhaha naughty pinkish anon

[Asker]

😜😜😜

[Opinion Owner]

So what is the size?

[Asker]

I'm only a c cup lol so not very big, but they're nice and perky

[Opinion Owner]

Woohoo <3
Would love to touch and see :D

[Asker]

Haha now only if you were my crush

[Opinion Owner]

I can be :))
Girls usually call me: cute pie, adorable, cute, handsome

[93stepsawayfromhome]

This asexual guy won't.

[TacosRAwesome]

It doesn't mattercif she's a friend of more, if a girl exposed clesvage, guys will look.

[DaVroid]

i'm quite openminded i WILL look but i'm always honest and who knows i might get lucky and i wouldn't date anyone who wouldn't be fine with a threesome

[Anonymous]

yes boobs are boobs. don't matter how we feel about the girl. if u show them off, we will look and won't be doing anything wrong.

[Anonymous]

If it is obviously out there, I can't help but notice it, even on ugly women that I don't like.

[spcrazyj]

men love boobs its just hard not to look at

[Asker]

So doesn't matter if she's a platonic friend or not? All boobs are fair game?

[spcrazyj]

Yes he can still like you as a friend but can just love what you have on your chest

[Asker]

Thankyou :)

[spcrazyj]

glad i could help

[Anonymous]

i try not to, but, well, theyre obviously out there

[Aqesiro]

I would drop a glance and carry on.

[Asker]

So you would only take like one glance and move on? What would make you keep glancing?

[Aqesiro]

Maybe if it goes reaaally low, I would keep glancing, but then it would just be distracting.

[Asker]

Cool thanks :)