The problem is that he complains almost everyday that he's fat and it's really annoying to listen to because he won't do anything about it.
I went so far as to sign him up for a membership at my gym which I am paying for. He wanted it but he almost never goes. In the last 6 months, he only agreed to go with me twice. It's clearly a waste of money for me to keep paying but he doesn't want me to cancel it because he says he does plan on going. I also tried signing us up for some fun classes and activities like cycling and rock climbing, rowing, boxing, etc. he has zero interest.
I try to make him juices, salads and generally a healthier diet. I don't even keep soda or junk food at my house anymore. When we eat out I always say we should skip the appetizer and desert.
I dont know, I feel like I'm doing so much to encourage him and help him and he doesn't do anything but complain.
What more can I do?
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