How come no guy has ever shown an interest in me?

[AndreaBeaumont]

i am a, I'd like to think, a decently attractive 23 year old girl who has been single from since she has first noticed boys. I am worldy,educated and classy. tho growing up I was painfully shy I feel like I'm recently on the road to recovery and have recently made efforts to go out and mingle and am making friends. physically I am short and have long black hair, people describe me as "cute" and "exotic". and yet, among all my friends, I am the single one who no guy wants to date. :(

what am I doing wrong? why don't guys find me attractive?

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[Anikaj]

yea man you answered your question right there you said wordly, educated, and classy lol but seriously it does seem like everyone is just together for sex these days and idiots are getting with idiots but I think that for people who are not willing to conform to modern day relationship requirements and want someone that is smart and comes off slutty that sometimes we miss out on people. You look pretty cute so maybe in your mind you think meeting a guy will be like the movies where everything just falls into place, try online dating sites, itz a good icebreaker

[azzhole725]

It would help if you have a picture of yourself. Nevertheless, if you are exotic, then you should be attractive. Maybe guys see you as uptight or too sophisticated with your "worldy education." It could be that you are at the wrong places. A sophisticated woman like yourself shouldn't going to the bars, but museums or art galleries or the theater.

[AndreaBeaumont]

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[AlanHB]

Well I don't think that no guy has ever shown interest in you ever, but you may not be picking up on the signs when they occur. You may not be very approachable either. You may shut down guys who do show interest and claim that you're "picky". You may not let the opportunities occur either if your life purely revolves around work and sleep with no extra-curricular activities.

[dmagnific]

Even if guys do find you attractive, that isn't what it's all about. I wouldn't ask a girl out on a date just because she looks good even if I would hook up with her at a party. It's more about personality than annything else. If you're not around guys enough then they won't get to know you. I don't know about yur personality so I don't know what might not make you approachable but try asking one of your close girlfriends for advice.

[20Questions]

you are attractive yes...I don't know maybe you need to come out of your shell a bit, I know one or two hot women who are always single because theyre really shy & most guys aren't confident enough to ask them out...

[frustratedchump06]

if it makes you feel better, I'm 22 and never had a girlfriend, always been single, as you know, there is more pressure on us guys since we generally have to initiate

[SmoothBlue17]

i agree with AlanHB, maybe they're has been some guys that showed interest, but your not picking up on there signals. Or maybe its the vibe that you give off that's unapproachable and intimating