I already missed my chance with him.

[girlie13]

why do I always fall for guys after they have already fell for me and moved on :( I WANT THIS GUY SO BAD...but already missed my chance with him :[

</33 I'm so confused like I have no idea what to do,

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lately I've been having serious doubts about my self and I'm usually a really confident, not cocky, person. but lately I've been feeling like , not special, and I'm the kind of person who believes there is something special about everyone :( I've been fee

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feeling so confused and I really like this guy but our friends made it really awkward. and I don't know I'm so confused, I've been feeling like everyone's fake and ugh :(

[Ephram]

I'm gonna take the first sentence of your question, and expand it because I think it's important. A lot of girls are unaware of this and do it all the time. The main reason you fall for guys after they've moved on, is because girls generally aren't attracted to guys who are interested in them, unless they're initially attracted to the guy as well. Some girls are constantly getting attention all the time, so when a new guy comes along and is interested, and shows the girl this, she's not at all surprised, due to it being common behaviour.

But then when a guy doesn't show interest, GUESS WHAT?! Girls become suddendly interested in that guy! They'll try making the guy interested in them. They'll try SUUUPER hard to get that guy's attention focused on them, and then once he does gives them attention, they'll just forget about him and move on. Obviously, not every girl is like this, but I have TONS of stories where this has happened to me, and it explains very well why 90% of the girls I meet eventually stopped talking with me after they sense I've started to like them.

So just like a lot of guys out there are jerks and assholes, a lot of girls out there are like this. They're not really looking for a partner, or a relationship. They're just looking for attention, and crave it especially from people who don't give it to them initially. Forgive me if I'm wrong about you, but this is true with the majority of girls I come across. I'm not really blaming any of them, because I know girls like guys for a bunch of weird and mysterious things that not even THEM know about.

Now, if he's single and used to like you before, there's very high chances you can get him to like you again. Maybe he doesn't talk to you anymore, but that shouldn't stop you! Go after him a little. Tell him you wanna hang out. Think of how you two used to be back when he liked you, and fight to make things like that again. Hopefully if he becomes interested in you again, you won't miss your chance again.

[azzhole725]

You want what you can't have. I've told someone else this but it's the old cliche where you have a doll that you don't play with anymore. Then, your parents give that toy to your sister. Now you want it. You seem to be very attractive;so, you might have a chance with him. You should try to reconnect with him. If he doesn't do anything, it's time to move on.

[girlie13]

Very true! but like I wanted him when he "wanted" me too. I don't know its really confusing. but thanks so much! :) I just don't wannaa seeem like despreate texting him out of the blue ya know?

[theyareallcrazy]

Why did you wait so long?

I've done the same thing a few times. My excuse: I was so critical, expecting absolute perfection, but was too dense to realize what was right in front of me was damn near perfect.

You live, you learn...

It's called "Dating." You don't have to be with another person forever. You spend time with them to get to know them. If you don't like it, you move on...

Don't miss your chance again!

[ArtistBboy]

The first person I have "followed"... ever.

Awesome answer +1

[girlie13]

Very true! I didn't wait tthat long I liked him while he liked me too but now I like him a lot :( but I guess its true you want what you don't have but this kid ALWAYS gets his heartbroken anddd ughh idk. ik that we'd like each other if we talked again :) I don't know I'm just so confused

[i_love_women]

simply put: you miss the attention he gave you. then when he does you feel overcrowded by how much attention he gave u. finding the right balance is the key

[girlie13]

Not really I just liked him and I miss thhhat

[Fion3il]

I feel the exact same it really sucks

[sydneybaoo]

tell him,maybe you havn't.

Are you still single?

[girlie13]

But like we don't talk anymore :( and yesss