He needs to learn to strengthen his pelvic floor muscles and surround glute and stomach muscles, they control erections and ejaculating. He should be doing kegels to strengthen the pelvic floor but also learn diaphragm breathing because relaxing those muscles is equally as important. When a guy has sex the pelvic floor initially becomes a bit tense to produce an erection then it progressively tenses up throughout then it super tightens when he cums. Guys can last a long time the more relaxed the muscles stay during sex and this happens when the muscles are really strong and can stay relaxed. If he can learn to stay relaxed and breath he'll last a lot longer. knowing which positions make you cum quick is helpful too I can last a long time in missionary and cowgirl but I use doggy to finish because it makes me cum quick. I can last 20-30 minutes of like porn pounding the whole time if i'm relaxed. hope this helps!
So your boyfriend is normal.
Can he learn to go longer? Yes he probably can. But it would probably help both of you to realize that you're aiming for him to have great control and be above average at sex because you like having it with him so much.
So you don't need to tell him he cums to quick.
Instead you need to tell him that his dick is magic and you want to practice together till you can do it longer because it's so good. That probably sounds better.
that seems really long to me but maybe i have low standards lmaooo! (he's usually like 3 tops) but it never really bothers me much, there's always lot of foreplay which is just as fun for me so i would say try to focus on the other aspects of it, he can't really control it that much
He should start you off with oral and some other foreplay. Then 10 minutes won't seem so bad. Try to get more foreplay time going.
Get you close to finishing BEFORE penetration. 10 min of thrusting will be fine if you're worked up enough.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!10 minutes is longer than average. Have him do oral first on you until you orgasm, then if he is short with you, it is still ok.
10 mins is normal. Sex wasn't built to sit there for 40 plus minutes humping away like lost puppies. Ideally it's quick and made to procreate.. put it in, 2 mins max and done.. life shall thrive for years to come
But if you must pound away at it, try in water... like a swimming pool or in the shower.. he will surely last longer
ride him til u cum as many times as u want
But he can keep pleasuring yourself until he's ready for round 2.
Why doesn't he do that?
lol your lucky
10 mins is actually quite long. Maybe try some foreplay before penetration to make things last longer but the sex itself won't be any longer unless you give him time to "recharge" and go again.
at least he is considerate enough to finish you off because so many guys would just rollover because they came. there was a study done that concluded that the average time it takes for a man to cum once he penetrates a woman is 7 minutes so be happy your boyfriend is slightly above average
Try start stop method he will last long and will be able to fuck you longer
Ten minute?
10 minutes is a long time... be glad he lasts that long.
stop watching too many porns.. your live will change dramatically
10 minutes too quickly? you have no idea over male physiology.
asking why are you so anxious to get out of the house in 10 minutes? she just told him we should go out on a date to make our relationship more stronger. a bite to eat. baby at night club or Comedy Club. my point is don't let him have sex with you and then just let him leave. Make him wait for that that booty appointment or pussy appointment.
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