Him and i are in a good relationship, today is our anniversary believe it or not. he has told me i'm gonna get you something this and that, and he just doesn't.. so i talk to him about it then he says i'm an asshole this and that like talking bad about himself not me, i even talked to him about it today like he was saying we have to come up with something since it's out anniversary i was like why can't you figure out something you are the man in this relationship. i don't know... i love him like i really do. today is our 7 months he hasn't even got me a flower or a card or something small for our anniversary it's kinda upsetting like i even talk to him about it... like it's depressing
Most Helpful Guy
Men have zero use for flowers and cards rose petals and candles and the things women think of as "romantic" - when we do those things, we're doing them for the girl. We're essentially "learning a foreign language" that we otherwise have no use for.
Men show their romantic feelings via SACRIFICE - by working hard to provide for you, by fixing your car at night in the rain so you can get to work tomorrow, and by not banging the smoking hot chick who was flirting with us despite the protests of our penis and our instincts, which are screaming "do her NOW - no one will ever know!" And, maybe, we take you on a nice vacation instead of spending the money on ourselves.
Even then, some guys are just much worse than others when it comes to "romance" - they just don't think that way and feel lost and clueless about the entire concept - because they don't understand it (remember: it doesn't do anything for men). Some guys just can't put themselves in HER point of view to grasp why it's important.
That's just not his "love language." He can learn - maybe - but it doesn't come naturally to him. You might want to read this:
Most Helpful Girl
My ex kept saying we would go on a date or hed do something and then never went through with it. He never got me a gift or anything for my birthday or a holiday or just in general ( i dont care about gifts , my point is i felt unappreciated like he could of at least made me a homemade card or did something sweet from his heart.) He literally only cared about his weed and using me for sex. So if you feel unappreciated then you should tell him because if he cared he would show you how much he did2