Ok, men, ALL men, when you blush around a girl what are you thinking?

[Anonymous]

When talk one on one, face to face and you blush during the conversation, what is going through you mind guys? We are curious. We will take as a given she's wearing make up and lip gloss or stick of some sort and you think she's cute to some degree.

sexual thoughts

How much I want to kiss her

How much I like her

How stupid does she think I am

All of the above to some degree

other (explain please)

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+1 y

Wow! I'm a little shocked no guys have admitted to sexual thoughts. No one brave enough?

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+1 y

Sorry for some of the confusion. We are assuming you are having a normal conversation and its a girl you know a little but not a best friend. Thanks for all the voters and replies!

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+1 y

Wow! Lots of votes! Thanks!

[Ameya]

Blushing and sex hardly go together. I don't 'blush' and even if I do it's only when the girl I like comes in front of me unexpectedly! haha. But I gain composure soon though I am cautious throughout the conversation as to what am I saying, am I saying it right, how do I maker her laugh, is she gonna stay for long and of course the heartbeats haha. The only sexual thing I can think of is just to grab her in a corner and make out with he, but even that happens rarely.

[Asker]

So you have never blushed when talking to a girl? That's what you are saying?

[Ameya]

Of course I have, I feel shy. But like I said, it only happens for a moment and I hide it well haha. I meant sexual thoughts seldom come to my mind when I'm talking to my crush. I mean c'mon... I like her, I want her... she isn't some random girl who I would wana bang and just forget about ;)

[Ameya]

Ya I never blush or feel shy while talking to a random girl or even female friends. That only happens when it's my crush coming out of nowhere or even when we are on the phone or otherwise. haha

[Asker]

So never face to face with said crush?

[eruru]

I'm thinking... "wtf!!! pull yourself together eruru, she'll notice how emotional you are."

when its sexual its probably not a blush, more of a smirk/blank face :)

esp a blank face... hahaha

[Asker]

Emotional?

[eruru]

yeah cz guys fear expressing emotions its embarrassing... so if I like her to the point where I can't help myself then i blush... cz a blush is caused by a feeling of intense uncontrollable happiness/joy...(emotions)

not sexual urge.

[Asker]

Ok, that I understand.

[mistixs]

When it's sexual thoughts, the blood is probably rushing somewhere else, heheh.

As a note, it MAY just be the case that he's socially anxious in general & blushes around people, even if he doesn't have a crush on them.

[Asker]

Lol! We are assuming that he doesn't blush all the time or with everyone...

[troychapman]

its not that you just have guys all wrong believe it or not sex isn't the number 1 priority if we blush its seriously unlikely its sexual thoughts the only time that might be true is with a fuck boy but then he wouldn't blush about it meaning we dont blush if we are thinking sexual thoughts maybe if we liked her though

[Asker]

Ok sure understand that but if it's not shy man who is like that... maybe?

[troychapman]

yes a shy man will blush

[troychapman]

for instance if i liked a girl and she knew and i was around her and she so much as looked at me my i will blush hard

[Asker]

Aww! That's cute. Thanks.

[jonas8991]

depends on the situation and the girl: something between sexual things, the kiss-answer, and "how stupid does she think I am"

[Asker]

Give me an example of a situation that works for? Also, are you confident, shy or average guy around women?

[jonas8991]

I'm mainly shy. For example if I'm talking to the girl I love (she doesn't know it) and than my thoughs are mainly about the last 2 points from my answer (and also to some extent the 1st, I have to admit)

[Asker]

Lol! Well that's normal for guys though... Isn't like every ten minutes or something? Maybe that's a little exeragated but still. 😃

[jonas8991]

yeah well, its nevertheless strange sometimes.
But why do you ask? did it happen to you?

[Asker]

It has before. I think he was looking at my lips though so that's kinda self explanatory. 😃

[jonas8991]

yeah I guess. Well, there can be many different thoughts when talking to a girl. Also some negative ones, but mainly positive ones.

[jonas8991]

and to your update: I choose also the sexual thoughts (but also others)

[Asker]

I know you did but I also know there is guys out there who are just the first option. :-)

[Joshcepticeye]

Whenever I'm around a girl I like (which is a girl that's actually a captain on my track/XC team) I have no trouble talking to her outloud but on the inside I'm freaking out, breathing harder than I would if I was in a race or doing a workout X"D or my face blushing all over the place and I feel so insecure about it. But I did admit to her that I liked her and whenever I'm around her I sometimes look at her legs because she has absolutely gorgeous legs and she laughed and said that it was cute, but she has a boyfriend though, however now whenever I talk to her she constantly teases me about it but thankfully when it's just me and her and no one else, sure it's strange but girls beautiful legs is what attracts a lot of guys attention a lot of the time. I can't help it!

[CyberToothTiger]

It can be anything that causes me to blush ( me and girl exchange staring
to each other, it can be sexual thinking )

[Asker]

So starring into her eyes?

[CyberToothTiger]

Yes we exchange turns staring to each other makes me blush.

[Asker]

Ok, cool! Are you shy, confident? And can you explain why it makes you blush?

[CyberToothTiger]

I'm shy and got low self esteem.

[Asker]

Awww! So you are probably hoping you don't look stupid? I'm sure you don't. I've never met a guy who put me off by that. I'm put off by the ones that assume I'm gonna fall at their feet.

[CyberToothTiger]

Yeah i agree with you :)

[lightbulb27]

"She caught my true emotion, or mis truth", I've been found out... hide!

[Asker]

Lol! What? You like her is that what you are saying?

[lightbulb27]

blush to me means she exposed something I wasn't comfortable exposing. That's a general statement, could be anything:)

[Asker]

So if it's a normal conversation and you are just talking ahout say a mutual liking for a sport? That's the situation sorta I am talking about... not deep, dark secrets...

[lightbulb27]

that scenario does not make sense why he'd blush. But you don't know what he was really thinking, or could he have blushed at someone else yo udind't see?

[Asker]

Nope. No other girls there.

[Gymcoach]

I don't blush really. I have different ways of reacting to my favourite girl.

[Asker]

You have never blushed around a girl?

[Gymcoach]

Not really.

[Asker]

You are special then.

[Asker]

Not in a bad way.

[Gymcoach]

Haha thanks, I guess. Don't you like guys who blush?

[Asker]

It doesn't matter to me... I've had a few over the years do it when we talked and was simply curious as to what may be going through your mind at such a time.

[ADFSDF1996]

How much I like her (how beautiful she looks) I don't think about sex until I know her better.

[Asker]

Lol! That's good to know.

[Justmereacting]

i will probably avoid talking to her
im probably too shy
which could be one of the reasons im still alone

[Asker]

So if she manages to talk to you... And you start blushing... It because?

[Justmereacting]

im
like she is so goodlooking
im gonna do something failing

[Asker]

Awww!

[Justmereacting]

also I'd probably end the conversation as quick as possible just to get out of such a situation

[Asker]

Awww! Yeah that's happened with me before.

[blutwolfe]

usually its cause we're shy, and we have a crush on a girl, its usually strictly emotional thing

[Asker]

That's cute. I'll keep that in mind.

[John_Doesnt]

I've never blushed before in my life. I think it's only something girls do.

[Asker]

Nope, seen guys do it before, plenty of times.

[John_Doesnt]

You sure they weren't transgenders?

[Asker]

Absolutely! Have you read the other answers on here? Maybe you don't but they know they do or have.. and I know what a man looks like, thank you!

[Heirio]

How stupid I must look.

All.
The.
Time.

Not my appearance or anything, but if I stumble in making a joke or the joke is bad.

[Asker]

You are probably being way to hard on yourself. You shy?

[Heirio]

Not too shy. I talk with her a lot, we like the same stuff. She's a few years younger than I am and so my friends often tease me about her, which leads to some awkward silences.
That and we talk a lot, so we sometimes... well... exhaust topics?

These awkward silences and stuff always make me worry that I seem boring.

[Asker]

Nope, been there and done that. I never thought badly of him. I was thinking I wonder what's going through him mind as he stares into my soul. 😃

[Heirio]

Heh, I don't look at her too often while we talk. I thought it'd be a bit weird if I did. Should I?

[Heirio]

Okay, so I am shy to some degree, like how i just said.

[Asker]

Well it is considered good manner to have eye contact when talking directly to someone, for some of the time. You can't maintain it for the whole time of course.

[Heirio]

I'll try to do it more often, but all the time.

[Heirio]

But NOT all the time.

[Asker]

Its impossible to all the time. You do have to look away at some point to think and all.

[Heirio]

True, true.

[DamnCurtis]

I probably feel quite embarrassed for some reason.

I don't blush when I think sexual thoughts. Thats weird.

[Asker]

Unless you are shy and think she's caught you... Lol! Anyways... Explain what you mean by embarrassed... I'm talking about a normal conversation with a girl...

[DamnCurtis]

There are plenty of ways to feel embarrassed in a normal conversation. Perhaps she catches you off guard with a sensitive/outlandish subject matter.
For example "How many girls have you dated?"

[Asker]

Lol! I don't usually ask that but I can see that one... Ok.

[dgojordan123]

when i blush around a girl i think about how beautiful she is and how she can possibly change my life

[Asker]

Are you a confident guy or average or shy?

[dgojordan123]

im very shy. unless i listen to music.

[Asker]

Ok. 😃

[Anonymous]

I don't blush from sexual thoughts arriving in my head like that ('cause they usually don't really) but if I blush it's probably because she's someone I maybe like and she's implying the stuff which I find embarrassing. >w<

[Asker]

And a normal conversation? What it be then?

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't really blush in a normal conversation unless there's any implication of romantic/sexual anything. I don't think so, anyway.

[Asker]

Well the times it has happened with me in the past, it wasn't any sexual references... It was just a normal conversation about mutual likes (is sports or music or games)

[lumberman9]

These are all possible things that I would be thinking

[Asker]

Ok, says it a girl you have talked to before and you are having a pretty normal conversation in a public place. Can you be more specific now?

[lumberman9]

I would be blushing because I have a crush on her

[Asker]

Awww! Ok.

[Be_Just_or_Be_Dead]

I don't blush like some girly jackass. Doesn't mean I don't have sexual thoughts, but I don't go drooling over random women in public.

[Asker]

Really? You are saying you have never blushed once when talking to a girl? I've seen grown men blush talking to me and or other girls... Men in their thirties.

[Be_Just_or_Be_Dead]

No, talking to girls doesn't bother me.

[JSmuve]

I'm thinking "Awww fuck. Did I leave the oven on again?"

[Asker]

Be serious please.

[JSmuve]

I can't. Its not in my nature

[troychapman]

really :D

[peachblossomluck]

I'm just here to see results...

[Asker]

Lol! Can't blame ya for that.

[ASEXY]

I don't blush around girls and if I do it's because she is making me feel uncomfortable...

[Asker]

Flirting with you and you don't like her? That kind? I'm gonna have girls take pics of you few who say you don't blush. I bet we could disprove that. 😃

[Nik1hil]

During sexual thoughts we don't blush

[Asker]

Lol, what if you were shy?

[Nik1hil]

Well we only blush when we have crush on the girl
Not when we have sexual thoughts, when we have sexual thoughts we look at her boobs ass and body and figure

[Asker]

Thanks, that was more informative. :-)