Guys bust each others balls about homosexuality & get crazy offended if their masculinity is questioned. I think that's why so many of us get stupid when hit on by the same sex.
I'm straight & would never be with another guy but I'm secure in my sexuality that if another guy was to show interest in me that I can accept it as the compliment it's meant to be. I can't help it if someone thinks I'm good looking. Doesn't matter if it's a girl I like, a not so attractive girl, another man, a midget, whatever. If someone digs my gig the bottom line is, good for me, someone thinks I'm attractive.
I wouldn't be too happy with another guy grabbing my ass but oh well, shit happens. I'd politely let them know that I don't swing that way but I appreciate the fact that they think I'm good looking & please keep moving thanks. But that's me. I know who I am. I'm comfortable in my skin. My sexual being isn't going to be threatened or change just because another dudes likes what he sees.
I think that men don't understand why this is a good analogy, when it is.
No offense to gay guys, if you're gay, great! And if you're not bi, you might understand it thinking of women, lol
But most men, the idea of sex with another man is like viscerally upsetting. On the other hand, we just very, very rarely feel that way about women. Like she's have to sort of appear filthy and disease ridden. But women tend to feel viscerally upset at the idea of sex with -typical- men who they aren't interested in. And that's because for human evolution, a random man you didn't want getting you pregnant was a horrifying outcome. For men, impregnating a random woman was a plus! Only if she looked diseased was it risky.
And that makes perfect sense. We don't get pregnant. For males, firing
It's unnatural and unwanted. Most men assume that majority of men are straight and don't expect a man to come on to them. Men cat call women and I bet a bunch of women would beat them up if they could take them. I know I would. I wish I could beat the ever living shit out of every guy that gives me unwanted attention. If everyone was respectable to everyone this would not even be an issue. Normal people don't just go grabbing asses and hope the victim likes them.
based on the answers, bc they are cognitively impaired,. its not about -them- and they can't see past that.
its a perfectly good analogy they are just being themselves.
Because they are straight. I guess it wouldn't bother them as much it girls did those things to them instead of other guys.
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Because in the male world, preforming acts like blow jobs and anal are seen as degrading and taking away their masculinity so that is why they do not to do those things with another man. They think it'll make them less of a man for doing it. I mean lets be honest, how many guys even like being penetrated by other girls or going down on girls?
Also men are not allowed to explore sexuality like girls are that is another reason why they are bothered by it. I'm not saying all girls will date or sleep with other women but, guys don't even have the liberty to say things like "Whoa bro, nice pecs!", "Your legs look good in them skinny jeans". It isn't allowed. So that why is why they take any compliment from a man as horrifying. Vs girls can tell other girls how hot they are and they are not bothered by it
If they don't try doing something physical I don't mind.
I think they have the balls to do what many straight guys are afraid of - express their desire.
Doing something physical like grabbing or trying to kiss me out of nowhere is just rude. No one should do that to anyone - no matter straight, gay or bi.
Dumb question, it's because they are straight and they don't respect women. I've seen that some straight guys wouldn't like it if women do the same things to them (especially if they find her unattractive) despite what most people think. I thought I wasn't that different from other guys because I didn't like women doing these things to me either.
I've been asked out by gay dudes and I always just told them I wasn't gay it's not the end of the world. But the having fay guys grab your ass is a different thing that's sexual harraASSment. And straight fuys don't just go up to random girls and grab on their ass or anything
huh?
because they are sexually attracted to women. they aren't sexually attracted to men so they don't want men doing sexually intimate stuff to them
Because they are straight? Your whole point is so fucking stupid and makes zero sense whatsoever, you might have a point if you were talking about women doing this back to men, instead of gay guys.
To make themselves seem badass. Lotta insecure guys out there unfortunately. I laugh... it's so sad, it's pathetic.
I don't think men on the street would ask random women to put anything up their butt. Not without joking at least.
Because you gay guys have a fantasy of turnin us out and we dont like dick ir be touched
A man asking you out on a date offends you as a woman? Millenial first world problems much?
Because they want their ass touching skills to effect her vagina, not make a penis rock hard...
Well, because they don't care how others feel, just how they themselves feel. This is obvious by the fact that they do these things to girls in the first place.
Most men are sexually attracted to women, not to men. It makes sense that men wouldn't like this stuff don't to them by a gay guy but like doing to to women because most men are attracted to women.
I'm not bothered personally as it's a compliment and I'm not offended or have any malice towards gay men
Cause there ain't nothing worse than a faggot outta line.
Because if others assume we dont mind they will see us as gay also.
The fuck? Not going to dignify this dumb shit with an explanation
Because straight men are attracted to women.
If I'm straight then why would I want guys touching my ass?
Because men who cat call are idiots.
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