How can I keep my boyfriend awake?

[Meggo16]

We always plan our Saturday nights together and he always falls asleep at like 9pm. It hurts my feelings because I want to spend quality time with him and it's really the only chance we both get to do so. I've tried tons of sexual acts to keep him up but that only makes him more tired. What can I do to keep him awake for real? Guys, want would make you want to stay awake with you GF?

[Anonymous]

He's falling alseep because he's not being active. Suggest going out somewhere instead of always staying in. Even for a walk , anywhere as long as he's not in the house. When you are in the house cook a late meal , but both cook it together. Make the night fun and active.

[nenanena]

Get him out of the house! Please don't take him to the movies! He'll fall asleep there too! Go to friends house for games or go to the billiards to play with or without friends. Search online for activities to do together.

[Meggo16]

Yes! Online activites are what I'm looking for but it's hard because we're both trying to budget (saving up to buy a house).. any suggestions?

[YaBaba]

How about you two sleep early and wake up early instead?
Honestly, when I get into the pattern of sleeping early, it's very hard to keep awake, if I do keep awake it messes up with my routine, and my day.

[Meggo16]

Because we both work nights

[AnaWryneck]

Simple as an energy drink and coffee and a good night's sleep the night before

[realperson02]

why should my girlfriend make extra efforts just keep me awake? I guess your boyfriend doesn't deserve to be in a relationship. he is definitely taking you for granted.

[akadatank44]

Smoking too much weed again? Haha
Sounds like he's been having rough weeks. Need to make him go to bed earlier on Fridays haha.

[Meggo16]

You have a great memory. Sorry about your Packers blowing it in the playoffs

[akadatank44]

Hahha I try 😉 ugh I know. Next year! At least we aren't the Lions 😂

[Meggo16]

Yes, next year you might play my patriots in the Super Bowl. That's the QB face off I've been dying for!

[akadatank44]

Nah Brady will be suspended all year for cheating again 😜

[Meggo16]

I'm not even going to dignify that with a proper response.

[akadatank44]

Saying those few words was enough 😜 why don't you put some ice on your boyfriend. That should wake him up 😂

[Meggo16]

I'm gonna sneak into your house when you're asleep and put some ice on you

[akadatank44]

Do it! I dare you! 😛

[Meggo16]

I never say no to a dare

[akadatank44]

Be prepared for payback!

[Meggo16]

Oooo in what form?

[akadatank44]

Haven't decided yet. Depends on I catch you after you put nice cubes on me😛

[Meggo16]

You won't. I'm fast.

[akadatank44]

You've forgotten. Its my house and I have a car 😉

[Meggo16]

I'm smart too though. I've already hidden your keys

[akadatank44]

Oh really? Just so sad that have a spare set hidden somewhere else!😛

[Meggo16]

You're clever. I like you

[akadatank44]

Haha what can I say? I'm a clever likable guy😏

[Meggo16]

Yes. When I first meet someone, the first thing I ask myself is: Would he/she be a good companion in a heist? If the answer is yes, we usually become friends. For you, the answer was yes. I can set my NFL feelings aside

[akadatank44]

We could totally pull of a heist 😎 haha my best friend is a Vikings Fan. NFL feelings are aside unless we play each other.

[Meggo16]

Fair. Ok, we're friends. And heist partners 😊

[akadatank44]

Sweet 😊

[Meggo16]

You should message me, I can't do that on my new acount 😕

[akadatank44]

Alright! You have to be a certain xper I believe. But we follow each other I think it will work. See in a bit haha.

[Oldandconfused]

Mine fell asleep at the bar the other night... I just partied without him! lol At least I was in a fun place!

[gobsmacked3]

Sounds like you have a very strange boyfriend

I used to love coming home, having dinner and then indulging in my woman fully for 'dessert'. with a long session :p

[whynotmarryJ]

are you sure he wants to be a relationship? how can you be too tired for sex wtf is wrong with him

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Spend time with him earlier. People often fall asleep because they need it

[Anonymous]

if he's too tired to be in a relationship, maybe he's not ready to be in one

[TripleAce]

Be more interesting... I guess

[Meggo16]

Yikes. That's a feeling-hurter

[TripleAce]

Well, lol...
You falling back on sexual acts... sure that works but only to a certain point, eventually it's just yaya whateves

Anyways why does the night have to go past 9pm. Just start earlier have your fun and hit the sack. He probably enjoys sleeping next to you

[Meggo16]

I mean the night starts at 6pm when we both get off work so I would like it to extend a little past 9. I like sleeping next to him too.. but I love talking to him more! I just wish there was something I could do to extend our conversation time. It's always so enjoyable when it happens

[TripleAce]

One of the best ways is to actually leave the house and go out... do something engaging... get the mind stimulated and come back home around 11ish or midnight... you'll surely talk about the night for a couple of hours

Thing is you both finish at 6 so you're probably tired and being home is just a fast track to getting sleepy

Try and do some cooking or baking.., a movie... then sex.. that should extent the night long enough

[Meggo16]

Ok, thank you. That's a much better answer than simply hurting my pride and telling me to me more interesting

[TripleAce]

Got your attention though didn't it lol 😛

[Meggo16]

Yes. Insults tend to do that.

[TripleAce]

I was just playing, being loght hearted

What do you think would, work? What kinda guy is he?

[Meggo16]

Hahahaha typical guy. Now you've insulted me and feel the need to make amends. Don't worry. I'll figure out a way to be more "interesting" on my own.

[AnonKuma]

just get him some coffee lol

[Guy_No1]

I'd never fall asleep on you.

[DaddiesLittleToy]

Let the man sleep, he's probably tired

[Meggo16]

He can sleep the other 6 nights of the week.. we get one together.

[DaddiesLittleToy]

Whoa. Do you not see how crazy that sounds?

[Meggo16]

No, I don't.

[DaddiesLittleToy]

Let me ask you this. Have you talked to him about this? That's your best bet

[Meggo16]

Obviously I've talked to him about it. I'm 29 years old. I know how to communicate. But he has no my responded with any helpful answers. Therefore, I'm here looking for some from other men.

[DaddiesLittleToy]

Okay, no reason to be nasty. First of all 1. Don't lay down because if you're really tired you WILL fall asleep. So always sit up. 2. Drink coffee/energy drinks and/or eat high energy foods. 3. Do light exercise like walking arou nd for a bit, jogging down the street for a couple of minutes. 4. Listen to music or play a movie loudly. And thats all i got

[Meggo16]

Ok well that was a much better answer and I would've appreciated it first.

And don't accuse me of being nasty after you've already called me crazy. That's obviously going to make me defensive.

[DaddiesLittleToy]

True. Sorry about that.

[Meggo16]

Apology accepted. Thank you for your answer. Music and not laying down are good suggestions.

[DaddiesLittleToy]

No problem. And thank you. I hope that helps. It has to suck to only see eachother once a week and be so tired like that.

[Meggo16]

It does suck! But it's only temporary and we're working through it. Relationships are hard sometimes, unfortunately. But hopefully, we'll survive :)

[DaddiesLittleToy]

Yeah. I think y'all can. Best of wishes to you two

[Meggo16]

I think so too! Appreciate the support!!

[DaddiesLittleToy]

No problem. :)

[DudeManBro_20]

Hmm cocaine?

[Meggo16]

Send me some

[iFarted]

put his dick in your mouth

[Meggo16]

Already did. He passed back out. Next.

[iFarted]

Ohhh man... I suppose he really just needs his sleep

[Jackblue]

Give him tea or coffee.

[Prettyapathetic]

scream in his face " wake the fuck up daddy!"

[elbicho]

Cocaine.

[Anonymous]

Coke or meth. But he'll crash later.

[jayzee]

try a lap dance.

[Meggo16]

I did that alreadyyy. Turning him on is like the last thing I want to do. It takes five minutes and then he's back to bed :/

[jayzee]

what? is he crazy? aren't you hot? sorry

[Meggo16]

Yes, I'm gorgeous (not to brag, lol). But I'm saying I turn him on, get him off real quick, then he goes back to bed. I want him to stay awake and actually hang out!

[jayzee]

Lol i can see you're gorgeous. but how can someone not stay awake with you in bed xD. well pour some water on him. And lemme know when you're single xD

[Meggo16]

Hahaha you're awesome. I'm gonna go dump a bottle of cold water on his head

[jayzee]

yes its rude to avoid a hot girlfriend who is trying her best to turn him on. Who does that.

[Meggo16]

I don't know I should have a serious talk with him!!! 😠

[jayzee]

that too on Valentine's week on Saturday night when her girl is looking absolutely gorgeous

[Meggo16]

Aww well aren't you just a charming fellow

[jayzee]

I don't know about that but you look very very beautiful. Love your eyes

[Meggo16]

Well I do know. You're very charming. Thank you 😘

[jayzee]

well i wish me n your guy could change our minds now lol

[Meggo16]

Then you'd be the one getting the lap dance

[jayzee]

just lap dance ;) lol

[jayzee]

text me

[jayzee]

what flavor are your lips?

[Meggo16]

message me.. I'm too new here to do that

[Jrossetti]

Cocaine!

[Meggo16]

Surprisingly this is the best answer so far

[Jrossetti]

Waab 😂😂

[OpenMindedFreak]

Give him a bj

[lionking98]

Love him baby