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Woke up to my guy friend jacking off next to me in bed?

We were sharing a hotel room with two beds he slept in mines even tho there he could of shared the bed with my other friend that was a girl also when we shared the bed I gave him more then half of the bed and he's not a real big guy so.. I woke up in the morning to to a vibrating bed he was jacking off right next to me he had his leg resting on my ass i tried to shift to pretend I was waking up and he stopped for a while and then continued when he thought I feel back asleep but I couldn't sleep after I knew what was going on so I just pretended to be asleep so he could finish. So when I was pretending to be asleep he then put his leg against my backside again and continued to jack off and then he shifted to where he was facing my backside and right behind my ass I could feel his hand shift as he jacked off and then he finally finished I don't kno how to take this does he like me? Or do you guys just do it where ever? I'm confused and I need your guys take on this what should I do do I bring it up or just pretend I never found out?
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  • welp I think it's fair to say that he probably finds you attractive. though I gotta say that's a bit much haha. I can only speak for myself but I wouldn't do that to anyone, and I think it's a bit inappropriate of the guy to do. that being said, if you're wondering if he's interested in you, he definitely lusts you. love on the other hand is more complicated, so we need a bit more info

    • What other info do you need

    • more every day behavioral stuff. what does he do when he's around you?

    • We're always around my best friend the other girl that was laying in the other bed and she likes him

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  • It's creepy. How could he think that's OK if you're just friends! And yeah, he probably does like you from the using your body perspective. If you're spending another night like this, I would say something!

    • Like this is the first time he's done it in the same bed another time we shared a hotel we got two beds and we slept each in our own beds but I heard him jacking off even tho the bathroom was right next to him but I thought of it as a guy being horny and needing to take care of business and that was like 4 months ago

    • It's definitely beyond weird. People throw the word "creepy" around too easily. This is definitely creepy. Mastubation is something you do in privacy. And if you're sharing a bed as friends with someone of the opposite sex, it's already a little awkward and you better be on your best behavior. What he's doing is unconscionable.

    • Like I call him brother all the time like to. Be funny and drop a hint since we are best friends and all but I'm wondering if he like be or not should I distance myself

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  • ... Why did you let this guy jack off next to you?

    I would have flipped over like: "Dude, what the fuck are you doing?"

    I mean unless dudes jacking off on your sleeping body is what you're into. I assume the dude's a creep though.

    • I didn't want to make it awkward i thought he was just taking care of morning wood until I felt the leg and we had a 18 hr drive back home that day also the girl sleeping in the other bed in the same room has a crush on him and she's my best friend and I haven't told her about it Bc I don't kno if he was just horny or he's into me and I don't kno what to do

    • If I were you, I'd take him aside and let him know you're aware of what he did, that it was inappropriate and you wanna understand what his intention behind it was. Assuming you found it inappropriate - you haven't said whether or not you were okay with this or not and I have my suspicions since you didn't specify and went on to ask if he might like you. All in all if you don't know what to do you can choose to let it go but I'd say something.

    • I'm not okay with it but I want to understand if he like me or not Bc if he does I'll like distance myself and I don't kno how to come about telling him and not making it awkward since he's my best friend

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  • He likes you and probably also needed to take care of morning wood. Don't worry about it. Perhaps he wants more though? Were you wearing underwear?

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  • You should be glad that he was doing. While u was in the same room. No u probably got mad as hell. What u should have really done. While he was jacking off. You should have said hey babe let me finish u off. That way it would make feel better appreciate. Cause by u finishing him off. It would have made him like the 2 of u are real friends. As usual most women want 2 bitch. Which makes things that much worse. Just do the right thing every now and then. Join in and finish him off. If the 2 of u don't get along better. Then stop altogether seeing each other.

  • He could like you or he could have just been extremely horny being in a bed with an attractive women that he couldn't help himself. Instead of trying to disrespect your friendship by trying to make a move on you while your other friend was there he decided to touch himself. Very creepy yes and kind of sad, but might have had good intentions in mind.

    • Okay so should I just pretend like it never happened and never bring it up

    • If your good friends and think you may share a hotel room and bed together again I would.

    • Okay Bc on another occasion we shared a hotel room but we each had our separate beds and I heard him jacking off and the bathroom was right next to him but I thought about it as morning wood and guy trying to take care of business so I never said anything so do you think he is just attracted to me or likes me

  • Pretty sure he sees you like a girl, before he sees you as a friend. That, and he's being both bold, and creepy.

  • First, you two gals should have shared a bed and he could have the other one. But since he was I bed with you, as soon as he woke you doing that you should have confronted him and told him to go into the bathroom for that. No reason for you to put up with that.

    • He's my best friend and the girl on the other bed is also my best friend that happens to have love him and we had an 18 hr drive ahead of us so I don't want to make it awkward I panicked and pretended to sleep

    • There was one gal and two dudes, not two gals, but yeah i wouldve jumped outta bed if i didn't think he'd like getting kicked in the nads!

    • @NathanStrat - You need to pay attention when reading: "We were sharing a hotel room with two beds he slept in mines even tho there he could of shared the bed with my other friend that was a girl also"

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  • haha WOW.

  • Lmao, do you want him to be into you?

    I mean, he wasn't putting his leg against your body on accident.

    • But he has a girl friend for like a year? I don't kno if he is or not I just want to kno that way I can like not bring it up

    • Maybe he's unhappy, or he could be the kind to cheat. He thinks your hot. He probably want's to fuck you. Who knows if he actually would. If you want to find out, tell him you realized what happened, if not, never so much as give him a look about it.

    • So he just wants to fuck me but no emotional ties Bc he's my best friend and I call him brother all the time to be funny and like drop hint too so that's why I'm confused

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  • Sarcastically say, " well don't i get dinner first?" Then yell "go to the bathroom for that!" Thatll let him know you are straight and give him the benefit of the doubt he was just stealthbating because a girl was in the room, lol...

    • Haha I shoulda said that but I froze and pretended to be asleep kno I don't know if I should bring it up or pretend it never happened

    • I would just start bragging about some girl you like a lot, then ask him if which girl he thinks is hot and who does he have a crush on, then watch for silence lol.. its ok to have a gay friend if he is, but if he likes you that would just be weird and id cancel all sleepovers, a girl wouldn't let you sleepover in same bed if she didn't like you so the same goes here!

    • So if he's silent he's into me

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  • Well, you missed an excellent opportunity to help him finish...

  • talk to him... he fucked up. especially with the leg part ew.

    • What should I say?

    • Tell him in private what you noticed and ask him without showing too nuch emotion why he did it.

    • If you wana be more direct ask the specific questions like "is it because you are attracted to me like that?" do not mention feelings in case he tries to use that as an excuse

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  • Why didn't you help him out?

    • He has a year long girlfriend

    • obviously having a girlfriend doesn't stop him from needing to jack off. What does she have to say about you two sleeping in the same bed?

    • Well it's a guy he said he's bisexual and his been in a relationship with the guy for a year long but he tells the guy his in a relationship with that he is fully gay

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  • Just stay away from that guy xD

  • Ick! Wtf?

  • Nasty ass guy. All I gotta say

    • We need to let our sperm out

  • damn you porn industry, you destroyed the young guys... i don't consider what he did normal. yes we have morning erections but he could masturbate in the bathroom.

  • Pretend

  • bring it up

    • How what should I say l?

    • just say to him I know what you did. why did you do it?

    • dont worry about it being embarrassed about it he needs to know he has done wrong

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  • Thats creepy

  • there's a fine line and he crossed it

  • Did he cum on your ass am I reading this right? Lol

  • you're a good friend haha but the guy is definitely in to you! Why else would he rub against you while jacking off? Doesn't mean he wants a relationship but sex he definitely wants.

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