Boyfriend only follows girls on instagram?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend only follows girls on instagram. Most of them are hot attractive girls; not models, not actresses and so on, just normal girls that are hot. I don't like it. I've talked to him about it on several times, but he just gets mad about it. He even made his instagram private so I don't see who he follows and blocked me from it. I can't stand it, it hurts me and he knows it. I love him and he says he loves me too, but how can he love me if he knows it upsets me and it hurts me? Any thoughts on this?

[shadyjake]

If you don't trust him then your relationship is already hopeless... You Need to give people space and trust. A good relationship handles that

[RockAndRoyse]

you're trapped and from that it can lead to cheating. but dont let it get to your head. im just saying

[masterfree]

That's messed up. Find someone else in my opinion.

[cswisher88]

tell him to delete them then

[Asker]

I did
He refused and then he blocked me

[cswisher88]

wow that's not good at all its kind of fucked up if he loves you like he said he would do it

[cswisher88]

he'll at one point my ex thought I was cheating on Facebook so I deleted it to show her that I wasn't

[Anonymous]

does he know them, like, in real life?

[Asker]

Some of them, he does; some of them, he doesn't
But we met on social media so...

[Opinion Owner]

then you can't really be hypocritical then, can you?

by the way, actually can you help me with something? it relates to what you just said

[Asker]

How's that hypocritical? He wasn't dating anyone when we met, and I didn't even know of this instagram with just all women

[Opinion Owner]

it's hypocritical.

and, can i ask your help on something relating to this?

[eagle1951]

sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too