Her interest level is dropping in me - play it cool or talk to her about it?

[DirtMcGirt]

Hi all,

I've been dating this girl for two months. She just came out of a live-in relationship (she dumped him) so this would be considered a rebound relationship.

For most of our time together, she showed a ton of interest in me - lots of affection, compliments, sharing emotions with me, initiating dates, initiating texts, etc.

Lately, it's been fading. I haven't felt like a priority to her. Last Friday, we didn't have plans and I asked her to come over. She said she would come over. Then, she called and said she didn't feel well. But then she ended up going to a party.

Saturday, she was supposed to go to a festival with me but she was too hungover to go. That night, she made plans to go out with me but later canceled to hang out with best friend who she hadn't seen in a long time.

Last Sunday, we hung out. She slept over and it was really great.

I asked her to hang out last night, but she was too tired from the night before. (Every Thursday she goes dancing with her friends - has never invited me).

I know she cares about me but I don't think she wants a serious relationship. I do. Should I talk to her about it or just try to maintain my own life and see her when we can? Thanks!

Updates

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We talked and ended up breaking up.

[katherrrrine545]

You should definitely talk to her. If this is affecting you then of course talk to her. Tell her how you felt at the beginning of the relationship she should lots of interest and now in your relationship you feel it declining. Ask her that you are looking for something serious and ask if she wants something serious. If you both want different things then maybe this can't work out. good luck!

[katherrrrine545]

Aw I'm sorry:(

[Anonymous]

You should do both. Talk to her about it AND maintain your own life and see her when you can

Seriously, that's the best thing for you. Good Luck.

[mz4568]

She might have used you until she got over the other guy.