This is the reason why I don't date my own kind. I am Lebanese and Syrian. Are they known to do disrespectful stuff to their women? Yes. My family has never done that though. I'd let this guy go. It won't stop. Middle eastern men think they're superior over women (not all), that's how some were raised. In America, you hold doors open for your woman, you cater to her and stuff like that. In the middle east, the woman busts her ass catering to the man, and following his "orders."
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Maybe it is accepted by people in Turkey but that doesn't make it right. You should never put up with someone treating you with no respect. Whether it is the end of your marriage is up to you and how he deals with it but you should never put up with being treated like you're worth less than someone else.
It wouldn't be acceptable to me, depending on what the argument was over and if he was willing to apologise for the spitting and find a mature resolution would have me reconsidering my future with him.
Arguements happen, but to disrespect someone you're meant to love by spitting on them is abhorant
I wouldn't say it's over but it's definitely not a matter that should be swept under the rug. It's pretty disrespectful.
Well, you tell him, "it's not acceptable in my home country, and this is not Turkey (unless of course you do live in Turkey). So you either make up for it or I leave you this instant."
I don't want to ruin a marriage but your husband does not seem humane!
If you have not did anything to deserve it than, its very bad thing to do. If he was in Turkey then the MUslim scholars would have branded him as "Kill worthy". He is lying to you to get away with this but,
PLEASE TELL US, WHAT ENCOURAGE HIM TO DO THAT.
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if thats enough to bail on the nuptials without trying to work it out or fight for eachother instead of against. then the marriage should never have begun.
😂😂😂😂Why the fuck would be spit on you, what is that. That's not a fucking tradition that's disrespectful
It doesn't really matter if it's acceptable in Turkey. He's not married to Turkey, he's married to you. What matters is if it's acceptable to you.
I would not stay with someone who does that. He can marry a Turkish woman if he wants a Turkish woman.
It's possible that it is a minor thing in Turkey. In which case, he obviously didn't mean it as a sign your marriage is over.
But you married the guy, you should have known what to expect from his culture.IN NO COUNTRY IS THAT ACCEPTABLE. He is a liar. DIVORCE HIM.
THAT IS DISRESPECT IN THE HIGHEST FORM!I'm thinking there is a lot more to this story. How would HE describe the whole situation?
Spitting at someone is extreeeemely disrespectful, I wouldn't tolerate such thing.
Nononono. That is the most disrespectful thing you can do to another person, especially your wife!!
He needs to grow up... I haven't done something that's stupid since I was in 3rd grade.. to answer your question on his part I don't know if it's over but if I were you it would be over on my part
Spit right back at him, he should had a dose of his own medicine
Spitting is super rude and disgusting... it's been over for a while. You should respect yourself and move on.
I don't think your marriage is over because he spat at you, but it may be because your husband is from Turkey. Hopefully, you reminded him that he is not in Turkey anymore.
I would say it is totally disgusting and unless he begs for forgiveness show him the front door
Maybe he thought you had a kink?
Shoot him in the foot and call it even
That's very disrespectful
Why was he upset in the first place?
what country is he in now
are you in Turkey?
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