Why Are Men Such Hypocrites?

[LolaB28]

Why is it that so many men tell a woman to lower her standards when they are unable to find a guy but they always reject women based on looks? They would never give a woman who isn't considered attractive a change and would stop at nothing to have a supermodel and have all of these stupid rating systems but women are not allowed to? Women are considered shallow if they don't want someone they're not attracted to but it's okay if a guy acts this way? Every guy I have shown interest in me has rejected me for a supermodel and some of them even tried to talk to me again after the supermodel fucked him over. The hypocrisy is real with men and they always want their unrealistic expectations met when it comes to dating. So annoying as hell!!

[Elarra]

Sounds like you're mad that they had standards you didn't meet. They may have been shallow standards, but still. I mean, you literally say "Every guy I have shown interest in me has rejected me for a supermodel and some of them even tried to talk to me again after the supermodel fucked him over."

It's possible that they just don't find you attractive. I mean, it sucks, but at least it's not the other way around. Guys see me and just want to fuck me and then leave so I learned super early to not sleep with men for a loooooooooooooong time.

It's hypocritical but if a guy doesn't want me because I'm not 'pretty' enough, then I don't sweat it and keep it moving. There's shallow people everywhere. Learn to weed them out and not go for them. Just because you like them doesn't mean they have to like you back.

[Wonderer89]

"If it smells like shit wherever you walk you should check your own shoes"

Not every guy is like this; at all. If every single man you have ever met, in the variety of places you have lived has behaved this way then the above is worth looking into.

[LolaB28]

Yeah I guess so.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You hit the nail on the head girl.

[kaylaS91]

... come again?
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[JohnDoe3000]

Women tend to objectively have higher standards. This is usually because of long laundry lists of requirements, or because of one extreme requirement. So for example if a man demands "she has to be hot" he rules out 70% of women, but if a woman demands "he has to have sixpack abs", or "he has to be at least 6' tall, not ugly, have a college degree, have a stable job, have blue eyes, be a dog person, be close with his parents, and be a catholic" she's excluding 99% of men, even though she may not have placed as high a beauty standard on men as men have placed on her.

[Cruciatusdeatheater]

Not all guys are like this you know this, right? And it's because most guys, at least from how I've seen my few of my "friends" handle this, it's because they think with their dicks and not their brain.

[LolaB28]

Sorry. Haven't met a guy like this at all. So as far as I'm concerned men are shallow and only focus on the outside.

[Cruciatusdeatheater]

You're basing this off of your area when the world is a pretty big place. There are non shallow men out there. I know plenty. I've dated girls that guys found unappealing in high school because they were overweight and didn't have an attractive face. I've dated all sorts of people. Never the "supermodel." What's the point in going there when most of the time they've got some pretentious attitude. Maybe, if they had a nice personality, but Nawh. The way these people made me feel, it was incredible. They're beautiful people with powerful voices and high artistic skill. They were those kinds of people you just wanna be around all the time. I didn't give a fuck about what people. Had to say. And yes, I was sexually attracted too.
I mean, it's a rarity, but it's still possible for guys not to be shallow. Shitty response, sorry. Migraines are getting to me.

[LolaB28]

Hahaha I've lived in other places too and it was the same shallow bullshit. It's not just one area is every where and I still have yet to see a guy give a girl a chance they didn't find attractive. It's easy to say that to someone you don't know.

[Cruciatusdeatheater]

I dunno what to tell you._.

[LolaB28]

Fair enough I just appreciate that you understand what I mean and didn't answer just talking put of your ass like most people on here.

[Cruciatusdeatheater]

I mean, they have a point, although (from my experience), girls go for the wealthier guy. Not the better looking. Happened twice to me.

[LolaB28]

You can have a point and not be a bitch about it.

[guztavo]

Sounds like you are writing out of pure resentment. Men have standards and women do as well. Women reject men based on their looks all the time, and they even reject men based on nothing at all and with no explanation. And i think nobody considers a woman shallow for rejecting a guy. Keep trying and you will find a guy thats good for you. We all go through the same struggle

[es20490446e]

I train six times a week, I eat the healthiest I know, I don't drink or smoke. I always say the truth, I treat people warmly, and what I create professionally works nicely. I choose based on facts independent of what the general opinion is.

Simply few women reach that standard. I'm am lax with them as persons, but having a relationship with them feels like mistreating me.

[Deamose]

Why Are **People Such Hypocrites?

fixed it.

Honestly, if you aren't attracted to someone then you just aren't. Things can change over time but there's limits. It's just human nature. Don't let it get you down.

[truthbeknown]

It only seems that way since it is mostly men who make the first move. But, in all fairness, women are just as picky and go after what they want.
I can sit here and rant like you and blame my lack of dating numbers on shallow women.

[nobuddy123]

People are people. Doesn't instantly change someone because they were born differently. Just how they grew up. Everything you say a guy will say also about women. So there isn't a difference in people. Just how they are nurtured.

[Eddy8306]

you got me confused in this question. every person is different and will act different to different feelings and situations. I would be just fine and happy for a gal to be just her self. don't try to be someone your not.

[Abusci]

Sorry you feel this way. I know some of the other guys have been giving you trouble in some of the other questions.

Don't let those pricks get to you, we're not all the same.

[LolaB28]

Yeah whatever. It's a good thing I'm not dating because the bullshit is real with men.

[Iraqveteran666]

Lol hypocrisy is part of the human condition.
A lot of women do have some seriously unreasonable high standards when it comes to the men they date, I saw this in New York when I lived there.

[Deamose]

"I want a tall dark and handsome motorcycle badboy with all the time in the world for me who doesn't give a fuck what others think with blonde hair and blue eyes and a great career who isn't afraid of commitment..."

[Iraqveteran666]

@Deamose https://youtu.be/r1QpyADxe9U
Yeah women want contradictory qualities in a man lol

[Deamose]

haha. that's great. George Carlin like delivery. enjoyed it.

[cth96190]

@Iraqveteran666
@Deamose
"The great question that has never been answered and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my 30 years of research into the feminine soul, is: what does a woman want? - Sigmund Freud
If Herr Professor Freud could not find the answer to that question, what hope is there for the rest of us?

[KishJericho]

this goes for both sexes. I never seen just one gender do better than the other in this department

[LolaB28]

How? Men base things just on looks and have dumb rating systems and reject solely based on looks but women are shallow if we don't date a guy we're not attracted to. It's bullshit. Don't tell a woman to lower her standards if you won't do the same.

[LolaB28]

Practice what you preach 💯

[KishJericho]

I know women who do the same thing you're claiming men do soooo...

[KishJericho]

I don't put all females in the same category as you're sticking men into one

[LolaB28]

Please I've seen most women give chances to guys they didn't think were attractive but guys will never do that. Not that I've seen.

[LolaB28]

And I'm doing that because THEY ALL DO IT

[KishJericho]

Nah the guys you've encountered do it I know a few men and women who went with the lesser attractive significant other. beauty is suggestive and what attracts others to someone else isn't just what's on the outside but also the inside.

[LolaB28]

Yeah men are more focused on the outside than the inside.

[LolaB28]

The only time they go for a woman they don't find attractive is if they want to get laid.

[KishJericho]

🤔🤔 yeah not completely true but that can apply to the women who like bad boys as well soooo

[LolaB28]

I'm not worrying about women. I'm not dating them.

[LolaB28]

I hate when guys say that women do it shit yes women do it but we get calles shallow and bitches and we're wrong but guys do it and it's okay.

[LolaB28]

The minute we rejected a guy we don't like we're wrong but guys can do it and it's okay and like I said I've seen more women give guys chances they didn't think were attractive. I have yet to see a guy do that.

[KishJericho]

like I said that's what you experienced but doesn't account for every man which is why I'm defending them. society doesn't look upon guys any differently than women when it happens. guys get called shallow, fuckboys, assholes, sluts, etc as well soooo

[LolaB28]

If they wouldn't act like it they wouldn't get called that wouldn't they?

[KishJericho]

same for women then

[LolaB28]

And it does count for every man. Like I said I have yet to see a guy give a woman a chance that they didn't find attractive unless they wanted some ass.

[tylermason]

@LolaB28. "the minute we rejected a guy we don't like we're wrong, but guys can do it and it's okay". I don't think that's true. girls easily get away with rejection.

[KishJericho]

so you know the intentions of every male on earth? When did you acquire this super power?

[LolaB28]

Since all of my past relationships have been shit and have been dealing with the bullshit of men I can't detect a bullshit guy from a mile away

[LolaB28]

@tylermason sorry I don't see it that way. I get rejected all the time because I don't look like a model.

[KishJericho]

like I said you're basing everything on your negative past experiences. you know this is how villains are created right?

[tylermason]

XD. this is actually funny. and you think some girls don't also reject guys because they don't look like super model? just last week when I was on tinder. I saw a girl mention on her bio that she wanted the guy to be at least 6ft tall and another girl to have abs. I'm really cracking up right now.

[LolaB28]

Well it keeps happening in my present now. I just told a guy I liked him but he said he didn't want a relationship at all. Then about a month or so later he's hugged up with some supermodel bitch. This has happened to me ever since high school and it's happening now so fuck it I'll be a villain but it's you men that are the real villians.

[LolaB28]

@tylermason Yeah and those are the same superficial fake supermodels I get rejected for so that's on you.

[KishJericho]

I got dumped by 3 of my last exs for no good reason at all so should I say women don't like nice guys? my last one of 3 years dumped me and told me she wants me to hate her. should I conclude all women are crazy and liars because of my experiences?

[LolaB28]

Do what you want but I'll make a guess you only dated her because she was pretty? 😂😂

[KishJericho]

the answer is no. being negative in life won't get you nowhere and blaming a whole gender is sexist as fuck

[tylermason]

@LolaB28. let me ask you this question? be honest. are the guys you're claiming to be "superficial" attractive or not.

[KishJericho]

we were high school mates. I dated her after my other ex broke up with me and I was told through the grapevine that she liked me. I dated her because I got to like her as a friend not because she was pretty

[KishJericho]

granted she was also a cheerleader

[LolaB28]

@tylermason depends on what you mean by hot but the last guy I really did like. We had a lot in common. I liked him for who he was. Shit that was beyond his looks but fuck him now.

[LolaB28]

I love how telling the truth is being negative lmao some people just can't handle the truth.

[KishJericho]

I'm defending guys who you claim ALL do this

[KishJericho]

Not ALL guys are like this

[LolaB28]

Well as far as I know THEY ALL DO THIS. THIS HAPPENS TO ME ALL THE TIME I SHOW INTEREST IN A GUY DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M SAYING? How many times to I have to repeat myself?

[LolaB28]

@tylermason send me a message with your response. I'm done with this thread.

[KishJericho]

oh I'm sorry. How silly of me. of course everything you say is right and any view opposite of yours can not exist. How foolish of me... grow up

[MilkyyM8]

This is funny asf xD

[LolaB28]

Guys always say they're not like that it's a bunch of bullshit and I am grown fuck outta here. It's easy to say online to someone you don't know that you're not shallow 😂😂😂😂 what I'm supposed to believe what you say because you say it? I've learned a long time ago guys say anything to make themselves look good.

[LolaB28]

Well not to me I'm actually annoyed.

[KishJericho]

@tylermason message her if you want to see her continue to be heartbroken and sexist 😂😂

[LolaB28]

And you say I need to grow up

[LolaB28]

Stop taking to me. I don't feel like your shit anymore. ✌️

[KishJericho]

you sure don't act grown. maybe your shoe size you act more like

[LolaB28]

I don't believe what you say so I'm immature? Get the fuck outta here!

[MilkyyM8]

You being angry is what's funny you triggered feminazi

[LolaB28]

And as long as you want to be shallow hypocrites I'll be sexist.

[LolaB28]

Yo take your little young ass to bed

[KishJericho]

sToP tAlKiNg To Me. I dOnT fEeL lIkE yOuR sHiT aNyMoRe. ✌

[KishJericho]

LolaB28 who nutted in your cheerios lol

[tylermason]

@LolaB28. I swear you should really try to be a guy. better yet, you should try to be a 5'6 guy in my city.

[KishJericho]

😂😂 too much nut to swallow huh

[LolaB28]

Nah just bored and annoyed with you.

[KishJericho]

so swallowing isn't a problem?

[LolaB28]

Yawn. I'm bored.

[KishJericho]

like a 2 by 4. stop replying back and accept your loss like a big girl

[LolaB28]

What loss? I'm don't calculate how many internet fights I have. You might 😂😂😂 but I don't. I have more important things to worry about.

[LolaB28]

Again what L? 😂😂😂😂😂

[LolaB28]

You the one making it a competition I just stated how I felt

[KishJericho]

this ain't no competition. I'm going back n forth with a retard at this point lol

[KishJericho]

obviously I told you to stop replying but you continue so you must be special

[Irishman45]

Why are you talking about most or all men when really all you mean is the men in your experience?

Meet new men and open your mind, if you're lucky you will prove yourself wrong.

[mike5150]

Everyone is different a lot of woman also do the things you have stated so I would not say everything is gender specific here.

[GingerGuy]

People can be hypocrites! Several women can be also.

[Chico_brah]

I know. We're just godamn animals aren't we? Fucking men.

[ChocEyes1]

I don't think anyone should lower their standards. High standards are good. I hope you have them too.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

For the same reason women are hypocrits on certain issues. Humans are hypocrits. That's life.

[notworthyourtime]

I personally feel you hang around the wrong kind of me.

[Mhandl]

That's not the way I see it. I see women as shallow when they only want a man for financial reasons.

[Mhandl]

But hey its just my opinion.

[TheSniper]

Why are you so bitter? Maybe YOU are doing something wrong but you cannot see it. Blaming stuff on men always isn't going to help.

[Pizzalover101]

Not all guys are vain guys date who they like I've dated pretty to gorgeous an others that were average

[BlendedMe]

She knows, that's her frustration typing.

[LolaB28]

It's also the truth. Men are so quick to reject a woman because of how she looks but let a woman reject a guy she's not attached to then she's shallow or a bitch and she should lower her standards. How the hell do you tell someone to lower their standards when you would never do it. Men need to practice what they fucking preach and stop being so unrealistic. Most of you should be glad a woman even showed interest in you because you wouldn't know what to do with a supermodel if she was on your lap. 💯💯💯

[BlendedMe]

You sure your twenty-eight or not a feminist because it's really starting to sound like it?
However, maturity would tell anyone sensible that this view is both offensive to men like myself and untrue. But whatever gets you by.

[LolaB28]

I'm very much 28 and I'm just tired of men and their bullshit

[BlendedMe]

Well I'm tired of lying, deadbeat ass mother's who can make time to party and drink but can't keep her promises to come visit her daughter.

[LolaB28]

That's who you chose to have a child with

[BlendedMe]

Likewise, you have a choice who you chose in the past and who you deal with in the future. However, I'm not bitter about every woman doing wrong.