Is it normal if my boyfriend masturbates everyday?

Is it normal if my boyfriend masturbates everyday? He tells me he needs to do it everyday (at least 3 times a day and sometimes could do more) and watches porn..
We do have sex but only once a week when I come over on the weekend. But that day/night, we have multiple rounds. He has a really high sex drive. I have an average sex drive lol but we do have great sex.

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  • I say it's pretty normal in his case, since he has a high sex drive. I for one have an average one just like yourself, so I only masturbate 2-3 times a week, maybe more -- it depends on the day. But that's just me and that's my opinion on the subject and everybody might have a different stance. Some people wouldn't consider it normal and don't like it when their significant 'other' masturbates and watches porn when they're in a committed relationship. At the end of the day it all comes down to how you feel about it. If you're happy with him masturbating and watching porn; dandy. If you're not, then maybe it calls for a sit-down and some chinwag.

  • Try this experiment. Offer to arrange that you give him a BJ every day after work or school. You can even do it CFNM. It will be, in effect, sexual therapy, to draw him off the porn/jack routine he it in. If he needs more intensity and is amenable to it, include anal fingering with the BJ. Be sure that it is not hesitant and he cums in your mouth every time. If I were like he is, and I knew I would get this every day I wanted it, I would cut way back on the masturbation so I could cumm like a race horse. If this doesn't work, he has a problem above my pay grade.

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  • Definitely not normal, at least 3 times a day that's absolutely crazy. But yes masturbating is totally normal but that much is not normal, it's like an addiction. Also if it were me I wouldn't want my boyfriend watching porn, it's kinda like cheating because he's looking at other naked women and comparing them to you. It's practically the same thing as him asking another girl for nudes or something. Like couldn't he just think about you?

  • If I had a boyfriend I'm totally cool with him masturbating and watching porn everyday. The porn thing hopefully sometimes we watch it together. But I rather him masturbate a lot or watch porn a lot. Then being doing other things with other people. I would say to you choose your battles. Because it could be something worse then this.

    • choose my battles? what do u mean by that?

    • For instances, you say is it normal for my boyfriend to masturbate everyday. I would say for some guys it is normal and other guys it isn't normal. What I mean to say, to you choose your battles is would you rather your boyfriend cheat on you. Or just masturbate a lot. Because one is worse then the other. And it's not the masturbating. Because he could be doing it with other people to get rid of his big sex drive. But he's making the smarter decision. Also, showing how much he loves you.

    • ahh ok yeah i get it. yeah i dont mind him masturbating but when he told me like he can do it over 3 times a day i was like wow lol. but yeah. id rather him masturbating than cheating.

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  • It's normal if he masturbates everyday. 3 is a high but I think it's not crazy for someone his age. I dated a guy who masturbated a lot too, it would decrease when we had sex but also sometimes I think he used it to numb himself...

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  • Pretty normal, even with a healthy sex life, men still masturbate.

  • Masturbation is normal in a relationship. Some partners have a higher sex drive, especially when you can only each other on the weekends. I personally cut the porn in a relationship, I would much rather watch her. But isn't a bad thing to watch it.

  • It's normal for him to masturbate even though you're in a relationship but that amount sounds excessive. To each their own?

  • Yes it's normal but it's not good. Masturbating becomes an addiction and start messing with your daily life. I recommend checking out NoFap on reddit

  • he said it already... he has high sex drive... maybe meet him more often

  • He should be fucking you instead of porn and jerking it

    • Yeah he would prefer having sex with me, but I can't come over during weekdays coz Im busy so we can't have sex.

  • It's not unusual, don't see why it should be such an issue for you.

  • Well that's sad, you need to change that. You should start giving him blowjobs everyday & he'll stop masturbating. Also, fuck a lot.

    • I can't come over on weekdays so then on weekend i come over and we do it. Im busy with work and uni

    • You can send him nudes, you guys should try cam sex.

    • hell no!

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  • no not really. I mean he should want you to do that for him. And he should commit to you. not porn. see.

    • Yeah he would prefer having sex with me, but I can't come over during weekdays coz Im busy so we can't have sex.

    • why are you busy then?

    • what the fuck? so i can't be busy? are u normal bro?

  • He may have a sex addiction

  • No he's an addict

  • Its better than banging the hot milf next door so consider yourself lucky.

  • Your friends needs to learn to control it. His mind is probably always on porn.
    Get him out of the house.

  • Yes, but it's still immoral.

  • pretty normal.
    you must give him sex everyday too

    • I can't come over on weekdays so then on weekend i come over and we do it. Im busy with work and uni

    • an hour will be just fine

  • normal for guys to masturbate especially with higher sex drives

  • Yep and its something that MOST guys do all their lives. Even married guys do.

  • yes i have mostly every day unless i was sick since i was 14 and I'm 46 now. at least 2 x a day

  • Completely fine. Mine used to do it often too

  • It wouldn't be normal if he didn't. Whenever you can, do it for him.

    • Yeah he would prefer having sex with me, but I can't come over during weekdays coz Im busy so we can't have sex.

    • Then let him whack away. He has needs and most of the time you're busy. Jacking off to porn isn't cheating. If it were possible and you had the time, you'd be his favorite porn star. I bet when he watches porn, he's thinking about you. But... life is what it is. You can't always be there to be is star.

    • use it or lose it

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