I met a guy at work. He's was very nice and polite. I asked his coworker in the same department if he has a wife, girlfriend, kids and how old he is. The guy went back and told him, but he and answered all the questions. He remained nice and kept coming back and forth. He overheard me talking to my coworker about relationships. I said I was happy by myself. I didn't mean it really. Since that night he did a complete turn around. I don't even know if that conversation has anything to do with it. He may just not like me and is making sure I understand. He doesn't look at me, talk to me and avoids me. I said hello last night. He said hello. I asked him how he was. He answered with a smile. Then later I asked him if he was going home now. He said yes in a short way. I said see you tonight. He said yes and that was it. I can't figure out if he doesn't like me or is angry. I asked an older lady to talk to him. He is a loner. I'm not asking those guys again. I don't know what they are saying. They told him I like him in front of the whole cafeteria. The lady said she would help me. Can anyone elaborate what is going on? Guys only please. Should I ask him? What should I say? I don't understand. If he doesn't like me, he doesn't have to act like this. I'm not offended. Act normal. Why be mean and short. I've done nothing to bug him at all to deserve this.
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I found out he does not want a relationship now. He wants to come to work and work only. And go to school and focus on his future. No time for friends or girls. That sucks. However, it still doesn't mean he can't be friendly.
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