There are a few things that could be going on here. Maybe he's trying to start a conversation because he's bored and there's nothing else to do. Maybe he's trying to hook up with you and he thinks that you'll be more likely to say yes if he's drunk. Or maybe he's just trying to be friendly and he thinks that you'll appreciate the effort.
In any case, it's probably not a good idea to respond to his texts when he's drunk. If you do, you're likely to either encourage him to keep texting you or you'll end up in a long and confusing conversation that you'll regret in the morning. So just ignore his texts and wait until he's sober before you respond.
He's thinking about you and if he text's you saying he's drunk, he might want to say things to you that he couldn't say to you usually. This time he would have an excuse if he says anything that's out of bounds.
he probably wants to talk to you regularly but doesn't have enough courage until he's had a few drinks. you should try making the first move if you are interested, he's probably a bit shy in that department.
Means he likes to text when he is drunk. Before texting was around, this is the same guy that would empty out his phone book and call random girls in it after the bar closed I bet...I've been there. Prob also means he is diggin your chili and interested in how you react to his drunk texts...any favorable response and he is yours. I think most guys really like when somebody shows them some love when they are drunk...
Means you are on his mind and if he is texting around his mates he may be doing it to show he has a girl he can talk to, sort of showing off to give himself an ego boost, not necessarily a bad thing.
Personally I don't see why girls even care about some guy who rambles on drunk, but then I am biased being a non drinker myself.
He sounds like he's confused about what he wants. The next time he calls drunk, ask him to meet sober at a civilized hour to talk about where things stand.
I think he confused as well. But I'm not answering another drunk call. If he is interested in anyway, he will contact me on his own at a reasonable hour and then I will ask him that. Good advice!
He showed he wants to get to know you better. Now let him take the lead - he may be embarrassed by what he did and not pursue it or may not care, but either way if you are interested put it out there that you are and let him decide what he wants to do next
I guess it depends what the texts say. If you connect with the subconscious level when you are drunk then wouldn't he be telling you what he thinks? If he texts you something random like: "I like to eat horses and I like to ride donuts" then it prob means nothing.
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I think it depends on how drunk he was and if he knew he was doing it?
I've a guy friend who called me when he was drunk. I figured out he was drunk when he called, so I didn't pay much attention to his call. We have totally NOTHING going on and he is being very good with his girlfriend of 6 years. Plus, he didn't recall about calling me at all the next day.
well it sounds like he isn't ready to settle down... but at the same time I gotta point out that that's a really disrespectful way to treat someone especially someone you don't regularly talk to.
I respect a guy that tells me that. I'd rather a guy be honest with me then ghost me. But I won't out up with casual, I won't be a second choice or backup plan or booty call. I will definitely not put up with drunk late calls. If he wants to talk to me even just as friends, he will need to do it at appropriate hours. Even though I like him, I will not hesitate to drop him if that's how he wants to be. I have more respect for myself than that.
God, this used to get me in trouble every weekend in my twenties (by phone not text, which was worse with my slurred speech) He is thinking about you, that's what it means.
Sounds like he just wants you for a piece of ass, or possibly as some type of plaything when he's bored. Either way, I'd quickly see my way out of his sights if you can.
Didn't anyone tell you nothing good happens after 2 am? Lol. Anytime a guy suddenly appears and calls you that late, he just wants to fuck. He sounds a bit pathetic that he's drinking and drunk if he's around your age.
I guess it means he thinks about you when he's drunk maybe and if he doesn't text you only when he's drunk means he thinks aboit you more when he's drunk only
It can mean a lot of things. Maybe he likes you, and is interested in you but then again, maybe he is lonely and just wants company or sex, without being particularly interested in anything else.
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Anonymous
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It means he texts you drunk lol. That's it. Some people (most) are more talkative when they're drunk.
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