How do I handle a passive, reserved guy?
This guy I like is passive, laid-back, reserved at first but once he opens up, he can talk for HOURS. I wouldn't say he's shy but he could come... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
It seems like he's grown too comfortable with you and your relationship as it currently stands. As long as you continue to fill the same role in his life I'm not sure that he will ever "come around" to wanting to date you. I would suggest you basically give him two options, progress the relationship or lose you as a friend. It's fair to both of you and removes the potentially infinite time spent on your part wondering what is going to happen.
What Guys Said 4
Sit down, have a talk about doing something casual and if he'd be up for that. Nothing super serious, but since you're both attracted to each other there's no sense in not being somewhere between friend and super-official-mates.
I used to be exactly like that. But a few years ago I actually got screwed over by waiting something out like that.
I don't blame him. People are liars. The whole world is rotten, especially Christians.
What Girls Said 2
why don't you ask him out, initiate?
First I would like to say, opposites do attract and I think you two sound like you could complete each other. Shy guys are the best! Although you shouldn't confuse that with thinking it means they don't wanna fool around, they do. Give him time, build up the pressure and then, when you think he's ready...take control. I hope things work out for you.