Why do black guys find white girls so attractive?

[sweetpea_8893]

Ok... Sooo what makes a white girl so attractive to a black guy? What's the biggest difference between us and black girls?

-looks?

-sex?

What?

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I'd really like a black guys perspective :)

[Anonymous]

We are all being played; White, Black, Asian and Hispanic. I am an African American male. And, I dot find this "new breed" of African American female attractive. You know, like the ones seen on those reality shows like "basketball wives." These are not real women. They stereotype African American women as loud, out of control, whorish, and prone to settle all disagreements by fighting and hair pulling. This is all by design. NO! I am not attracted to anyone like that. I am attracted to "African" women. (Drop the American suffix).

An African woman whether you are African American or born on the continent is one who is in touch with her African ancestry and KNOWS that she is the descend of African slaves. She is not trying to CREATE a new Black image that resembles White women on the outside.

The best example of REAL Black women are Black Muslim women. They are intelligent, well put together and do not have to show skin to get attention. They are NOT sellouts. I find them far more attractive and beautiful than those types portrayed in those reality shows that have such large followings. They are an embarrassment and discredit to African and African American people everywhere.

The African American male needs to get his act together and get his head out of the cesspool too! Damn! We are the descendants of African slaves and we dishonor them with all of this foolishness and selling ourselves out for the sake of the dollar.

Many White people would either rather see us behave like them (making us safe Negroes) or acting like foul mouth uncontrolled thugs and brutes who demean and kill each other. Many Whites fear seeing us being strictly in touch with our true African ancestry. For if we did, we would truly be united. Where there is unity, there is power. Whites aren't having that.

So anything that divides us, they are for it.

Already we see a great outpouring of White men usurping Black women. This is much more than mere dating and marriage. It is a purposeful insertion of White men into the pool of African American women to further broaden the rift between the Black woman and Black man. (divide and conquer). Great damage as been done as the offspring between Whites and Blacks will have more of a love and appreciation for what is European/Anglo Saxon than what is African.

Many Black adults already identify with the ancestry of another race of people: The Anglo Saxon. They teach their children to be the same.

[nenezkeke]

Yep so true they make us black woman look like trash on tv more so then any other race I've noticed that too. Plus from other comments I've read other places a lot of man say because white and Asian woman are more submissive then black and Latino woman which usually come off as more dominant. Which I find disrespectful both ways

[Lucy353]

... I'm white and I can tell you that we don't have any "big conspiracy" to get black people to hate each other. Well at least, not that I know of xD
Dude white people don't want to divide black people, we just let them do whatever they want. We don't see you as some opposing force that's threatening or something (well, except for some idiotic racists, but they're definitely not the majority). I know, well at least in my case, I just see black people as equal. No matter what your race, I'll treat you like I would treat anyone else, whether white, black, Asian, whatever. I'm not expecting anyone to "act white", but I do expect them to treat me respectfully and normally, that's just basic manners. I don't want to talk with someone who's being rude to me, no matter what their race is.

[SpartWallace]

I AM a black guy and I sure as hell find white girls- as a group- really attractive , although honestly I don't know why...But I have four hypotheses:

1.For years I was surrounded by black girls and they were all I ever had in my mind. But when I moved to a place where white girls were "available' everything kinda changed. They were kind of exotic to me and God, do I love exotic!

2. Like many guys across the country, I've had my share of p*rn. And guess who was featured in most of the videos? White girls. For a while, what was featured in p*rn was my view of sex and sexual pleasure, and I guess in my subconscious I established a link between sexual gratification and white women.

3. They're everywhere on TV, in movies, in romantic songs, on the covers of the magazines, in the paintings, whether as models, lovers, muses, angels, etc they're depicted as the epitome of beauty. I am pretty sure this played its part

4. We all know in this country, whites earn more on average than other ethnicities. Now, that also means more white girls will get the advantages of "not-being-poor"; for example, more will be educated. They will be more able to afford the cosmetics to "look beautiful" (I know it's not just abt cosmetics, but come on, it does count doesn't it?), they will be more able to afford staying in shape by exercising and eating healthy, etc. So in the end, they end up looking more attractive physically and socially.

Maybe it's one of these hypotheses, maybe a combination of them, that make me more attracted to white girls. As I said, I don't have a clear answer myself...

[liars_paradox]

I think that your answer is probably the best one on here.

[jerry17]

u said it all bro

[Michjay]

You nailed it :)

[Ogcoolie]

Spot on my nigga. I definitely relate to these 👌

[kwsmith2]

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[Mrg298282]

@kwsmith2 are you trollin or something? Cuz this is some eugenics bullshit.

[xMuse143]

I live around black guys,so I think my answer is valid(:

I think that it depends on the person.Some black guys like white girls,some black guys don't.In your area,probably most like white girls because they live around them.Rather in the ghetto,they go after the black and mexican girls because that's who they live by.It has nothing to do with sex.Well,kinda because black guys are known for checking out every girl more then guys of other races xD and black girls have the booties,which is why they go for them more xD But if a girl of another race had a donk,they would go for her as well.There really isn't any difference.Guys are different from eachother,and/or they go for the girls with the bigger booties.But I really think it has to do with where they live xD

[Anonymous]

I asked my cousin why he likes white girls only and he says because most of us black girls are selfish loud and obnoxious and we aren't as freaky in the sex area? I KNOW WTF? RIGHT?

[sweetpea_8893]

Yes I've been told that we will try more things than black girls will lol

[Anonymous]

asked a very similar question here www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1145429-why-do-black-men-seek-out-small-mostly-white-girls

[GuldarHeel]

A lot of it is science. In nature, male animals are usually darker. Females are often lighter in complexion. Males are usually attracted to lighter complected females. Females are usually attracted to darker complected males. Darker is considered more masculine while lighter is usually considered more feminine. This is the natural order of things. You have elements who have tried to deny or block the natural order of things for centuries by various means. Violence. Threats. Cohesion. Socioeconomics. Then you have the factor that within the last few decades BW have the ability to pick and choose who they breed with, pick some of the worse pieces if s in earth, then somehow blame all or most BM, when it's themselves who like thugs and bad boy types, who they admit they like. They consider brothers who read books and listen to anything other than rap or R and B to be "lame", etc. They have an unnatural hate and spite towards BM and are very disrespectful, argumentative and adversarial. Why would anyone in their right minds want a woman that disrespects them and wants to be over them and call the shots all the time? So many intelligent BM have gone elsewhere. Anywhere to find a mate. Some are just looking for some cooch and I despise BM like this, but they are out there. Beware. Usually people end up with what they deserve in the end.

[AdenAK]

The real question is do you like or dislike that they do it? Im going tell you the truth. Not only black guys like white girls. It's just that other guys that are not black are better at hiding intrest and looking discreet. Whereas black guys are overt and obvious so u catch us more simples.
My girlfriend is white but I never thought yeah she's white she's spicey I see plenty of hot non whites. She looked cute but her personality made her mine. I can't say for all whites but she has a tremendous ass which I dont let go of from dawn till dusk. She has a flat stomach and tiny waist. She has bigpink lips. So hot she is.

[bobair]

Sometimes it's how white girls look, but I think it's mostly how black girls act.

I'm trying not to paint black girls with a huge brush, because everyone's different, but I've found black women more assertive, defensive, and aggressive. And I've found white girls to be more submissive and malleable.

And I suspect submissive wins over aggressive.

Take from that what you will...

~ Robby

[musicboy]

@sweetpea_8893 I'm a single black man and honestly to tell you the truth from a Black Man point of view as myself. We love white woman more is because their just natural woman. What I meant by natural woman is a woman that doesn't wear make-up or long finger nails, you honor and submit yourselves to a man so he could be your foundation. Which is basically what ALL black man wants!

Now from a Nigga or Real Nigga (means "igorant") point of view, they attend to be attract to you because of those rumors which is passed among themselves like "White woman are easier", "White woman are freaks", and etc. Beware that a Nigga or Real Nigga can be any type of race, not just black.

Hope this helps, take care baby :)

[Anonymous]

I'm mixed so you can just listen to half of my answer. I don't find you to be more attractive than girls of other races. I go after whoever I find attractive regardless of race. There are other guys that feel the same. I know some of them have racists reasons behind it (I hope that it isn't a sizable amount). Other black guys are raised in white communities and become more attracted to them over other races as a result.

[Michjay]

Hahaha

[Anonymous]

i don't find black girls attractive anymore I always loved white girls.i loooove white girls cos they are so dammit they are adorable I never had 1 but I will love to and easy to get with I mean friendly black girls don't like and I don't like them well we just don't like each other like that I guess and I hope white girls like me too.dammit they do look awesome

[Anonymous]

90% of black guys are with black girls and vice versa. you might get a handful of white washed sell outs that prefer white girls but most of them prefer black girls. sorry!

[StHelensfan1988]

Yeah and most black men cheat with white women 89% fact that cheat on black women with white women just like our race of women is with us but they cheat on us white men with black men

[thompson75]

I find white girls to be a little more carefree, for the most part. Also, black girls have a defensive attitude towards certain black men, almost as if they assume that we like white girls from the get go...

[GuldarHeel]

I know exactly what you're talking about. If you look like the type that listens to rock music or reads or have an IQ higher than a jar of mayonnaise, they are very defensive. You can just have a look if confidence and professionalism about you. They usually want nothing to do with you because I think they see you as a potential mate for a non BW. They call you a "lame". They know the ignorant thug bad boy type listens to rap and is stuck in the ghetto mentally so they know he's into BW because that's all he knows, and they love and accept these males because of this. It's ignorance to the extreme. But when they get mistreated by the very same "thugs" and "bad boys" they love, somehow it's all BM that ain't s. Not the pieces of dirt they love to f with. All of us. It's somehow all of our fault.

[xwh0aitsbrittx]

I've always wondered this too. Black guys hit on me everywhere I go, and it's rare for a white guy to hit on me. So why do they like me so much? And do white guys not like me as much or are they just more shy?

[liars_paradox]

Probably the second one, they're more "shy" or less likely to let you know what they think.

[Michjay]

Black guys are more confident.

[CarolinaGuti]

Me too, i get checked ut EXCLUSIVELY by black guys? I have a medium-sized booty so?

[AdenAK]

I dont find white girls the most attractive but my girlfriend happens to be white. I think it's because when your surrounded by one thing nothing else gets a look in. One thing you need to know is that black guys are a lot more confident and that's why the most common interracial relationship is black guy white girl. They do say the riskier the investment the Greater the return. black guys approach and reap the benefits. Other races of men tend to be shyer so they benefit less. Let me reiterate if my girlfriend was black I would of still liked her. So not all black guys love white girls.@Carolinaguti maybe your pretty, although for me no booty would be a deal breaker.

[StHelensfan1988]

Black men want to be us white men so badly it kills them if a white woman rejects them they turn nasty and I've seen it and confronted them saying the white women dont belong to black men hell you dont belong to us white men you belong to yourselves but 80% of you white women love black men for the sex and thats all black men want

[StHelensfan1988]

Cause black men play the fucking race card on white women when white women reject them they can't take no for an answer they think they are kings of the white pussy and white women want to experiment on black men cause lets face it white women take us white men for granted and use black men for the so called stereotype about the BBC or black men are better in bed im just fed up with white women falling for the bs and our women being killed for fuck all just cause they act like childish brats who can't get their way so they have a tantrom and attack white women our fucking women here black men go kill your own race of women you bunch of savages

[nenezkeke]

I'm an African American woman and I've had every race of man at one point hit on me maybe the black guys were just out there about it in you're case and found you more attractive then the white guys did.

[nenezkeke]

@StHelensfan1988 you shouldn't be talking and plus back in the day the white woman were the ones lying about black guys raping them so yea lol that's to funny to act like blacks play the race card when whites are the ones who play it and always are acting like all black are out to get them.

[Anonymous]

interesting...I rarely see a black guy white girl relationship. usually it's just black black or white white.

[Isca7]

It really depends on which part of the country you're in. Some places are more diverse and willing to accept this type of relationship, others aren't as likely to accept it.

[StHelensfan1988]

You dont see black men/white women you need get more go to London loads of white sluts walking hand in hand with black men hate me all you want its the truth

[nenezkeke]

I've seen more white guys with black woman. But yea I hardly ever see black guys with white girl well from what I've seen I haven't anyways.

[Anonymous]

Wow, fishing for compliments to uplift white women and further put down black women. You can't say its not that, because you would have asked for them to compare the two.

[nenezkeke]

I've notice that to white woman in most of the cases and black man in most of the cases have to put black woman down to build up themselves.

[Ebonyguy777]

White girls act diffrent its hard to explain its like seeing a fairy tale movie but for me I love a white girl beautiful personality. Hair, skin, body shape everything very diffrent I grew up in all black hoods around beautiful black women but white girls have something diffrent about them.