Girls: would you ever go out with a fat guy?

[Anonymous]

I'm in high school I'm tall and cute (in my opinion) I have a nice smile I play football but I'm fat. It really sucks because I feel like I'm never gonna get a girlfriend. I'm not super fat I just have a bit of a gut and chub. So I guess I'm more chubby lol. I don't know would any of you girls date a fat guy? Be honest.

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I play football and run track so I already do sports. I am a very laid back and confident person. And thereisnt any attractive big girls at my school. Like seriously there is none.

[iamsocool7]

I think chubby guys are so cute to be honest :] Personally I wouldn't date somebody obese.. because I have a more active lifestyle (unless they were active a lot too lol)... but to me the heart is way more important than looks. But to answer your question..

-A lot of girls like chub

-Maybe you're just shy and that's why you lack attention?

-If it truly upsets YOU then just try to lose some pounds :] But do it for you.

[lalalovesyou]

Look for really little girls. Not little as in young but short girls. Seriously. From what I've observed, all the cute little girls like big boys because we like to feel protected. Be sweet and confident and sexy and you'll attract a lot of those girls!

[sourpatchchik2]

You sound fine to meee.(: Appearance isn't all that it's cut out to be unless you're pretty shallow...and you sound like you take care of yourself to me which is a big plus.(:

[bluediamond]

Man I know plenty of chubby or bigger guys that have girls. I think you should be more confident and get out there talk to girls be social. If you really don't feel good about being bigger hit the gym a little more, all I'm saying is that you should not worry about it, and just be confident and social it will make you be more attractable to girls.

[ryanontario]

i've seen lots of fat people that are still married . I think maybe you need some more self confidence which may be found through sports . and there is also lots of fat and chubby girls out there so maybe you might want to focus on dating one of them . that may be your most likely option to find a girlfriend .

[lolli]

Sye.yes. I know fat guys that get chicks. And I've had crushes on fat guys too. Just do the same things other popular guys do. Dress nice.be clean. Smell good. Wear cologne. Good smelling breath. make sure your hair looks good. Be nice and funny and confident... bada-bing, chicks!

[urdeadangel]

I believe if you like someone it shouldn't matter on their size too much.. as long as your attracted to them that's the main thing. Nice guys who are a little chubby and skinny guys give good cuddles, besides muscular guys are gross.

[IHateMeganFox]

Football players are bigger... No worries. I don't really care about weight unless it's morbidly obese. But I don't date jocks... Just never were really into them.

[Bliss-taylor]

Being over weight doesn't = unattractive. It's more than that. Many women would date you if being over weight is all it is.

[Anonymous]

I'm really tall and just big. I hate dating shorter thinner guys because its such a turn off to see his ribs or something like that or when you lay next to a guy his legs are like super short next to Ur's. So yea bigger the better (most of the time)

[SweetestSinxxx]

No... but I think you answered your own question. If you're not trying to date fat chicks, why should a not fat chick want to date you?

[bohunk89]

wow, your shallow. I mean the dude plays football. It's not like he's some loser playing xbox all day. I think urjust picky and probably don't give a dang about personality, which is too bad.

[SweetestSinxxx]

I'm not shallow, I'm fair. I take care of myself and expect a guy to do the same. You don't have to choose between personality or looks, you can go for both.

[Harry_not_so_potter]

2 things, 1 For football, line men need to be bigger. If you aren't (even if you are athletic) you will just get pushed around. Obviously this is only to a certain extent, but it doesn't change the fact that yo have to be a bit larger than average. 2 Saying that you expect men to meet your physical standards, or you won't even consider going on a date with them is pretty much the definition of being shallow.

[Fishka]

I dated a fat guy. And we made out and etc. And I felt good! His personality was just amazing and I liked him a lot.

[allicansayisthis]

...

then I p*ssed on his personality and cheated on him with a good-looking guy.

The End.

[brunohusker]

..... Then I ended up going out with more guys who were HAWT but had bad personalities and kept doing this until I was about 30 and realized that I should of stuck with a guy with a personality

[Fishka]

Guys, you sound childish.

[TiddlyDeeBaby]

Grow up idiots.. :\

[Cheesebomb30]

Complete honesty, that sounds like you just described me. Only difference is I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She's shorter and a lot skinnier than me. Trust me, personality helps.

[heyitslinda]

Yeah I'd date you, in my opinion I'd rather the guy be chubby or skinny rather than have huge muscles because that's just nasty.

[Vivaldi]

You look beautiful. You wouldn't date non-muscular men unless they are devilishly handsome.

[Flamingo-chan]

Certainly.

The ones that don't date you because they think you're "fat" are probably too superficial to bother with anyway.

[stripedbunny]

Yes why not if you're a great guy? (I have quite a few "bigger" and "chubbier" exes)

[Marrryyyyy]

iw ould encourage us to work out together, but I wouldn't discount someoen because of this, no

[CINDY16]

i would date a fat guy who is tall and big and works out or does sports so not someone who stays unhealthy

[Anonymous]

No. Fat guys aren't really my thing. For dating that is. I just don't find them attractive in a certain way..

[Iron_Man]

What if they lose the weight?

[Braids13]

I would(: As long as your heart is in the right place it shouldn't matter if your fat or not. When you like a girl just show her what's on the inside and your personalty and she won't care if your big. :)

[Anonymous]

Maybe lose some weight or really lower your standards, do the best that you can find it is possilbe.

[Anonymous]

No not really unfortunately, i love guys that are muscular and toned

[finney]

I would for sure go out with a chubby guy. (: As long as they're nice, clean, etc. Most girls feel the same way unless they're super shallow.

[human_condition]

I've dated 2 different fat guys.

[sweetnothings]

i would date you if you were my age :)