White guys: Black Girls - How does she have to look like to catch your attention?

[Anonymous]

Okay I just moved into college and I never noticed until now how many cute white guys there are until now. Now I'm interested but I don't know how to get their attention...so what makes them turn their heads when it comes to black girls?

I don't know how exactly white guys show they're interested or shows how the think a girl is cute from afar but I know a lot of them aren't as obvious or aggressive like a lot of black boys I grew up around. They would literally pull you out of a crowd just to talk to you. So how would I know that I caught their attention?

P.S. I don't think in any way think that all white guys would want to date at least one black girl. No not at all. But if you did what do you imagine her to look like...skintone, dress, etc.

Also I'm nowhere near ghetto (nor overweight). I mention that because I know that a lot of people like to list that off like that's the default lifestyle or primary "personality trait" I would have to exhibit as a black girl.

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Sorry I didn't mean to put "until now" twice.

[G-Daz]

Haha this is the sort of question I kind of wanted to know myself, as far as looks are concerned id be unsure if I look anything like what a black girl would find attractive but id like to think they do. Anyway I think nowadays most people have opened up and are more open to dating out of their race whatever that may be, I think rather than guys seeking a specific physical appearence although to a lot of guys this still is very important but I think now a lot of people find someone attractive who is on a similar personality level to them and can relate, the race part doesn't matter as much but yes there deffinitly is those guys who will just not date any other race than their own but even so iv found that a lot of guys that would rather just date a girl from their own race still find black girls attractive, the only difference is they seem a little more picky when dating out, I don't think it would be uncommon to meet a white guy that finds black women of the likes of rhianna and beyonce not hot because I think to some extent peoples perception of what they find attractive is something that has been moulded into them, whatever the media glorifies as attractive will become the ideal whatever that may be, its just something that happens at least on a subconcious level that I think affects a lot of people, some more than others.

Anyway, to me personally I'm not sure I have one ideal black women that id like if she became my wife than that would be it but until than I'm not sure, I find few unnatractive. The reason I say I don't have one ideal is because I don't think there really is one, I mean I could find one girl from one race highly attractive but than I could find another girl from the exact same race who looks completely different and I could think she is stunning too just in a different way. I feel this way with black girls too, I like light sknned black girls but I also find really dark skinned ones really gorgeous too, as far as looks are concerned all I can say is just that id want her natural, no make up, preferably id like her to have her natural hair but whatever she is comfertable with is cool with me, dress wise I don't know just something that is what she likes and not something that she wears to represent something she wants to be I just want something that is her. As far as body goes I know a lot of white guys likely like the thinner type and I like that too although I generally like thicker girls I think they look really cuddily and cute so deffinitly fun to hug. just remember as far as looks go, its impossible to appeal to everyone because everyones different, just be you and don't change and you will get a guy that likes you for you not someone else, I think black girls are awsome so just go for the white guys that like you.

Good luck, God Bless

[ManAmongBoys]

I have dated (and slept with) every race. There are quite a few black girls I have found attractive. Generally my tastes go along the lines of Beyonce, Halle Barry, Aisha Tyler, Jada Pinket Smith, Rihanna - before her weird-ass hair. Personality-wise, less loud and less "ghetto", which is a stereotype, definitely, but my preference nevertheless.

[Asker]

So straight hair with euro-centric facial features when it comes to looks for you?

[ManAmongBoys]

I suppose, yes. Though, I really don't care about the hair. I guess I don't know many black girls who DONT have straight hair, so personally I don't know much different. As for Euro-centric features, I guess. I've never really thought about it. Would you consider Jennifer Hudson in that list? She's gorgeous now that she's lost weight.

[Anonymous]

A very good friend of mine happens to be a black girl that I met at work. What attracted me in the first place was when I said hello to her, at lunch during her first day at the company, she said hello back and we slowly became friends from there.

I consider her to be a very attractive young woman, both physically and mentally, and while we haven't started to really date each other, we do enjoy spending some free time together.

[Anonymous]

Do some of the girls think caucasian guys are attractive?