i think a lot of the reason why people go for people out of their league is to do with their own ego and self-esteem. guys do it too! The only way to get over it is to become more comfortable with yourself, try to be less shallow by looking for the attractiveness in everyone you see, some people have hardly any but it will open up your "attractedness" window to more guys, and your taste can change and become more varied. I used to just like blond, blue-eyed perfect guys, now I'm kinda turned off them, they're usually up themselves (not always, but defs usually!) or manwhores, and my taste has changed to like dark haired, eyed guys, guys with different eye shape, nose shape, body type, etc. so much more choice!
because he's not interested doesn't mean he's out of your league. you just haven't met the right guy for you yet. be patient. he's coming
"Attraction isn't a choice" - David DeAngelo
The fact is that you don't have conscious control over who you are and are not attracted to. I'm attracted to Angelina Jolie, but I don't plan on getting on a plane to tell her this. It took you a whole year to realize that he wasn't interested? If he were interested, you would have known.
So, no, there isn't a way to prevent being attracted to an attractive guy. Why would you want to? You don't need to change your standards. Shoot for the stars and land on the moon, as the saying goes. Just make sure that you understand when something isn't going to work out. Don't get hung up on one guy, just keep trekking.
I say charge it to the game... this is the point of your life to where you're gaining experience with dating, men, and becoming a woman. I wouldn't take it too hard on the chin if I were you. You like what you like.
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life is unfair suck it up
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