You want the answer to your questions? I myself have talked to about 1000 girls and have read book after book on girls, etc.
Essentially all girls want, is to feel wanted and desired by both man and women.
Nice guys can't offer the same thing that a jerk can because he's too much of a pussy to speak his mind. Nice guys are unatractive because girls imagine sex with them. A girl wants to be face first in pillow while being bent over doggy style, if this image makes you uncomfortable, you are probably quite sadly, a nice guy or a chick. They don't want a guy that has to ask questions all the time, sort of like what u are doing on this post. they want a guy to know. Nice, guys usually dont "know" because they lack experience in relationships. Nice guys also give off that vibe like theirs nothing wrong to them and that they don't to do kinky shit. Girls like it when a guy is into the knky shit, it makes them feel sexy.
Gurls also want a guy that can be fixed.
They also want a guy that can loose his shit at the drop of a hat if the instance arises. Don't ask why, take my word for it. Fine ill tell u, it has to do with primative shit and being alpha.
My appologies, on spelling and whatever. I have too much experience its disqusting. I have resorted to hookers now because I know what i want. Which is interesting because i have so many girls that want my d. Their, another tip. KNOW WHAT U WANT. Soooo, in conlusion.
Be more angry,
have the mindset, "to not ask to bend a girl over during sex". And when you compliment them, for the love of god, dont do it because u mean it, do it because you want to get in their pants. Next time a chik acts like a stuck up cunt, dont let it phase u, feel bad for them. Just do u, and eventually u will find someone. If u dont want to feel lonely get a pet, dont get a chik. if want sex, get a hoooker. Know exactly what u want. That way u dont see all these chiks and feel worthless.
Oh, i almost forgot, some guys forget about this. Have a good sense of style, it shows that u want to get a mate. Whether u think it works or not is irrelevant, because im telling right now it does. Those thoughts u have that clothes might not work, is a lack of confidence. U feel like if u wear nice clothes nothing will happen or whatever, well it will. Their is no better first impression of confidence on a guy than clothers. Just remember, still try even though u have nice clothes. I could go on for days, good luck
yours truly, fellow "jerk"