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Everyone gives the pretty one's attention over the not as pretty or not as confident ones. This results in them thinking they can do whatever they want without anyone judging them in a bad way. They get all cocky and proud because everyone treats them like royalty. It's really the people who worship them that make them treat others like crap. You treat them like they're the only people in the world who matter for too long and they start to believe it.
It's because girls can be really fricken Stupid..
Most the time I think its an Issue with Not knowing what they want.
And others its because if they're not an asshole you have to shift through a little more to figure out the guy a bit. Which a lot of girls don't want that. But whatever, if they're not gonna take the time to know you or anything, than don't give a chick the time to even get close enough to walkin' all over you
yea, not all pretty girls are stuck up.. but yes you are probably right, a lot of them are. It is weird, some girls like the thrill of having to run behind or chase a guy when a good guy is right there wanting to treat them right and with respect... I guess everyone has to go through different things in order to know what they really want in life
i don't know any girls who do that unless the guy that likes them is super ugly or something. Girls can be flattered and feel bad for a guy like this. Girls will fall for a decent normal guy, but flat out ugliness, no matter what is something no girl can really overcome.
one thing, they are insecure about themselves. they have looks and it has become so important tot hem that they forgot about their personalities and how to behave like a normal person.
they insecure about their inabilities and since looks have become so important to them they only care for the most good lookng guy who is the biggest jerk of them all, apparently jerks are more exciting to hangout with and require the girls to think very hard about them etc...
not all pretty girls are stuck up. I have learned the more stuck up, the more they have to hide. and for those girls, they usually have to hide a lot. Aka: they are socially retarded. Most stuck up girls are searching for some kind of high caliber guy that reaches her "standards" and if she is rude and stuck up, you don't fit those. Most girls like that usually don't learn, each relationship failure usually just results in more snottiness...
There is the possibility that these girls are actually insecure or are just sick of all the unwanted attention. I guess they can be picky because they have a lot of guys chasing them.
Not all pretty girls are stuck-up, and not all pretty girls pursue bad relationships. It seems to be just the ones you talk to.
im a very pretty girl and I'm not a stuck up guys always just assume I am because I'm pretty ( I think..lol )... when I talk to them they always say I thought were were a stuck up until I got to talk to you ... or they say I intimidate them ... lol ... but I know some can be... they do come down from their cloud when their looks can't get them out of sh*tty bfs?...lol
Hmm I don't know, I've gone out on dates with guys that I'm not physically attracted to, but those dates didn't go anywhere because we didn't connect, the dates I have gone on with a guy I was really physically attracted to didn't go anywhere either though I felt a connection, he didn't, I haven't been in a relationship ever. Probably because people either see I lack confidence, or I'm not attractive, or they think I'm stuck up.
Well there's girls that are pretty and girls that think they're the hottest thing since sliced bread, there is a difference. Generally speaking girls need to get their hearts broken by the jerk a few times before they really learn to appreciate the nice guy. Hold in there don't change, it will happen.
I know a few girls like that, the High School Queen types. They have balloon heads because guys have worshiped them for their looks since forever. It doesn't last, because most of them lose those looks though.
Not all "pretty" girls are that way though - also, once you realize that girls can be just as big of assholes as guys then it all makes sense.
Yep, there are plenty of smart girls that are pretty. Just looking on Facebook lately, I can see a lot of girls I went to high school with who are really attractive, but few people ever say it because they were more quiet and didn't hang out in the popular cliques. Guys can be really into status, too, and that's what I suspect is going on here to an extent.
give them no attention man, hot girls demand attention and when they don't get it they wonder why. Fuck what they think at the end of the day it comes down to personality looks don't last bro.
if you give them no attention they jump of that house and wonder 'why the f*** is he ignoring me', but don't totally ignore then either.
i also admit not all are the same some are cool girls
peace,
it's because they can get basically any guy they want so they feel entitled. don't waste your time on a girl who is going to act stuck up towards you or take you for granted. then again you should never be "overly nice" because it's really unnecessary and annoying for anyone, and shows that you're trying to compensate for something. just be yourself and be her companion, not someone that has to take complete care of her
well I'm not that nice, I only really know like one person who is THAT nice to girls and even to me, its sickening. definitely "hoes before bros" with that dude lol.
i also find that the more a girl keeps me guessing, the nicer I will get, so if a girl is playing me and I haven't realized it yet, I start getting closer to being 'too nice' and then things usually get ugly. I just wish girls would take me seriously, because I'm one of few guys that will take them seriously. just treat me like dirt.
A lot of 'pretty' girls don't get asked out much, because a lot of guys think she's already taken and yadda yadda yadda... when some guy (any guy...) finally does get up the courage to ask her out, she'll probably go for it--- even though in the back of her head she knows she could do better, she hasn't received better and she's upset by it!
Pretty girls are stuck up because all they do is talk trash all day long. When you walk away they talked trash about you because they act stuck up. It's better to say say you pretty are you single? Then find out who they are. It's all a numbers game until you find her. Don't be attracted to her looks. Girls pretty ones arn't stupid you are. On average.. Well everyone has tried at them... You have to met them at a different level. The question is who is this pretty girl?
Im just asking as a whole... besides how am I stupid for going after what I find attractive? :/
Because you're going after what WE perceive as attractive. Thinking a supermodel is attractive isn't what "you think is attractive", it's what you think will make you liked and accepted.
Thats a strong statement, but I know what your talking about. Most good looking girls know that they have looks. Looks and popularity come in a package so usually they are quite stuck up and bitchy because they think they are "all that". That's why guys like you need to go for the complete opposite, I'm not saying with looks, but someone who is genuinely sweet and doesn't hold her nose in the air... we are rare, but be patient and just ignore those girsl because we all know that they will be the losers in the end:)
Hang in there
I'm not sure a lot of good looking girls know it. The ones who go to clubs every night do. But that's a smaller set than you'd realize. A lot of good looking girls have low self-esteem. Those who don't set themselves up for immature exercises like going to said clubs simply to be validated may be more open than he'd think.
Because they've had everything handed to them. Treat them like sh*t and they'll fall for you. Just like they fall for those other bad guys.
Yeah but that's not me. I would never treat such a great woman badly. maybe a decent guy just isn't meant to have a beautiful girlfriend :(
What makes her a 'great woman'? because she's hot? she sounds like a bitch, maybe you should stop being so shallow and find a girl you like for her personality instead her titties or whatever. you'd be happier in the end, anyway.
I like a girl for her before her body anyways... body obviously helps but isn't everything. naturally I want a beautiful girl though, every guy does!
From where I stand, it sound like you're thinking with your d*** instead of your head. If what you want is a pretty girl, fine, but you'll have to adjust the way you act to win her over. Alternatively, you could find a more homely chick that actually likes you for you. Your pick. Just don't choose option c) and go to girlsaskguys to bitch about how you don't like the fact that life isn't fair
Yeah the "homely chicks" aren't usually very attractive. and I always use my brain in deciding who I like. if I'm not attracted to someone how could I be happy. if an ugly girl liked me for me, that's great, but I still personally wouldn't be happy. I want a pretty girl to like me for me the same like I do for her. and if she'd stop trying to make morons like her when she can't even appreciate them for who they are when I have everything going for me, then why can't she use HER brain?
Alright dude, obviously you're right and she's wrong. just keep doing what you're doing and I'm sure she'll eventually just fall head over heels for you
Well geez don't I have a freakin' point?
I agree with this answerer.
I'm just saying, I can't help what I like. I think girls could use a few brain cells in choosing a worthwhile guy, and basically I don't have any issues a girl thinks she can help me get rid of, like drugs or drinking problems or whatever. and I'm not doing something so stupid like that, just so an attractive girl will superficially "like" me. that's all. I'm done with my argument.
The girls you are picking out are choosing douchebags over you. You can either mimic what those guys do to attract them or look elsewhere. Like the other guy said, you are thinking with your d***.
Just be honest about what you want - if you want a stupid, hot, braindead bimbo than say so.
Truthfully, I thought the girls I pursued were smarter than that. I don't even like dumb girls. I believe they've just been blinded by their own feelings.
The hotter and dumber they are, the better. They'll do what you want if you show you're better than them.
But on a serious note, there's not much I can say that the two other gentleman have already said. If you aren't willing to play the game that these other guys are playing, then you won't succeed. If you stop worrying about why pretty girls, ugly girls, or any other type of girl is being mean and look out for your own good (similar to how these jerks and douchebags are doing) then cool :)
I'll add one thing to this. Just continue to seek out the girls YOU think are attractive. Changing up your behavior based on the attractiveness of the girl (in your eyes) is STUPID. Be yourself, but a more confident, more flirtatious, more fun-loving, more honest version of yourself, and you'll be much more attractive to the pretty, smart girls you actually LIKE.
Some very good points by wilcou. YOU are acting like these same girls. How? By complaning you can't change a bad girl. Only they can changes themselves. You can play their game OR be yourself. You can't change them to like you as you are if they are damaged girls who go for bad guys. If you're so nice, why do you want a girl who isn't nice? And, no, girls (and all humans, for that matter) use emotion to make decisions, then justify with logic. Men are just better suited for that game.
pretty girls get the most attention from the usually "popular" good looking guys. they get caught up in the attention and fall for assholes. the decent guys aren't the outright blunt ones that catch her attention.
i think it comes with the girls maturity. once they get to college they realize they don't have a little "clique" to make themselves look better and finally act like themselves.
they are plently pretty girls that aren't stuck up, you're just looking in the wrong places.
some "nice" guys can be really creepy and obsessive. those are the ONLY ones I've ever turned down.
I'm not stuck up at all, I have extremely low self-esteem, even though guys tell me I'm pretty all the time.
Ehh a lot of times that's really not the case. a lot of times a guy just really wants to be with you for the right reasons. and maybe it scares you or something, or you aren't used to that kind of attention. its never usually a guy like that that will wind up breaking your heart that's for sure. a lot of times girls turn down love and haven't a clue. he feels all the emotions, maybe you don't, maybe he believes you're the right girl and it scares him, there's a lot of factors.
Its funny because players come on stronger than nice guys do, and players/jerks/bad boys don't creep girls out usually.
I actually like nice guys, I like one right now. I'm not scared of really being loved at all, I long for it with every fiber of my being.
"players/jerks/bad boys don't creep girls out usually." That's because to you women they look lovable. The decent,nerdy,geeky,ugly guys creep you out because they look like serial killers and pedophiles.
Lol I wouldn't go that far... occasionally they look a little strange, but a lot of guys just look clean-cut and put together and the girl thinks he's a creep
You are only seeing what you have met. Girls are all over the place more compatible then that last one. Women being women are just that no more. Be careful dealing with anther so called women it means nothing that she is hot. because she is a female and has a hot toe nail. Really get a clue and move on from that lost clueless thing that talks to you. Find that special one and you will find a trail of trash talking to you with only what pleases them... Don't listen to anther listen to your heart.
Maybe girls don't like you because you're whiny little bitch and they don't want to put up with you. Chances are you're just not as amazing as you think you are and you give off a bitter vibe. Or maybe you're a creeper. It's not us, it's you, get over it.
The funny thing is, I'm not like this all the time. I'm just a little frustrated at the moment is all. chill.
and if you say I'm a creeper simply because I care about the people around me, then grow up. amazing how many selfish people there are out there anymore.
No, what's amazing is how many guys out there think they're amazing when they're not. Maybe you should grow up and realize that the sun doesn't shine out of your ass and not every girl is going to like you just because you like them.
I never said I was God's gift to women first of all... but what I find even MORE amazing is how it's OK for girls to whine and complain about idiot ex bfs/bfs and try to mold him into prince charming because they're so great and pretty and can do anything. then things don't go their way and it's NEVER the girls fault! it's always the jerk boyfriend (what's so amazing about HIM anyway?) or the guy you reject is always a "creep" when he was only the one that wanted to love you the most...
It's these stuck up girls that think they're royalty, never wrong, pursue the absolute worst relationships, and can't even take responsibility for their own selfish actions. I don't think the good hearted nice guy is the one with a problem? do you?
So this girl is overgeneralizing in the other direction, but despite her being as bitter as the OP she has a point. I've been told I give off a certain vibe in some situations, so keep that in mind. Don't try to fill your own insecurities by playing the same game these girls play, only you act like your attitude is so fanastic like they act like their looks are fantastic
Haha, yeah, now this is funny. And true.