Once you become a man who has choice with women, and who has slept around with many attractive ones, and many who are not as attractive, you find out one important thing.
It doesn't matter how good looking they are, the sex is going to suck regardless of their appearance.
You realize that you have just as good of a chance of having great sex with a good looking woman as you do with one that is not so attractive.
Which means what? it means that women have realized this long ago, which is one of the reasons why women don't put that much stock in how a man looks. They have realized long ago that sex with some you actually care about is much better than a one night stand with a stranger.
This means that what you should be looking for is not just someone who has good looks but someone who makes you feel good sexually and mentally good.
Many attractive women just aren't worth it. So what she's hot, your friends envy you for having a supermodel on your arm. So what? what if the sex is bad? what if she's a total bitch?
Is it worth it? I don't think so. Not when you have 4 other women who you can call up and have great sex with and feel amazing for several hours with and have a good emotional connection with and have fun with mentally.
After a while having a nice thing on your arm gets old. Especially when the sex is terrible or even mediocre.
Start talking to everyone, men, women, everyone. Strengthen your social wings and fly.
Im not saying you should have sex with some fat ugly woman. What I'm saying is don't put your standards so high that you don't even talk or go out with a girl because she doesn't look like a lingerie model. She just should be hot enough.
1. Know who you are. And what you want.
2. Know your purpose, and be on it.
3. Know how to communicate to people.
Do those three things and women will come.
You just have to stop caring about the possibility of rejection. After a while, you will find someone, unless you are dirt poor. Remember, except for a few rare cases, it is always the women who decides here in the U.S. and yes, the security that comes along with showing some material wealth does count, other factors are really to numerous to explore or worry about, and vary from time to time even within the same lady -- so no reason to over analyze. Only thing is, what you eventually find is not what you might have imagined.
The best way I know to get a girl is to just put yourself out there. I'm very shy and when a guy talks to me, no matter what, I always imagine/consider dating them. If you become friends with a girl, even better, now you guys know each other well. And if you can make me laugh, I'll pretty much love you.
Maybe cause you don't understand girls well .. or you're being shallow and tht won't attract you any girl .. try to understand girls more ..
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u have to be funny girl love a guy who makes them laugh
because the indetify fun with laughing or being intimate
you can't really be intimate before you have them in a relationship so the only other way to get them to idtntify you wth a good time is by making them laugh
You gues your confident..u should be sure cos girls love confident guys,.how you approach them and what you say 2 them also matters,.maybe try nd be realistic with one,.be bold in frnt of her,put a little smile on your face,.then just go straight 2 d point,tell her everything...best luck
When you make getting women your goal, the goal will allude you.
The best way to get a woman is not to try and get her, and the best way to impress one is to ignore her.
u got to go for the kill, you can't just sit back and wait for them!
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