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Why does he always make excuses not to see me?

we used to talk for half a year things ended in April. since then we have hooked up some but it was always drama afterwords so we haven't since July.... Show More

What Guys Said 1

  • excuses=not interested anymore.

    • But he doesn't know I'm still interested and its not like I'm asking to hang out even stupid stuff like dropping something off at his place for his friend he makes an excuse not to but he agrees to it at first

    • He's probably confused and doesn't want to commit to anything yet.

What Girls Said 1

  • How often do you text/call/talk to him? He sounds like a guy who's may think you are looking for more out of the "relationship," whatever it was. So he's avoiding you either 1. he really is busy, 2. he's scared you want more and isn't interested. OR he has a girlfriend or someone else he's seeing and doesn't want things to be awkward.

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