Should I send him a message, or wait for him to talk to me?

[Anonymous]

I added this guy on facebook that I have had a few classes with, but never talked to and he accepted my friend request. Should I send him a message or wait for him to say something to me? What should I say to him if you think I should send him a message? HELP!

[superdudeman]

You should, because women are nearly impervious as coming off creepy to men.

Where as men are almost always coming off creepy no matter what they say or do.

So I know you might be thinking "i don't want to come off creepy or bug him or come off needy"

And even if you blow it COMPLETELY and act "needy" creepy" and clingy. your thinking OH NO!

When he's thinking, OH YES and, oh she likes me.. this is great.

So don't worry.

[Monk_]

I second that!

We spend most of our time before talking to a women wondering how to come across less creepy.

You can't go wrong really.

[Rashad]

don't message him instead comment on his updated status's or his picture and start a conversation there and he will get the idea that you like him or you want to talk to him...That is what I do when I want to get to know a girl that is online... Plus when you message him it is a little awkaward because there is nothing to talkto him about :)

[amberxoxo]

You definitely should. I know this because I had the same problem but I couldn't wait any longer and sent him one and right away we were talking to each other. The longer you wait for him to message you the longer he won't. Tip try starting off the message with "Hey how's it going?" because before you know it there will be a big conversation and then he might start messaging you when your conversations with him end. Hope this helped,

[FallenRose]

I think you should. Cause seeing you never spoke with him, you may just be another number to increase his friends list.

Just say I dunno,

Hi thanks for accepting me.

Say your name nd just ask how his day has been. Point out that he is in your classes too. Something like that.