Why are girls seeming to become more and more careless with people's hearts?

[Anonymous]

Often times now you hear how a girl really screwed a good guy over, but why? why would they give off the impression that they liked the guy if they really didn't? they must feel SOMETHING correct? there's gotta be guys that approach a girl or even friends where she's probably like ewww right away and rejects them on the spot. totally blunt no beating around the bush or playing games later on. so why can't some girls just let some guys go? why are there more and more good guys being kicked to the curb and manipulated and used (when girls say that's what they want are good guys) then blow them aside for someone that's (clearly) a bad boy?

why are girls getting crazier? :( I wish girls could just take what they asked for and if you want someone or feel something for them and it could potentially be special, stop ignoring the good guy! bad boys get you nowhere except into trouble, and believe it or not gives you a bad image. and what makes it worse are girls calling a lot of decent guys creepy or some other insult. It's like the world only revolves around them anymore... the girls. a lot of times they don't show much respect for anyone anymore. :(

[Lolo1720]

Most young girls go through this stage of being with bad boys. Unfortunately, it's how they learn and then usually end up with a good guy. Once they learn and break their pattern, then they will grow up and realize that men who treat them badly aren't worth their time. Sometimes we think we want one thing, but then we get it and realize that it's not fulfilling us. Think about what these "bad boys" are providing to them? Passion, excitement, challenges. If you want to "get" a girl who tends to go for bad boys, you have to learn how to still be yourself but also provide those qualities that she yearns for. Be good to her, but also make it exciting and fun. Be passionate and flirty with her. Those are the characteristics that "bad boys" usually provide which keep them coming back for more. Until of course the bad boy gets tired of her and moves on, ultimately breaking her heart. So, be the guy who won't. If she doesn't appreaciate it, just continue to do the right thing and eventually someone will. It's all about karma. You have good intentions, so keep doing the right thing and know that soon you will find a girl who will appreciate you!

[toulouse]

guys do ut all the time and boast about it. so why don't you tell your brothers to stp. wtf should anyone cater to people wh f*** with h them.'go to the source, you're startingat the wrong end.

seriously I'm so sick of hearing how guys think girls are clingy and overly emotional and weak and needy. and guys are naturally rational and strong and independent.

and they f*** with people its a guy thing. if t hey hurt someone its too be expected.

this is all a big bunch f bullsh*t, but they insist on preaching.

then they go and have a tantrum when they get back what they give.

you want resect you have to give it. no one is entitled to it girls are still way too nice to guys who disrespect them, imo...

you want girls to be nicer to you, tell your brothers to stop thinking / acting with their head up their ass , or stfu.

dont go telling the people dealing with this bullsh*t for thousands of years, to change THEIR ways.

if they did manage to wake the f*** up, and stop being doormats all the more power to them. seriously. no sympathy coming out of here.

[Anonymous]

honestly guys have always been like that. and it's not just the stereotypical "bad boy" either. I hate how guys think that jerks are so obvious. sometimes jerks can be quiet guys, sometimes they can be nerdy, not every single jerk is an affliction t-shirt wearing overly tanned gym rat douchebag. sometimes jerks actually are the "normal guys". a guy isn't a decent guy because he's quiet, shy or not popular that is a complete fallacy. if you were a woman who knew guys from our pov you'd know that.

but anyway, we become more careless because we see that's what's being done to us. its a dog eat dog world out here, if we took the chance of being sweet kind little angels, we'd constantly be manipulated and used (yes, even by the "good guys") so you gotta go along to get along

[Asker]

i just never understood how you could treat someone that loves you or at the very least, really likes you, so awful, maybe if you're defending yourself from one of these jerks, or something, but I don't get how someone can treat another so badly when they have nothing but respect and admiration for them.

[jacquesvol]

You seem to think there's some change in the girls' behaviour.

I don't think so.

People always think it was better in 'the good old days'.

Roman poet Horatius wrote it in a very sarcastic way:

Aetas parentum pejor avis tulit nos nequiores, mox daturos progeniem vitiosiorem.

In English:

"Our fathers, viler than our grandfathers, begot us who are even viler, and we shall bring forth a progeny more degenerate still"?

Horatius, Carmina. Odes III, 6. Here: link

Horatius lived >2000 years ago:

Quintus Horatius Flaccus (Venusia, December 8, 65 BC -Rome, November 27, 8 BC), known in the English-speaking world as Horace: link

It seems the human being hasn't changed that much in 20 centuries ;-)

Nor did the girls.

[TC123]

Because young girls like the "bad boys" and some women are just bitches. Really nothing more to it & once you accept those two facts you'll be better off.

[Anonymous]

ha. guys are careless and rude and selfish. they don't care about our feelings.

[Asker]

not this guy! and is it any surprise at all that I get nowhere with the opposite sex? :/

[Dilleo22]

Hey that is the guys who are asses and don't truley care about u