As I discussed in another question, girls want every guy to think of them as their #1 girl. Sometimes, even, I get jealous when guys that I haven't even dated and aren't interested in have girlfriends for the simple fact that I'm not amazing enough to be the light of his life.
Honestly, it really doesn't make sense but it's a natural feeling. The dangerous part about it, though, is that most people aren't aware of it and I don't think your friend is either. She just wants you because she can't have you. When you look at other girls it means she's no longer your #1, and therein lies the jealousy.
She has no right to get jealous and you shouldn't feel badly for it. If you're not even dating her and she's already ordering you around, that's bad news. Imagine what she would be like in an actual relationship? She'd have your balls in a vice faster than you could say "Oh god my balls."
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Well, I think she is stuck between you and her boyfriend…and he is a safe place to go to and you >> maybe she is not sure about how you feel towards her!...Plus I think she is takin a bit too far…yeah she can get upset its normal if she likes you…but she doesn’t have the right to tell you not to date other girls…and you have full rights to go and date ..Feel free, because you not even going out!
I agree... Don't let this girl manipulate you into feeling guilty. Talk to others and have fun until she really gives you something to make you feel that there is something between you . It is not fair for her to do what she is doing, sounds like a manipulation to me...
I don't think this is the type of girl you want to be around. She is referred to as an "attention whore", someone who guilt trips every guy to be in love with them. She'll leave you behind just as quick as she'll leave her current boyfriend behind.
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totally agree with true color. . .she's manipulating you. forget her.
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