He kissed my forehead over and over in my dream in front of EVERYBODY!!! WTF??

[Anonymous]

He was my first love, but our relationship was forbidden (LONG story...not like an incest or anything <--eww...). He was divorced with 3 kids and I was a young single, with a full life ahead of her. It was an age difference, really. He used to wrap his arms around me and we would embrace and stuff. But it was over before we could kiss each other. He betrayed me and hurt me in a rather unforgivable way, so I haven't seen him for over 2 years now. It's still hard to get over him and I do think of him occasionally, but I never had a dream like THIS:

We were in a meeting room where our department used to hold meetings. This time, though, there were no desks, just chairs. He was hosting the meeting with everyone sitting down. He comes over to me and I stand up. With his back to everybody, he started to kiss...my forehead. He first kissed the center. Then he kissed my left side of my forehead. Then the right side. Then a spot between the left side and the center. Then the spot between the right side and the center. Then he kissed the center again. Then he sat down behind me. I was still a little bit bitter. Then he grabbed my hand dangling from the side. He kinda discreetly held it, then whispered: "i don't think I've ever apologized for knocking your cups" something like that about him destroying my cups. And for some reason, I knew what he was talking about. (I think he was talking about this gift I gave him on Christmas that he ended up kinda throwing away in the corner to gather dust).

Then the scene suddenly shifted. I was suddenly at my favorite aunt's house, but it turned out to be my other aunt that was there. I was changing my clothes and I had a door to the room open. The room was situated right in front of the entrance. When I took off my panties, my aunt's husband came through and saw me butt naked below (really awkward...).

Then the scene changed again. I was in the same house, but now it was my first love. We were in the master bedroom. He kissed me then he pinned me to the wall. We were french kissing, and I think we had sex or came REALLY close to it.

Then my mom showed up (really...really REALLY awkward). Note: my mom was really young when she had me, so she's similar age to my first love... -_-...

Anyway, she was like disproving of our relationship (of course...)

And when I was talking to him, he shushed me, saying the kids were in the other room, sleeping. Then he and my mom was about to have a row. I had some paper that he gave me (I felt really sentimental towards them. Something was written on those papers) and I gave them back to him. He seemed really upset.

My mom was telling me I had to go back, but I didn't want to go. I rode in his car, and I think we stopped by somewhere equivalent of a rest stop. He was really upset. We got separated. Then I realized that I never got to tell him good bye or kiss him. I was on my way, but I had to jump through these gaps (my dream was crazy), and I couldn't.

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When I finally found him, my mom told me that she was going to drive him. Like as in approval sort of way...


What the heck does this dream mean? I don't know what to do about it...

[l-hedoniste]

The problem with dream interpretation is that, as a shrink friend once told me, "everyone in the dream, is you; they're all in your head, after all". The point he was trying to make was that when someone is in your dream, you're not dreaming about them--you're dreaming about what they mean to you, something which that person may or may not recognize.

So we tease out the elements:

People:

Your first love

Your aunt

Your aunt's husband

Your mom

Kids?

Objects:

The cups

The paper

The panties

Feelings:

Awkwardness

Passion

Anger

Regret

Approval/Disapproval

Those are the puzzle pieces. How to put them together? I have no clue; I don't know your personality, or which of this stuff is even relevant. That's the task for you and/or your shrink.

Good luck.

[TheAnswerer]

It probably means that you forgot to close the window before you slept.

Really, dreams are random electrical sparks in the brain. Hey, I was drowning in my fream last night. It doesn't mean anything though, since I'm still alive.

[discotaco]

Uhm dreams are dreams, don't think too much about them. You clearly have feelings for the guy, I mean kissing your forehead passionately, lol, was an interesting development, but it may not mean anything in reality.