Would you leave your boyfriend for another guy?

[reflex]

Say if another guy comes around that makes you laugh more treats you better and better looking would you leave your guy?

Or what would it take?

[ConfidentNerd]

I would have to weigh it out in my head and decide whether I liked the new guy because he was new territory or if I liked the new guy because he was genuinely a good person. If I find that after a certain amount of time he still makes me happy and there was a good reason to leave my current boyfriend, I'd do it.

I've left a boyfriend before for another guy. My boyfriend was possessive and emotionally abusive, constantly pissed me off. The new guy was very supportive and almost exactly like me - it was the best decision I'd ever made.

Hell, I've left a guy before for a WEBSITE when he ordered me not to visit it anymore.

[Anonymous]

I probably wouldn't. I am not the cheater type and I'm the type of girl who finishes what she started. I told him I love him which means I'll be loyal to him and faithful to him. And "I love you" is forever with me, which means I will never leave him or forsake him. We've been together only about 1.5 years but hopefully it will be 70+ more years before we die together is the plan and that is the plan I'm sticking to. So I would never leave my guy for any other guy even if anything...

So I would never leave my man, and that's just that. Nothing can change my mind.

[twirlgirl206]

Are you trying to steal someones girlfriend?! Obviously most people would choose someone they got on with better over their current boyfriend. But once someone's in a committed relationship, for me at least, I'd have to have completely fallen for the new guy before considering leaving as there were obviously reasons I loved the one I was already with.

[reflex]

Yeah I'm trying to steal someones girl

It's a d*** move I know but I gotta try you know and I'm getting obvious signs she diggs me too

[twirlgirl206]

oh ok...well kind of wish you good luck with that! ha. if she's not happy with her current boyfriend then makes sense for you to try, but at the same time its not always a good foundation for a new relationship and you might want to leave it a bit before you two get together.

[atd23]

My 2 cents; The grass isn't always greener and karmas a bitch! But hey, I'm sure there are better looking, smarter, and funnier girls he could be with, but he chose you. Don't just ditch him, you might end up regretting it later...and by then, if he's smart he'll want nothing to do with you. Just remember that.

[TheCheshireCat]

I can only love one man at once. I'd have to fall out of love with my boyfriend before I could ever like someone else. And if I fell out of love, I would leave for that reason, not because I found another person. But if a I was married, & for some reason I fell out of love, I would not get divorced. I would make it work & try to rekindle the love as they say. I would never consider another man & be faithful emotionally as well as physically.

[ThatNikkiGirl]

No, because I'm a boyfriend-sexual. I am only sexually attracted to my boyfriend. Plus, my boyfriend not only treats me very well, makes me laugh, and very good looking, I can be myself around him because he is just a dorky and geeky as I am.

I don't see how I can be myself around any "better" guy that I am around him. :)

[toulouse]

I wouldn't if I thought he was trying to break me up, because its ow& how do I know he wouldn't do it with another girl, also if I'm committed I'm committed in that case - wouldnt.

[reflex]

Yeah I was thinking about that like if I get her to break up win the boyfriend then how do I know some other guy isn't gonna come around and steal her from me.karma and all you know

[toulouse]

or that you will go for another girl while you are with her, because you already think its acceptable or shell g with another guy because she thinks its acceptable.

i wouldn't go with a person who was willing to just ditch someone basically,

[brunettebelle]

No because the new boyfriend I got could do the same to me. But lets say a boyfriend did that to me, then he tries to come back - lets just say he won't be sitting pretty anymore.

[Anonymous]

if I thought the other guy was better than my boyfriend and I wasn't in love with him probably, it could happen.

[adriannamarin]

only IF your happier! all around pros and cons and what if you don't know him all that well and he becomes just as boring and dull as the other guy think about that esa!

[Anonymous]

I guess but I don't see it happening to me because I'm sooooooo in love with my boyfriend

[Titchygirl]

A girl who truly loves her man will leave him for nobody if he treats her well, end of!

[Anonymous]

maybe