Do guys like or want girls to ask them out?
OK I am not a feminist or anything and I know that this question has been asked a lot. I have asked out a lot of guys in my life and some have been a yes but most have been no.
I know there is a fear of rejection and it does make me feel down
Do guys ever fear rejection?
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What Guys Said 3
if I'm attracted to her yes
the better looking girls are more shy or expect you to ask them out/make the first move. it's the guys who are traditionally supposed to make all the moves after all. but I've noticed that less attractive girls have been more forward with me.
i would say if you want to ask a guy out, do it subtly, it's more lady-like. and don't be annoying
For me it's one of the worst things that I can imagine and in some cases it's prevented me from walking up to a girl that I really liked and wanted to ask out. Only to find out 1/2 a year later that she was just waiting for me to ask her out.
Or maybe even worse when I really like a girl and a gather the courage to do something about it the anxiety makes me screw things up so that even if she likes me everything falls apart and I make a complete ass of my self. Of course never get the girl or maybe having to wait some time before I could try again. Then it gets worse. ;-)
So if a girl just gives me a hint that she might be into me or that I could make a move it makes things a whole lot easier on my part. Also I get more confident and everything is smooth sailing from then on.
So yeha in case I'm really afraid of rejection.
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