The guy I have been seeing for the past (we were talking on the Internet/phone/text for a week before meeting) 2 weeks told me it was fate that we met and my hand fits in his like it was made to be there, and he feels so comfortable with me. I told him my dog likes you she is not this way around other people and he said to me "I like you" and I love your smile. This guy is so romantic and amazing. He walks me to the bathroom when we go out, he always asks me if I need something, he opens all the doors for me, he kisses my hand. He tells me that when I meet him mother I will learn a lot more about him. He says he knows I am not used to be treated this way and that is why I doubt things.
I told him that I was a bit scared to have feelings for him, he said just give it time and he will prove it to me.I don't know what he meant but I did not harp on it. But He was supposed to call me last night but he sent me texts instead."I think your amazing" and then an hour later "Just thinking about you" .he said he would call me in the morning(he never did but the next day he was leaving for upstate).
I also sent him a text today but he did not respond but I know he is in the army reserves and is going upstate for the weekend.we did have sex already but have seen each other since, he told me we could have had sex on the first night and he would not have lost respect for me because we have a connection I know he went upstate but he could have called.maybe he doesn't want to come out as desperate cause if it was just an F then he did not have to said all those things.
My question is what do you think about the things he had said so far, how do I know he is for real and not doing or saying these things to others?
I told him that I was a bit scared to have feelings for him, he said just give it time and he will prove it to me.I don't know what he meant but I did not harp on it. But He was supposed to call me last night but he sent me texts instead."I think your amazing" and then an hour later "Just thinking about you" .he said he would call me in the morning(he never did but the next day he was leaving for upstate).
I also sent him a text today but he did not respond but I know he is in the army reserves and is going upstate for the weekend.we did have sex already but have seen each other since, he told me we could have had sex on the first night and he would not have lost respect for me because we have a connection I know he went upstate but he could have called.maybe he doesn't want to come out as desperate cause if it was just an F then he did not have to said all those things.
My question is what do you think about the things he had said so far, how do I know he is for real and not doing or saying these things to others?
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His father passed away while he was in Iraq and he looks up to him and is a very deep guy. He seems like he is being genuine but I can not be so sure.why do all those things if all you want is sex?
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He told me I was the only girl not to comment about how men in uniform are sexy and things like that. He told me he is single because he can not find a girl who appreciates how he is.
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This sounds like the script to a bad movie.
Hand fitting in his? Idealistic and irrelevant.
The dog comment? I swear I've seen that in at least half a dozen films, probably more.
Walking you to the bathroom? o.O Weird.
Kissing your hand? He probably watched Kate & Leopold too many times, or he's a fan of medieval epics.
My instinct says run away screaming. At the same time he could just be a guy who genuinely care for you, but steals his lines from movies and gets his moves from woman's magazines.
Yeah, I agree with warren. It doesn't sound like things are going to work out so well. Maybe I'm wrong, but it just seems like it isn't going to be a happily-ever-after ending. Some of the things he does is a little weird {walking you to bathroom} and you guys have already done too much that I feel you will, in the end, be walking away left hurt.
why do all those things if all you want is sex? cause that's what makes girls give it up! he may be tellin the truth but it seems a little fishy... he may mean it now "in the honey moon phase" but give it a month or so and see if he still treats you like that.