Hot bartender...what do I do??
So there's a bar close to campus that I go to fairly often and one of the bartenders is pretty much physically my ideal guy. Whenever I go get a... Show More
Most Helpful Opinion
You may not want to, but I think you have to try this sober. If he's working he's not drinking, neither is he really a part of the social scene there. Figure out roughly when his shift starts, go in and just ask if he'd like to do something when he's not working.
Men just like to be asked straight!
Your current plan isn't working (I don't think it'll ever work) so try changing something (or give up)
What Guys Said 2
Physically your ideal guy? He's a bartender. He doesn't care about you. He always has hot chicks throwing their t*ts in his face for cheap drinks. He's going to play his game as best he can and see who will spend the most money, cause the least amount of problems and has the stupid looking boyfriend who is sensitive.
What Girls Said 1
I feel like you should go to the bar next time and not drink, and give him your number and then leave. that way you would stand out from all the other girls and he'll remember you