"You know how I feel about you" - What does that mean exactly?

[Anonymous]

Told this dude I liked him and when I said I didn't know how he felt, he goes "You know how I feel about you." I said I didn't and he goes "Come on, yeah you do, you know how I feel about you." What does that mean? Its either you like me or not. I'm not a mind reader. So maybe some of you guys can help me decode this.

[Belgie]

He probably thinks he's made his feelings clear.

Obviously, from your perspective, he hasn't.

That might mean he fancies you, and he assumes you know.

Or it might mean he just likes you as a friend, and he assumes you know that.

But from what you've said, you told him you liked him, but that you didn't want a relationship with him. Then told him you did.

So it's not like he's the only one being unclear about his feelings. You are, also.

[Asker]

I know I was being unclear. I told him I was wrong for it as well and that I was indeed scared. :/

[RedCell]

Sounds like he is affraid for commitment. That would be something id say if I didn't know if I wanted the relationship or not. But that's me.

Sorry for the bad answer but.. yeah.. :/

[Asker]

Well, he said that after I told him I didn't want a relationship.

[RedCell]

After you didn't want a relationship? Could it be. Just mindstorming here. That he really likes you only that he knows you don't want a relationship and don't want to make the connections tighter?

Thats something id do if push came to shove.

[Asker]

well, since then , I've told him that I do want to be with him and he said he was thinking about it and will respond. he hasn't gotten back to me yet but the both of us are very busy. its been almost a month ago since I told him I wanted a relationship.

[RedCell]

Oh.. :/ Not to be rude but that dosnt sound so good at all I am afraid. :/ Have you talked at all the last month? If you havn't id say you shouldnt.. well... stick to that train.

[Asker]

here's the story. I told him I liked him and he asked me if I wanted a relationship and I told him no because I didn't know how he felt. So that's when he said "you know how I feel about you". Well, I sent him a message telling him I was scared to tell him back then but I did want a relationship. I saw him after that and he said he got my message and that he was thinking about it and that he would tell me when he made a decision. That's where I am with it right now.

[Asker]

Not to mention that he hugged me and was smiling when he saw me :)

[RedCell]

Confusing chap youve managed to find there miss. Id suspect you really need to talk to him about it. I mean you can't just sit there and wait if he dosnt give you any sort of"information" on where his mind is going. Id suggest you try to speak with him, face to face, as soon as possible. Just have a nice chat and then ask about how he feels. if he is still intrested or not.

Good luck! :D

[Anonymous]

he's attracted to you.

[Justinefoox]

He likey you.

[Asker]

I think u're right.

[Anonymous]

he likes you.