Why does my brother -n- law stare at me?

[Anonymous]

Hello. I a need an answer to my question. Whenever I am around my brother -n- law, he stares at my breasts. Why? Does this mean he wishes I were his wife? Does this mean he wants to have sex with me? Over the dinner table he stared at them, the last time I was around him, I caught him at least four times. Whenever the family is hugging, he is always sure to hug me, too.

I think his wife wanders something. because I don't think she really wants him around me if you know what I mean. But I have never been anything but just nice to him. Does he have a crush on me?

What is going on guys?

[l-hedoniste]

I love these "tell me what I already know, please" questions.

He's looking at your breasts because he enjoys looking at them. More than anything else, it makes him rude.

It doesn't matter what he wishes, because you're not considering doing anything with him, right? (I hope you're aware that any man this indiscreet will get himself busted.)

Give his a stern talking-to, let him know he's being obvious, remind him of his wife.

If he persists, remind him--in his wife's presence. That'll fix him.

[Asker]

Thank you for the info...I am so freaked out. God, if he ever tried anything, and I had to tell my husband he would be so crushed. I have never had to deal with anything like this. I feel like it is rude, too. It certainly isn't polite! I love my husband, and would never cheat on him...he is my soul mate. I just wander if he goes out on his wife all the time? I would say probably yes, or he does this to many women...and no one has confronted him yet...o)

[Troublesofus]

I'm only sixteen and my sister's boyfriend keeps touching me whenever she's not around. I would be sleeping and when they both come home, she would be upstairs and he stays downstairs with me. Next thing I know, I feel his hands on my ass. I told my sister about it but then he claimed that he just threw a pillow at me, when they're were noooo pillows around. He's sick and I feel violated. I'm going to catch him in the act one day and show my sister. He doesn't deserve her and I don't care if they've been together for five years. It's not just right.

[Anonymous]

guys are attracted to breasts. he is attracted to your breasts. yes he probobly thinks of squeezing them. but that doesn't mean he would go threw with it. imagine men walking around with the top half of there penis exposed. your telling me girls wouldn't be sneeking a peak. imagine guys having almost the entire thing showing except the tip. you know what women would be thinking. well we are that attracted to your titybobs. and its just as hard not to look.

[Asker]

Um, I am not the type of woman to wear exposed clothing. Admittedly, they are a little big, but I don't wear revealing clothing...I know there isn't many like me left. I would NEVER cheat on my husband, with anyone. Should I tell him? I am so freaked out about this. I guess I am afraid he might try something. He is a Taurus. I thought Taurus men were faithful? I guess not? To me, every man must look, but not like what he does to me. This isn't looking, this is STARING!

[lost-soul]

don't give it any attention. you know its so funny all my male relatives I mean uncles and so they unconsciously stare at them its just out of their hands I'm sure they don't mean anything it just happens so just forget about it and don't worry even he means something just ignore him you have your life with your husband.

wish you the best life.

[Shlei3]

What does it matter. You're married so don't pay attention to it. Have some respect for yourself, his wife and your husband.

[Asker]

Easy for you to say...I feel like it is an invasion of personal space...o) I have thought about telling my husband but have decided against it I guess...that is what make it so uncomfortable...normally I ALWAYS tell my husband EVERYTHING. But my BROTHER N LAW??? This is so crazy!!

He is very powerful and very rich. I wander if this has anything to do with how he is treating me?

[Newport100]

Is this his older brother?

[Asker]

No, Younger.

[Shlei3]

Talk to your brother in law one on one and tell him to stop. Tell him it's very inappropriate and that you don't appreciate his staring. Some guys are like that rich or not. My mistake I thought you actually wanted to pursue something with this brother-in-law

[Asker]

Thanks for your comments...I look forward to posting to everyone else's. This is a really neat site. I don't understand though...are you a guy? Why would a guy do that? I may be naive and a little ignorant about it, but, honestly...I just don't get it.

[Shlei3]

No I am not a guy at all. The thing is, some guys like to leer and flirt just for the ego boost. Just be upfront with him. I'm a girl by the way. That's why I'm under the girl section.

[MossyG]

Lol it's like a puppy. Just say around him that you hate it when guys stare at you when you at the mall or something. (not aright at him thou, make it seem like your talking about someone else)