are you falling for him? because you might have not realized that yourself... anyway even if you said you are not into him that way I can still believe that. been there done that, I personally hate it when my friends only talks to me when they feel like they want to, especially when they pass in front of you and sometimes don't even bother to smile or look (what kind of friend is that btw) I have this 1 very close guy friend, he's being very supportive to me and seems like enjoying the time of his life when we hang out together. but when we are far, it seems like I am the only one interested in keeping the friendship alive, nvr reply my sms, nvr give me a call, no email, not even PM in FB asking whether I am still alive or dead. who knows why these kind of people does anything? *sigh* honestly honey, I feel for you. Then again, I believe you got jealous because you do have a thing for him, maybe even the slightest of all :)
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I have notice too that this happens a lot but guys have to realize that many gfs do not like guys with best friend that is a girl. Too many girls take this as emotional cheating. So maybe his girlfriend is convincing him to do other things other to hang with you because she is jealous. I had a problem with this with one of my guy friends. We didn't talk for almost six months because his girlfriend thought he was cheating on her. Yet, when we hung out all he did was talked about how much he loved her.
you like him and yet don't really realize it...and I believe vise verse, when you go ghost for a little he wonders about you and comes looking for you.. and when he don't answer you, you get annoyed...its only normal to feel something for someone..they say the best relationships are the ones that start off as "just friends" but sometimes when you go past that line you can also loose a good friend for ever if it don't work out..i think you guys should sit and talk about it.
did this happen after he has a gf?
It kinda does look like you like him. Are you jealous with other friends in general or just to him?
Can it not be that his girlfriend can get jealous too?
Best friends between a girl and a guy does happen, almost like an affectionate couple without the intimacy. Now that he's showing affection towards another person, or people, you feel he had forgotten about the times both of you had together.
Will it be OK if he mention "remember the great times we had together"?
You can fallout with him or you can be the "best friend", take the comfy back seat and be there when he wants a shoulder to cry on.
btw, I was in the same situation, for me all it took was a date between two great friends and the realisation that yes she has a boyfriend, but no she hasn't forgotten. Trust me, aim for a guy and talk with your girl friends and watch the change become easier.
Honestly, I think that deep down you want this guy. I think sub-consciously, you view him as more than a friend, and that is why you are jealous of his girlfriend.
You may tell yourself you are only friends, but you are not acting like that, your emotional responses indicate he is more than that to you.
Thats just my gut feeling on this.
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Actually I am really thankful to know your story. I am going through same thing it's it's not been that long it's been like a year knowing him him but like since last 2 months we got emotionally too close and I get really jealous and feel weird whenever I hear him hanging out with his girl friends or talking about his crush. And he is always there for me when I need him. He will pick up my call if I say it's urgent. He also doesn't text me or call me because he misses me he just comes to check on me if I go missing. But after knowing your story I am grateful to know I am gonna ignore him right from this moment. I don't care what happens to us. But his relations with other girls make me feel worse. Also I don't want to be in any kind of relationship with him so better I just stay away from him. Also I am so very happy to know your story thanks a lot for sharing it. Before I totally fall in love with him. It's so better so stop now. I decided I will not talk on calls with him even if he asks. Also I will ignore and not even read most of his texts to reduce communication. Better start right now rather than increasing the headache for later.
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maybe initially he gave you a lot of that
but now if he is doing that with someone else that's making you feel uneasy
its a natural behaviormen hate pressure.even if it is your boyfriend.brother,nephew,cousin or friend!
remember that.and of course its obvious that you like him!this is OK but he has a girlfriend and maybe he understood that you like him and he doesn't want to have problems with her that's why he doesn't answer or call too much.."I have been the best friend ever but he does not realize it." - You're crazy as f***; I am so happy you're not on my team.
you like this guy and are disappointed that he isn't returning the same level of interest. your feelings are hurt but he may not know how you feel so he thinks you're blowing it out of proportion
it is totally normal. I hate when my best friend who happens to be a guy doesn't ever call or text.
Cause deep down you want his d*** inside you lol
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