let's fast-forward to today. I weigh a LOT less (let's say I'm not fat anymore thank god) I have a nice body (I thought I did but I'm prob wrong), I now do my hair and it is a pretty blond with no trashy yellow in it (I'm a natural blonde), I wear nicer clothing that fits well and makes me look nice (or so I thought), I have mastered makeup and put it on lightly and it looks very natural most of the time (I thought it looks good but I guess not), I now do some modeling, I still have the same views on myself (still have no self esteem) and I still have the same nice fun personality. but, men don't want anything to do with me. it was so hard to even get a boyfriend. before I got a boyfriend guys would look at me but not come near me. if I was nice and outgoing and humorous lie I used to be guys would say I'm a "show -off" or "fake" instead of hilarious and sweet like they use to think. I have a boyfriend now but it seems like it is going no where, I tell him I want to marry him and he keeps making excuses . I feel like I did something wrong. maybe I truly am just an ugly person? why would guys tend to like me more when I was fat and gross , than now? I am still the same sweet girl who always second guesses herself...but men don't see it. what did I do wrong? why did men want the ugly me, and not the new me?
Why did guys tend to like me more when I was MUCH "uglier"?
let's fast-forward to today. I weigh a LOT less (let's say I'm not fat anymore thank god) I have a nice body (I thought I did but I'm prob wrong), I now do my hair and it is a pretty blond with no trashy yellow in it (I'm a natural blonde), I wear nicer clothing that fits well and makes me look nice (or so I thought), I have mastered makeup and put it on lightly and it looks very natural most of the time (I thought it looks good but I guess not), I now do some modeling, I still have the same views on myself (still have no self esteem) and I still have the same nice fun personality. but, men don't want anything to do with me. it was so hard to even get a boyfriend. before I got a boyfriend guys would look at me but not come near me. if I was nice and outgoing and humorous lie I used to be guys would say I'm a "show -off" or "fake" instead of hilarious and sweet like they use to think. I have a boyfriend now but it seems like it is going no where, I tell him I want to marry him and he keeps making excuses . I feel like I did something wrong. maybe I truly am just an ugly person? why would guys tend to like me more when I was fat and gross , than now? I am still the same sweet girl who always second guesses herself...but men don't see it. what did I do wrong? why did men want the ugly me, and not the new me?
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