if you dump her, or say you don't like her, how do you feel?
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when you make girls cry LOL:D should read things before I post!
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ohhhh! sh*t its not gonna get answed:O
What do guys feel when they make girls cry?
Girls are a lot more cruel to guys. When they decide they don't like a guy, it's easy for them to rationalize it off and say he was just a creep all along. But it's hard when girls get clingy. Guys don't antagonize them, they feel really sorry for them and it makes it difficult.
Also, when girls don't like guys, guys can take a hint. Breaking up is very difficult for guys however, since girls will often try to deny it's even happening and eventually have to be told point-blank: "I don't like you" or something of the sort. And even after that, any sign of kindness from the guy will give them some kind of a hope or belief that they might get back together.
So basically, when a guy makes a girl cry it feels terrible, yet he doesn't regret it because he found out from her extreme denial that he just did what he had to do to let her know it was over. Sometimes there's no avoiding it.
Then again like Jager said, it often just feels like manipulation. Just another tool; anything to keep you from leaving.
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I would feel really awful.
if they did something to make you cry in the first place I doubt they really care. they might get uncomfortable but that's about as far as it goes. now if he unintentionally hurt you he might feel bad, but if it was some deliberate sh*t then he probably doesn't care. I will not cry in front of a guy and show weakness to him like that, he doesn't care anyway and it just makes you look weak to him
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Bah bah black sheep have you ever heard yes no yes no oh noes I forgot that song D: ---- space filler------
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probably bad. but it's not going to change their mind
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if a girl turns me down its no skin off my nose. but if I turn a girl down I feel bad. a couple years ago I used to be really shy around pretty girls so I felt like sh*t if a girl I liked turned me down. but I grew out of it. but if a girl likes me and I don't feel the same way, I'm hesitant to give them the news straight up. I know what it feels like and I HATE to make a girl feel the same way I used to. I consider myself a nice guy so will still talk to them as a friend if they can do the same.
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Feel hooooooooooooorrible :( :( :(. I've only made one girl cry, and ironically it was the girl I reeeeeeeally didn't want to cry. I felt so bad inside when she told me she cried because of me. I did it by mistake, I didn't realize that I was going to make her cry :(
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If she hurts me, I feel good because she hurt me so I hurt her back.
If she cries for no reason, then I think she's just trying to manipulate me, so I don't care.
If I genuinely care about her, then I don't want to hurt her so it'd make me feel bad. -
My First Girlfriend madly in love I broke up because I grew tired she cried omg damn she was controlling so I didn't care at the time I mean full on just STFU I don't want to deal with you however I did get something out of it expierence I try not to make any women girl etc cry anyone but if I still had feelings then the pain would be mutual !
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Depends why. If I said or did something really insensitive, I'd feel bad. If I feel like it's a stupid reason, then I feel like she's being a baby and needs to shut it.
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It should be obvious, so I gather you are looking for confirmation. To make this short, all of the ones you can think of, and yet all dependent on the situation.
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when women cry it feels like manipulation most of the time.
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crying woman make me really uncomfortable even if I wasn't the cause...
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like an arrow has pierced my heart... :( boo hoo.
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Damn I failed again.
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the sadness I feel would be massive :'(
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