Why do girls like guys that are wimpy and weak?

[AngelsxAirwaves]

These guys with choppy hair who dress and look like women basically? Do you not like real men anymore?

[gummybear888]

everyone has different categories. I honestly look at personality first and then his looks second. surprisingly I've dated mostly athletic guys and a few not as athletic but fit guys so I think every woman's gonna be different in terms of their likes and dislikes.

[Red_Raconteur]

This is the epitome of sexiness, in my eyes: link

You may think him wimpy and weak, and that's fine, but that's what I'm looking to take home at the end of the night, and I've got tunnel vision for this guy right here.

[Red_Raconteur]

Oh, I guess I never answered the "why" part of your question. Sorry.

I don't know why. That's just what I'm attracted to and what I find appealing. Different girls like different things, and skinny guys with choppy hair and tattoos strike my particular fancy.

[cjwright79]

he don't look wimpy to me, he looks intense and disapproving

[Red_Raconteur]

You're right, he does, but he rarely looks that intense or that disapproving. Here's some more normal pictures of him: link link

and one not quite normal but still very adorable one: link

[Little-Hippie]

I KNEW that was Brendon Urie. That dude can sing like a champ.

[Nerdyberd17]

AHHH Brandon Urie. *swoon*

[Nerdyberd17]

*brendon. lol

[Red_Raconteur]

Why yes, QA, I AM bisexual.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

So if you were a man you'd like chicks with d***s? yuck.

[Red_Raconteur]

No, if I were a man I'd like guys with d***s and girls with vaginas...same as I do now.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

wrong answer.

[xzinax2]

sexy to me: link if he looks like a woman,great,my name is zina and I'm a VAGatarian. why does it bother you? and who are you to say what a REAL man looks like? isn't a REAL man every person with a penis? why so judgy,judgy?

[xzinax2]

also... link you sound like a bit of a hipster,eh? so is this Q a joke?

[Red_Raconteur]

You're right, xzinax2. I'm surprised to see that the QA dresses that way.

That's how the guy I linked below dresses. And it's a sexy style, in case you were still wondering, QA.

[SnackG]

Julian has an awesome voice.

[xzinax2]

he sure does,that's part of the sexiness.listening to him is like bathing in honey and milk while his shirtless clones feed you chocolate...this is getting creepy o_o

[SnackG]

WTF Honey and milk? That sounds like it would suck.

[xzinax2]

nah-ah,it's awesome,even cleopatra used to do it

[Nerdyberd17]

I would just like to say that that is the best metaphor I have ever set my eyes on. "Shirtless clones...?" Win.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

Yeah but what I'm saying is I don't put make up on and I workout like crazy.

[xzinax2]

umm how do you know those guys put on makeup? if you're referring to emos,yes,they put on makeup,but that's how they're supposed to be,their style is androgynous.and working out doesn't make you ''a man'',girls work out,it doesn't make you grow a penis.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

Shut up already nazi

[blanks77]

I find its mostly younger girls that are into like, scrawny hipster metrosexuals.

They grow out of it. Usually.

[Red_Raconteur]

Scrawny hipster metrosexuals FTW. I hope I never grow out of it.

Oh, and tats. Can't forget the tats. F***ing hot.

[SashaSilent]

Well said blanks.

[Cailleach]

Sexy.

[cjwright79]

If these idiot women like lamewad guys then one wonders why you give a sh*t. They deserve each other right?

[cjwright79]

also, girls like Legolas

[Red_Raconteur]

Ugh. I never understood why Orlando Bloom/Legolas was hot. I never found him attractive.

[cjwright79]

Yeah I always liked Boromir way more. He's more affable.

[madmisskelly]

Stop putting us all into one category!

Women like all different types of men. Some girls love the indie hipster guys, others love heavy set men.

What this question feels like is a "why don't girls like me" kind of question No one can answer that.

All you can do is take good care of yourself, do what make you feel comfortable with you, and girls will like it.

[madmisskelly]

You don't need to be huge to protect me. Besides, I like being protected, but I can also protect myself. Its called self defense.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

So if I were too punch you full force you would survive that? haah "self defense"

[Nerdyberd17]

The definition of "real men" just depends on who is defining it. For example, I personally think that a "wimpy" but compassionate guy is more of a man than a super strong guy who's uncomfortable with his feelings.

[Nerdyberd17]

P.S. Since you updated this: I'd just like to say that I'm not bi.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

good 4 you. Enjoy your wimp ma'am

[Nerdyberd17]

thanks. I will. Enjoy not getting a girl friend. ;)

[AngelsxAirwaves]

lol what? I have one thx. Enjoy thinking about how hard I can kick your bf's ass.

[RedThread78]

Everything is perspective and point of view.. How does the way a persons dressed dictate how tough they are? There are definitely women out there who consider them real men seeing as how they are dating them.

[Cailleach]

Nice answer.

[Anonymous]

You mean like this guy? link don't know, beats me!

[cjwright79]

laugh, what a hero

[Killfest400]

Wait, that's a guy?!

[Anonymous]

just because they don't fit gender stereotypes doesn't mean t hey aren't "real men." if anything, men who think they have to be or act a certain way to be a real man, are quite pathetic in my eyes.

you can like what you like, but I'm sure not everyone will agree. I like girls too and sometimes I don't like the same girls some like, but I'm not going to say they aren't "real women" because they don't fit my ideals or look like me. that's dumb as hell.

[Cailleach]

Bi pride baby.

[Opinion Owner]

yup :)

[Opinion Owner]

lol wow. this guy is really ignorant. I guess when you aren't working with much upstairs, you try to make up for it in the physical, which isn't going to attract every single girl. its that whole "overcompensating for they lack" mentality people. We've seen guys like this everywhere. It's a bittersweet thing when life knocks them on their asses though, and they realize how little being able to "kick someones ass" really means generally.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

You mean downstairs, and 7 inches isn't small. I like how girls always bring up d***s for some reason.

[Opinion Owner]

what?

[Opinion Owner]

lol wow. my point exactly, ladies and gentlemen. lmao.

[AngelsxAirwaves]

idk what you're getting at. Explain or stfu

[Opinion Owner]

no, its better this way. .i don't explain jokes, and that's exactly what you are.

[h3lpm3plz]

i always thought it go both ways... but I rarely find that girl like p**** men...