Why is he so nice to me? I can't handle it.
I've been dating this guy for eight months, we get on really well he treats me so nicely, so nicely that it almost seems too good to be true and now...
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This is why we can't have nice things, apparently.
"Even paradise gets boring after a while", so they say.
It is sad.
What Guys Said 8
Well most guys don't have a secret agenda, He probably honestly loves you and believes that you deserve it all. Explain how your getting bored with him tho?
please allow me to ask you this this is not attack against you I like your opinion would you rather get hit by him, would you rather him to hit you so hard that you have to go to hospital because you badly hurt by him,do you rather him abuse you my point of these questions is this some us is truly nice if you date bad men then if he really is nice not mean then when you dump him for being a fellow nice guy and you date a bad man you might make him think you only want bad men then you successfully turn him into a jerk so if I were you stay with him and try talk it out with him of what's your problem and if you seen early signs of abuse leave him I'm hope this helps you and I hope my questions in this comment explains what's going on here if not feel free to ask me whenever whenever I can I try to answer your questions
One thing I love is how frequently women complain about their boyfriends/men in general being assholes, wondering where all the nice guys are, and yet staying with their asshole boyfriends. Then, when they actually get a nice guy as a boyfriend, they say sh*t like this, and treat him like sh*t. You, madam, are living proof that being nice is worthless.
And yes, he's just genuinely being nice. He believes in treating his girlfriend well.
U are probably just his first girlfriend. TONS of guys are nice to women. They make the mistake a stupid mistake.
Many poor guys actually believe that just because women say they want guys to be nice to them, those women actually want guys to be nice to them.
Poor saps right? I mean who ever would have thought men would listen to women and do what they ask them to do.
You should definitely dump his ass and then find some other guy who will treat you like crap and cheat on you. If you found a guy who actually trusts you and respects you and listens to what you say... well why would you ever want a guy like that?
I hope he comes to his senses soon.
There are guys like him (and me) that genuinely enjoy treating girlfriends well and there are women like you who punish us for it.
Just dump him. You don't deserve him.
The one with the hidden agenda is you- you're waiting for him to slip up so you can explode at him when he does. You don't trust him in the slightest, and a relationship CANNOT work without trust. Do a favor for both of you and leave.
What Girls Said 3
He's nice to you. Poor you!
Do you know how many of us girl would love to have a guy who was so nice to us that it was "too good to be true"?
You have two choice: Learn to accept that you have a great guy, or break up with him and date a d***.
you've got to be kidding me right? you have a wonderful guy that respects you and cares for you and you're thinking HE has an agenda.
man, I'd hate to ever date someone like you.
Sounds like you're not "bored" ... you're just freaking out. If you genuinely like him, then him being nice shouldn't be a problem. Try doing something new together so you can see other sides to each other.
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