Why is he so nice to me? I can't handle it.
I've been dating this guy for eight months, we get on really well he treats me so nicely, so nicely that it almost seems too good to be true and now I'm getting bored with him.
Why is he so nice to me? Does he have a hidden agenda?
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please allow me to ask you this this is not attack against you I like your opinion would you rather get hit by him, would you rather him to hit you so hard that you have to go to hospital because you badly hurt by him,do you rather him abuse you my point of these questions is this some us is truly nice if you date bad men then if he really is nice not mean then when you dump him for being a fellow nice guy and you date a bad man you might make him think you only want bad men then you successfully turn him into a jerk so if I were you stay with him and try talk it out with him of what's your problem and if you seen early signs of abuse leave him I'm hope this helps you and I hope my questions in this comment explains what's going on here if not feel free to ask me whenever whenever I can I try to answer your questions
One thing I love is how frequently women complain about their boyfriends/men in general being assholes, wondering where all the nice guys are, and yet staying with their asshole boyfriends. Then, when they actually get a nice guy as a boyfriend, they say sh*t like this, and treat him like sh*t. You, madam, are living proof that being nice is worthless.
And yes, he's just genuinely being nice. He believes in treating his girlfriend well.
U are probably just his first girlfriend. TONS of guys are nice to women. They make the mistake a stupid mistake.
Many poor guys actually believe that just because women say they want guys to be nice to them, those women actually want guys to be nice to them.
Poor saps right? I mean who ever would have thought men would listen to women and do what they ask them to do.
You should definitely dump his ass and then find some other guy who will treat you like crap and cheat on you. If you found a guy who actually trusts you and respects you and listens to what you say... well why would you ever want a guy like that?
Well most guys don't have a secret agenda, He probably honestly loves you and believes that you deserve it all. Explain how your getting bored with him tho?
There are guys like him (and me) that genuinely enjoy treating girlfriends well and there are women like you who punish us for it.
Just dump him. You don't deserve him.