Ok this one is for the ladies, ok here's the deal, I am talking to this girl and I really like her, and I think she likes me, but here's my problem when I go out to the bars girls approach me and I talk to them and all, but when I start drinking, bad things happen, I end up sleeping with girls who I have no intention on getting in a relationship, so I went out the other night and well just as I am about to leave the bar, not planning on dancing or really talking to girls because I am talking to this one girl, well this woman comes up to me and starts talking to me so I start talking to her, well she kisses my cheek and starts dancing with me, and then well we end up making out and she gives me her number and wants to go on a date with me, so is it bad that I got her number and made out with her because I am talking to another girl? Or does it not really matter since I'm still single? I am supposed to go on a date with her, so should I or should I flake on her since I am talking to this other girl, the other girl I have made out with for like 2 hours and I talk to her every night but like I said we are not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, so ladies would you be pissed if you liked a guy and were talking to him and he went on a date with another girl?
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OH My God.I am exactly at the situation that you have with the original girl.ARE YOU MY BF!? .OO.NO WAY.00.*SURPRISED*.I am doubtful he sees me as her girlfriend now but I know he goes to bars and I got upset when he was there with bar girls tough he claims no one talks to him there. Yea that's to bad,Please do not do that.I mean date with bar girl or original one and if you are going to date with bar girl then inform the other girl that you don t want to be friend with her because you are on date with bar girl.I mean let her to know your situation.I am really upset and confused now because I really do not know whether I have to break up with him or not.I am in middle of two way.However,If he was going to tell me the truth as soon as possible I would go to date with other men.Please date with only one girl at same time and let the girl that knows you before don t live in her dreams for you.OK if you wanna know how bad it is put yourself in the shoes of the original girl and think that you are that girl.I bet you didn t like to date a girl who at the same time is on date with other boy and hides it from you.
honestly, yes. If you ask a girl out, have a planned date and are interested in the original girl as a possible relationship then you should not be making out with other girls. You are not an item yet and probably won't be if she finds out you asked her out while at the same time making out with another woman.If she found out it would send the message that you only asked her out to try and get in her pants. Things happen when you drink, it lowers your judgement and can make you go with the moment. But since you stated that bad things happen, ect. Then you know how things usually turn out. So if your actually interested in original girl then I would try to stay away from the bars, at least until you find out if it is going to work out with her.
You also should decide which one you want to try to be in a relationship with. If your thinking of going with the girl at the bar then yes you should cancel your date. If not then you should put a curb on leading the bar girl on.
I don't think you should feel too guilty its not like your in a commited relationship with the girl.And if you do this kind of thing frequently then it sounds like you are not really ready for any type of commitment. So just enjoy yourself and have fun and when you find the right one you will know.
Girls only get pissed off when you are not honest. Obviously, you are not ready for any type of commitment. Yes you might like that girl, but you're doing too much outside the box to really honestly say that you really like her.
You may like her more than the other women, but you just like all women.and you're annoyed because you don't want to get "caught" or make that girl mad. If she knows what to expect, and knows how you get when you drink, then she'll have to right to get mad.
But make sure you use protection, because you're not ready for a baby.or the other dangers you're subjecting yourself to.
Hi. Yes, I think the original girl would be feeling hurt, even if you are not in a committed relationship with her, if she HAS feelings for you ! Decide for yourself, do you really care for this original girl? Do you kind of feel happy thinking of may be a possible relationship with her? If yes, then, I say you are damaging your chances with the original girl by dating the bar girls. If you don't really think of a relationship with her, then it doesn't matter
No you are fine. I date multiple women at the same time. Until the time comes to pick one to get exclusive with, I don't see any reason not to date multiple people. There are too many people out there to find them one at a time.