In this situation, we will call him...Cole.
Okay, so Cole and I have known each other for a year and a half now (almost two years). But, before I confessed my feelings towards him, he and I used to text non-stop. Cole and I have hung out once or twice, which was great. And, he helped get through a nasty crush ( still don't know what I saw in my past crush.. lol). Soon enough,I fell for him. We were so close.The night I told him my feelings, he was shocked appereantly.After that, it wasn't really the same. Yes, we agreed to be just friends. But, its so complicated. He says he's not interested but I see him stare at my all the time. And once, he and I were talking and the world "i love ya" slipt out. All I heard was I know. Or that's what I think because the classroom was so loud.Now, I'm giving you more facts/background info:
1.) On the night of a band concert, Cole and his friend(whos also my friend) were just sitting with the rest of the choir people.(this happened two weeks after I confessed.) But, he was constenty staring...it made me uncomfortable
2.)He says now that he "hates texting". Cole doesn't even reply to anyone anymore...strange.
3.) He always tries to cheer me up..well not always..but, you know what I mean
4.)The spring break before this whole thing, he and I emailed each other sense I was in Europe to visit family and my phone wasn't working.He and I emailed a lot.
5.) Before we ever spoke, we were in the same class the year before our friendship. He always glared at me and everything.
6.)When Cole and I met, he gave me his cell #.
7.) He says that he has no crush
8.) Cole is one of the popular people. I on the other hand, am a normal person. I'm not even close to nerdy. And I'm not that popular. I'm just a normal student who is liked. He and I have a lot of friends...but sometimes, I wish I was popular so that I can figure out all the confusion.Then again, bitchy aditudes..haha no thanks :)
Yes,this is a lot..but it's...complicated. Cole is my best friend(which he said) and I just don't want him to be freaked out or anything.He said that it's not akward. But, I'm thinking about talking to him about getting things to be like it used to be. Should I... or should I just let it go and be happy that I didn't loose him? I still kinda have a crush on him. I love him more of in a brother/sister way than a crush way.Cole and I tease eachother.. but in a funny way.He's the brother I never wanted
But, I just want to know, guys, why is he confusing me,giving me mixed signals?Is he interested or not?Or, is he just a bit wierded out. Me confronting my feeling happened months ago. There is still a confussion. I kinda feel sad abut this though. And, I'm an omptimistic person. Should I talk to him about this? Please help.
Thanks :D
Okay, so Cole and I have known each other for a year and a half now (almost two years). But, before I confessed my feelings towards him, he and I used to text non-stop. Cole and I have hung out once or twice, which was great. And, he helped get through a nasty crush ( still don't know what I saw in my past crush.. lol). Soon enough,I fell for him. We were so close.The night I told him my feelings, he was shocked appereantly.After that, it wasn't really the same. Yes, we agreed to be just friends. But, its so complicated. He says he's not interested but I see him stare at my all the time. And once, he and I were talking and the world "i love ya" slipt out. All I heard was I know. Or that's what I think because the classroom was so loud.Now, I'm giving you more facts/background info:
1.) On the night of a band concert, Cole and his friend(whos also my friend) were just sitting with the rest of the choir people.(this happened two weeks after I confessed.) But, he was constenty staring...it made me uncomfortable
2.)He says now that he "hates texting". Cole doesn't even reply to anyone anymore...strange.
3.) He always tries to cheer me up..well not always..but, you know what I mean
4.)The spring break before this whole thing, he and I emailed each other sense I was in Europe to visit family and my phone wasn't working.He and I emailed a lot.
5.) Before we ever spoke, we were in the same class the year before our friendship. He always glared at me and everything.
6.)When Cole and I met, he gave me his cell #.
7.) He says that he has no crush
8.) Cole is one of the popular people. I on the other hand, am a normal person. I'm not even close to nerdy. And I'm not that popular. I'm just a normal student who is liked. He and I have a lot of friends...but sometimes, I wish I was popular so that I can figure out all the confusion.Then again, bitchy aditudes..haha no thanks :)
Yes,this is a lot..but it's...complicated. Cole is my best friend(which he said) and I just don't want him to be freaked out or anything.He said that it's not akward. But, I'm thinking about talking to him about getting things to be like it used to be. Should I... or should I just let it go and be happy that I didn't loose him? I still kinda have a crush on him. I love him more of in a brother/sister way than a crush way.Cole and I tease eachother.. but in a funny way.He's the brother I never wanted
But, I just want to know, guys, why is he confusing me,giving me mixed signals?Is he interested or not?Or, is he just a bit wierded out. Me confronting my feeling happened months ago. There is still a confussion. I kinda feel sad abut this though. And, I'm an omptimistic person. Should I talk to him about this? Please help.
Thanks :D
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