Does he like me if he doesn't text back?

So I'm waiting for my best frind becasue he's shown many signs he likes me but he's still very sad from his break up 4 months ago, and sometimes thinks about his x. We have gotten very close. Were going on a camping trip together with a couple friends soon but it was originally just suppose to be me and him. There will be days where he will text like good, you know text back fast with a lot to say then out of no where he'll just stop texting me. He works a lot so sometimes he'll text back and say sorry that he was working but other times I get nothing until I text him 2 days letter and he'll text back hay! then not say anything else, not text back. I feel he's interested, just still heart broken. I adore him, he's the kindest, most giving, sweetest guy I've met. Even if he doesn't date me id be happy as long as he is. I just really appreciate his existence, if that makes sense. Should I keep waiting? should I make a move on the trip, he knows I use to like him but that was a long time ago. He use to flirt in class a lot and in texting but sometimes he just doesn't text back at all...I don't know what to do...


Most Helpful Girl

  • I think you shouldn't be waiting. The chances are he is thinking of you as a friend only! If he had feelings for you he would go for it. If a guy wants something, they find a way to get it, especially since you guys are so close.

    Try and pull away for a bit and watch his reaction. Sometimes we don't recognize what we have until we loose it. See if this works on him..

    Good luck


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What Guys Said 1

  • i suck at texting, so maybe he has similar problems

    • Suck at texting as in, even if you like a girl you'll still be carless of the texting convo?

    • i can't seem to text something to a girl that will keep her interested in texting back at me, usually after 5 texts she gets bored and stops texting

What Girls Said 1

  • He would be a great guy just to be best friends with..take it slow, let him heal his emotions, and see what happens. Good luck ?