So I'm waiting for my best frind becasue he's shown many signs he likes me but he's still very sad from his break up 4 months ago, and sometimes thinks about his x. We have gotten very close. Were going on a camping trip together with a couple friends soon but it was originally just suppose to be me and him. There will be days where he will text like good, you know text back fast with a lot to say then out of no where he'll just stop texting me. He works a lot so sometimes he'll text back and say sorry that he was working but other times I get nothing until I text him 2 days letter and he'll text back hay! then not say anything else, not text back. I feel he's interested, just still heart broken. I adore him, he's the kindest, most giving, sweetest guy I've met. Even if he doesn't date me id be happy as long as he is. I just really appreciate his existence, if that makes sense. Should I keep waiting? should I make a move on the trip, he knows I use to like him but that was a long time ago. He use to flirt in class a lot and in texting but sometimes he just doesn't text back at all...I don't know what to do...
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I think you shouldn't be waiting. The chances are he is thinking of you as a friend only! If he had feelings for you he would go for it. If a guy wants something, they find a way to get it, especially since you guys are so close.
Try and pull away for a bit and watch his reaction. Sometimes we don't recognize what we have until we loose it. See if this works on him..