Did he ever really care?
First time user here...feeling really lost and would love some male perspective. About 7 weeks ago my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. It... Show More
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I am sorry to hear about your break up.. I am going through one myself and it just came out of no where and I am crushed. We loved each other at lot as well, and agreed we could work through anything, that is until she blindsided me over something very petty. I suffer from depression myself, and she took no time to try and understand it, or see how it affects me. I myself was in a very bad motor vehicle accident nearly ten years ago which has left me also with memory issues. So I do understand where he is coming from. It's good that you two had spoken on and off after you broke up, I haven't heard a single word from her since ours. She was set and ready to spend her life with me and packed up on me and just left. She never turned around to look.. I was dumped via text and completely irrationally. When a guy says he misses you and wants to get back together, he means it. We do fall and love hard. You do need to give him some pass over the calling issues, especially if he has a bad memory. Stress can make that so much worse, I know that it is in my case. A relationship is a two way thing. If you want to hear from him, you can call him too. I know with breakups there is always the ego thing. I have sent my ex two emails since we've broken up with no response. She is immature, childish, and left me over something totally petty. She will regret it and I know that. But for the mean time with your boyfriend, if you want to make it work you need to communicate.
What Guys Said 3
I think that the accident changed him in some way that made him uncomforable in some one being around you his lose track of time and planes that may be what is upset him and did not what to heart you and that y he. Bork up with you he may have some trouble getting over what has happen in the accident you may what to give a little space for a bit and see what going to happen
he may come around I don,t think he lied to you or ran a game. there is some thing different about him now and you may have to move on at some point only time will tell. you have to stop and think of what my have changed him by talking to people he knows to find this out.If he told you that he what to work things out and has not dune it you may what to just move on with you life
but see what you can find out first be for moving on
I agree with anon. If I had a chance to tell my recent ex that I sincerely wanted to work things out and start over I would do it. I don't bullsh*t. When I fall for a girl I really do it hard. My problem is that my Ex was the one that initiated no contact, so if I beg and plead she's just going to continue to ignore me.
I say give him a chance, if he's really serious he'll follow through.
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