Girls, do you like it when guys are possessive and jealous?

[Anonymous]

I think it's absolutely adorable. c: Love it.

Or do you think it's too much, or abusive?

It's cute sometimes

I love it!

I hate it, too clingy and I hate feeling owned.

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+1 y

Hmm, yeah, I can see where you're coming from if he's always in your business e.e Then it'd be kinda creepy.


But just when he gets really protective every now and then. It's like he's a pet sometimes xDDD lolol

[cuddlebug501]

I think a guy being somewhat jealous is OK, but to much makes me want to leave his ass. I hate guys that are possessive. I love that the guy I'm with now let's me do what I want and doesn't ask who I'm going with just tells me to have fun and he loves me. I think it's cute when guys text me he's sees their name and gives me the look like who is that and I look at him like he has nothing to worry about. We hardly fight because neither of us are worried about one another cheating. A good an healthy relationship should be based off trust and honesty.

[Anonymous]

i have a really possessive boyfriend, sometimes it's nice knowing someone cares so much but mostly I hate it, wanting to know where I am all the time and asking me about other guy friends I have, it's not cute it's insecure and makes you feel like he doesn't trust you.

[Amorina]

I like it sometimes. It can be cute when he tries to be sneaky about it. Whenever I went out, even with my girlfriends, or if I even mentioned a guy's name, my ex would claim I was cheating. That really sucks.

[NMMan]

Anyone with a brain and true self-respect would not tolerate behavior like possessiveness and jealousy in any relationship. It indicates total insecurity, dishonesty, and a complete lack of trust, and is often a bright red warning flag to other, potentially dangerous character flaws that person may have.

[blufrenzy93]

Sometimes it's cute. Like if he was trying to be a little flirty with it, then yes. But if he's constantly asking me who is so-and-so, what is he doing sitting next to me, etc, then we have a problem.

[Anonymous]

I used to think it was cute, and it's a little flattering, but my now boyfriend is way too extreme. He doesn't like it when I mention other guys, and is strict about my seeing them and now I feel controlled.

[Anonymous]

It's cute sometimes. I don't like it when it's extreme and all the time, but a little bit now and then lets you know he cares.

[Delaisback]

If girls like that, guys sure as hell dont.

[Anonymous]

It's flattering at first but later it's a chaos!

[Galaxie500]

lol insecurity