Is he busy, shy, or losing interest?
the guy I've been dating has cooled off slightly in contacting me every day. when we first met, he would always inquire about my day and text me random stuff throughout, but now his messages seem somewhat lackluster and he seems to not initiate as often (although he agrees to do things when I ask).
to the guys: what are some signs that he is genuinely busy, that he is shy, or that he is actually losing interest?
when we are together in person, everything is fine. I just feel distant when he doesn't keep in contact with me when we're apart especially since he used to love contacting me to the point where I thought he was clingy.
any help would be great!
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From the sounds of it he thought he was being clingy to.. So he's stepping back..
And ya that means he's losing intrest.. Most likly your not showing enough back to him
How often do you start trying to contact him first..
Have you ever showed him that you liked him talking to you.. Or did you just show him you thought he was clingy
Its also possable he's just busy.. Just ask him out he'll tell you
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Well, if everything is fine in person than I guess he is busy. You are dating him right?
Guys need space sometimes (not in a bad way). See, guys want some space between their girlfriends sometimes so they can breathe and maybe just chill with their mates. Maybe cool off with the texting for a bit and let him know you appreciate his guy space. If it is too long than there is a problem. If not he'll come back to texting you a lot, in just a matter of seconds.