I am a black woman, who pretty much only dates latino men. I've loved latin guys ever since I was 10. They have the look that I go for, their sex appeal is insane, tend to be more affectionate than other men, and they know how to take care of and treat their women like queens. So yes, there are black women, and a lot more than you might think, that love Latino men. I hardly see black women with Latino men as well and here's why I believe it is: A lot of Latino men believe that black women will reject them so they don't even bother to holler. Black women grow up being taught to ride or die for black men and wouldn't dream of dating anything but a black man. Which is good that we're being taught to support our black men, but also sad because so many black women limit their options when it comes to finding a good man. Especially since these days a lot of black men don't show that same loyalty to us. Also, a lot of black women don't believe that Latino men are into them like that. There are latin men who are only interested in black women for sex and some aren't attracted to us at all. Like you said, that type of couple is rare so there are black women who don't even consider it Those are just my opinions though. At the end of the day, it all depends on the individual. Race/ethnicity/color shouldn't really matter when it comes to loving someone so my advice to you is, if you see a beautiful black woman that you're attracted to, just approach her as you would any other woman. If she turns you down, get over and on to the next. You'll find your queen.
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I LOVE Hispanic guys. I grew up around a lot of Hispanics, mostly Dominicans and I'm just so comfortable around them. I was mistaken for one a lot growing up being "morena" so I just kind of fell in with them. I eat their food, I can dance a mean bachata, and their parents seem to like me a lot more when they find out that I'm not just "black" but Haitian because we're neighbors. I love it when they speak Spanish to me because it's just so sexy and I once dated a guy who called me his mami chula which I just adored. So when it comes to dating they're number one on my list of preferences.When it comes to bringing a guy home my family would much prefer if I brought a Hispanic boy as opposed to Black-American because we have much more in common culturally like with our music and food and how we're taught to treat our men.
The problem is I'll get a lot of attention from them, they'll tell me I'm pretty for a black girl and express their attraction, but where I live they seem almost hesitant to try for more...almost as if they're afraid I won't be into them which is crazy since I'm always around them!
Of course everyone is different, but I like Hispanic men and many of my friends do too. Especially if he has an accent that just makes me weak lol! I personally rarely date outside of my race because I'm worried about what the guy thinks. I usually am like he might not like black girls so I never make a move or show interest. That is probably true for a lot of girls and that's why we just stick to our own, but yeah I would go out with a Hispanic guy.
I live in Chicago, and I am on the border of a Black and Hispanic neighborhood. I am Latino mixed with other past blood lines. I do like black girls, but I do not think most of the black woman do not like Latinos, so I intend to back off sometimes. I do talk to some of the black girls that I really like, and we talk normally, but if she does not meet me half way... I would then feel I am getting turned down. I have been single for 11yrs, and upon my return to dating, I would very much like a black woman.
Short answer: Sometimes.
Long answer: Depends on which girl and which guy.
Flirt with them and see who flirts back.
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Ok so my current boyfriend is Mexican one of the most beautiful Mexican men to me. When I first met him I liked him but never was approached in a serious manor by any other Hispanic guys so I ended up letting him go as I got older and opened my mind I realized that there were Hispanic men that actually really liked black women so years later I ended up approaching him and putting all thoughts behind me and go after him and I'm as happy as I could ever be. But I to wonder why I don't see to many Hispanic men with black women I honestly believe Hispanic guys have to attract a black women with awareness to urban culture my boyfriend has grown up in a black environment so its easy to relate to each other and that strengthens our relationship.
I'm black and I like hispanic guys and lots of my friends do. I guess it all depends on where you are. The places where I've been, there aren't many hispanic guys. Back in high school my friends and I used to watch telenovelas and we used to day dream about how it would be like to meet a Miguel or an Antonio.
So, don't give up, you will find a pretty black girl.My current bf is Honduran and my previous bf was Cuban, so I'd say yeah. But not every black girl likes Hispanic men, just like not every Hispanic man likes black women. For me, personality matters more than race, so I'd say if you want to go after a black woman, more power to you lol. good luck! :D
Yeah,a good amount of us do but I have some black friends who won't date outside the race, too.
A lot of us do, though.i love hispanic guys I get a lot of attention from them but never dated one and would love to they are very sweet and passionate and attractive
Well, I've been with my hispanic boyfriend for 5 almost 6 years now, and I mean... Its been amazing. I'm a black girl and I thought that when we first started out that we wouldn't have been together for so long, but we have. And like 'inlovewithamexican' , my boyfriend grew up in a black community in New York, and I'm British so, we constantly say "what the hell" how did we end up in love. Personally, I am more attracted to his culture and his heritage, than any other race apart from my own.I believe it depends more upon the person you attract rather than how they you think they percieve you. Not all black girls will be attracted to Hispanic men, but some maybe. It just depends on the people involved and if you "click".
@Saulito YES! YES! YES! ... I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOU GUYS MORE THAN ANY GUY! :))) It would just be sooo awesome if more would approach us black women. With me... I honestly just don't know what it is. Perhaps its cultural difference. I communicate with more latinos in my field of work than any other race. I've even heard two guys in front of me that don't speak English "ella es bonita." Then... NOTHING. I've even caught others peeking back a few x's. Even if it's broken English, us sistas still want you to holla :))) I've been observant for several years since in Charlotte NC fr NY. I'm frustrated at this point. So, I thought of an idea as I was writing this. Every once in a while I'm gonna start asking a cutie where a good Spanish restaurant is or something. I LOVE Spanish food too :))) Pollo w/ arroz con gandules, or some good pupusas or tamales lol. Then, IF it should lead to something I can reveal the truth. "I had to help you talk to me lol.
I myself prefer Hispanic or Latino men over my own race. I don't know exactly why that is. I feel when I see a handsome Hispanic man I myself will look once and don't think twice about it because I feel they would never ve interested in me. Although, for the past 2years I've dated only Hispanic men.
I believe it takes a certain type of Latino. Black girls really love the manliness of "Real Black Men". And their dominance. The Reals ones, now. Not the Trendies you see on TV or the ones out here following. So it would take a Hispanic of that same nature. WHICH THERE ARE MANY, almost as many as blacks--maybe more. However, those are the ones restricted to just their women and hard for us to find. So there you have it.
I'm not attracted to hispanic men(ricki martin ect) they look like white guys with a tan to me. But I'm white so I can't say what a black woman might like.
I looovee Hispanic men! I don't care about what people would think once I start dating outside of my race. Love has no color! I'm for interracial relationships. 😉
i'm black and I've dated a bunch of hispanic guys that's all I dated hispanic and black that's what I tend to like the most
I'm black and my ex boyfriend is hispanic. I've been around hispanics my whole life so it's no problem for me.
OF course I would date an hispanic guy because most of them are a gentlemen
I'm a black female who finds hispanic guys pretty hot I love the whole foreign look! I also find myself very attracted to Pakistan guys! But I only dated white or black guys
I'd rather date one than a white guy that's for sure!
I'm more into the Black Latinos thoughI have no racial preference and I’ve seen plenty of celebrity Hispanic men who I’ve been attracted to as a black woman
Personally i love Spanish guys. I can never talk about them with my frieds because they like black guys. I've dated a Puerto Rican before he was so sweet and cute.
im black(ethiopian :] ) and I wouldn't mind at all to go out with a hispanic chicoo ;)
i think you guys are really cutee..!btw I live in italy so I think it would be kinda hard..:(I'm Salvadoran and I love Black women, I think they are some of the most beautiful girls in the world... And I've found out that they do like Hispanic men. if you talk to them and you make them laugh you shour can get you a date.
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