I had a dream my girlfriend had sex with a good friend of mine

[Kenival]

Okay so I had a dream where my girlfriend had sex with one of my really good friends and it went like this.

We're at my friends house, and it's kinda of big and has a lot of floors. So were all hangin' out, drinkin and all that and my friend comes up to me to tell me my girlfriend is waiting for my upstairs. Now, the house has two separate staircases, one leads straight up to the last floor and the other is a normal staircase. I took the wrong one and went all the way up to find out my girlfriend wasn't there, so I went back down and took the other staircase. I go up, go into a room to see my friend and my girlfriend completely naked in missionary position having sex.

Also, today I woke up and remembered another dream with my girlfriend. She usually sneaks out of her house at night to go hang out with me, her dad is very strict and if she's caught, he will go apeshit on the both of us. The dream was short; her dad called her while she was out and told her he found out she isn't home. She started crying, and that's all I could remember.

May anyone please explain what these dreams could mean?

P.s. These dreams were two nights in a row, at it seems that I only remember my dreams after smoking marijuana and going to sleep. I don't smoke weed often but we blazed two days in a row and both days I had these dreams.

[smhbeast]

Don't feel bad cause I have those kind of dreams about my boyfriend, except I am living with him. Most of the time you dream about your worst fears and shit that could happen. Being high before you go to bed I don't think has anything really to do with it (at least when I did do it in the past I was never affected by it.) But everyone is different. If anything you need to talk to her about the dreams cause if you do flip out one day for her just hanging out then she will probably be pissed and think you don't trust her. If you don't have trust in a relationship then you really don't have nothing.

[thatssotera]

I used to have a lot of vivid bad dreams about losing my family when I smoked weed and lived away from them. I couldn't see then how lonely I was living without my family (as shown in my dreams), until a friend pointed it out. When I moved back in and spent more time with them, the bad feelings between us and the bad dreams went away. If you're afraid of hurting or losing your girlfriend, as it seems you are, you should try to spend more time with her. Even if you think you can't work things out, time can help to heal things.

[Reeses-pieces777]

It's just a dream and you should still be vigilent and see how she is acting around you to cause you subconsciously think she'd do this, furthermore you might be paranoid, if not, it's all good, it's just a dream

[Anonymous]

Am a christian and sometimes God has a wsy of talking to us. When i first met my gf i jokinly told her she wss having sex with two different guys, snd we both laughed about it. Guess what in exactly a year time she did that. So I do believe in dreams. Is a way of God vommunicating with us. So listen to your guts.

[l-hedoniste]

This is best discussed with a shrink, but I notice that in both dreams, a lapse in judgement caused your girlfriend to be found in a compromising position.

I know neither you nor your girl well enough to know what that means, but that's what I spot.

[liltabbixxo]

mood-altering substances ( marijuana.) and dreams go together like this: there are certain substances that impact our REM( dream sleep stage) for better and the worse and obviously for you it is for the worse. That would explain those bad dreams.

[Halana]

My boyfriend accused me of cheating on him because he had a similar dream to this. He told me "it was pitch black and I was asleep, moments later I woke up but I was still asleep, and i saw him on you, naked ad both moaning, and I couldn't move or talk, I was just angry and scared.
I have no idea what his dream meant..

[ArtyC]

Freud would say; your feeling guilty about something. Your afraid her dad is going to find out about you. Just like you afraid of catching her with another guy.

[Anonymous]

Well, I had a $EX dream about my best friends girlfriend, Sarah. We were at her house, and she walked in the bedroom after taking a shower. She dropped her towel; letting me see her whole naked body. I immediately got an erection!!! She asked if I wanted to fuck? I sad was still a virgin. She said that's OK. I walked over to her and said I really wanted her to suck my dick. She said OK and then "Whoo-hoow"!!! YES!!!

[Anonymous]

Perhaps it's just your fears coming to realization and becoming 'real' in your dreams. You fear your girlfriend having sex with a friend of yours, and her getting caught sneeking out.

Oh, and the Marijuana could be a cause of the dreams aswell.